In their view, as long as two people love each other, there is no insurmountable difficulty.
However, love is a matter for two people, while marriage involves two families. Therefore, once parents are dissatisfied with each other, they will always stand up and persuade her to break up.
But people who fall in love, how can they listen to their parents easily, and will "struggle" with their parents for love.
Many parents try their best to break up this "inappropriate" lover for the sake of their children's happiness, which leads to many tragedies. Some people betray their parents, and some even die physically.
The case of burying a corpse in Yongding River, Shijingshan District, Beijing is a case in which a divorced mother is very dissatisfied with her daughter's boyfriend, but her daughter makes up her mind and vows not to break up.
For the sake of her daughter's happiness, the mother tried to prove that her future son-in-law was a "playboy". As expected, my daughter's boyfriend was cheated and found her trouble again and again.
When the future son-in-law killed his mother-in-law, this chaotic relationship ended in tragedy. Why is the mother-in-law so angry with her daughter's boyfriend? How did this happen?
Chen Haiyan (pseudonym) is a divorced mother who lives in a certain district of Shijingshan. As early as 1985, when my daughter Chen Jing (a pseudonym) was only three years old, she divorced her husband for having an affair.
After the divorce, Chen Haiyan did not remarry, but devoted all her energy and feelings to her daughter.
Fortunately, Chen Haiyan's efforts paid off. Her daughter is not only beautiful, but also studies well. In 2000, she was admitted to a famous university in Beijing.
Because of her unhappy marriage, Chen Haiyan has been educating her daughter that "men are afraid of going into the wrong line and women are afraid of marrying the wrong person". You can't just find one person in the future, you should choose carefully.
In 2000, she did well in the college entrance examination and was admitted to a famous university. After years of hard study, Chen Chen was finally admitted to the university, so she signed up for a tour group to relax in Beidaihe.
On the trip, a man from Beijing proposed to Chen Yan. The man named Zhuo Yan (a pseudonym) claimed to be the manager of a computer company in Zhongguancun.
At that time, Chen Jingcai 18 years old was an innocent girl without any love experience. Zhuo Yan is an old hand in love. He speaks sweet words and promises eternal love. Within a few days, he succeeded in winning Chen Jing's heart and they lived together.
After paying for the first time, Chen Jing made a thorough determination of Zhuo Yan, and it's not that he won't marry in this life. After returning from Beidaihe, Chen Jing's excitement was beyond words. She couldn't help laughing at the thought of Zhuo Yan.
After Chen Haiyan realized that her daughter was different, she finally learned about her love affair by stopping asking questions. Chen Haiyan said anxiously and angrily, "How much do you know about him? What if I am cheated? "
When Chen Jing first started dating, she couldn't let her mother speak ill of her boyfriend. She immediately retorted, "You don't have to worry about me." Because their daughters fell in love, mother and daughter began a cold war.
A few days later, Chen Haiyan offered to "meet this Zhuo Yan". Zhuo Yan was fully prepared for the first time. Not only is the gift ready, but he also dresses himself up very handsomely.
Zhuo Yan told Chen Haiyan that because his family was poor, he made his own money without going to college. Now he runs a computer company in partnership with his friends, and he can make a lot of money in a month.
After meeting for the first time, Chen Haiyan had a very good impression of Zhuo Yan. But soon, Chen Haiyan took advantage of her daughter's coming home to force her to break up with Zhuo Yan.
During this period, Chen Haiyan asked Zhuo Yan's bottom line everywhere, only knowing that Zhuo Yan was not a "manager" at all. He just helped others assemble computers and didn't make much money. His life depends entirely on the help of his parents, even losing his usual job. This is a standard "poor boy".
Chen Haiyan said sincerely and earnestly, "such a person will have to suffer hardships if he marries him. Let's leave as soon as possible."
Chen Jing was shocked by her mother's words. She didn't expect Zhuo Yan to cheat her. But Zhuo Yan is her first love after all, and she is just penniless. She can earn more money in the future. So Chen Jing was unmoved and insisted that she would not marry anyone unless she married Zhuo Yan.
Since then, Chen Haiyan has repeatedly forced her daughter to break up, which not only failed, but stimulated her daughter's "rebellious" psychology, and her relationship with Zhuo Yan became closer every day.
One day, when Chen Haiyan came back from work, she met Zhuo Yan and her daughter. Chen Haiyan was heartbroken when he saw the mess on the bed. She secretly vowed in her heart that for the sake of her daughter's happiness, she must "stick to the mandarin ducks" and break them up.
Chen Haiyan thinks that since her daughter doesn't abandon Zhuo Yan and pursue progress, she can only find another way. Her daughter has always resented her father because her husband cheated her.
If Zhuo Yan proves to be a slut, her daughter will definitely leave him.
After making up his mind, Chen Haiyan found several women and wanted them to test Zhuo Yan, but no one wanted to do so. Finally, having no choice, Chen Haiyan decided to go into battle in person and reveal the true face of this "prospective son-in-law".
In order to do this, Chen Qizhen pretended to change his mind and invited Zhuo Yan to his house many times. In this way, the rigid relationship between the two people will be eased and they can communicate calmly.
In August 2002, Chen Jing and her classmates went to Tianjin and stayed there for two days. Chen Haiyan seized the opportunity to invite Zhuo Yan to eat at home alone.
That night, Chen Haiyan was dressed up and had the charm of a mature woman. She took the initiative to drink with Zhuo Yan, crying to be a single mother. Under the paralysis of alcohol, Zhuo Yan looked at Chen Haiyan's tears and felt pity, patting her shoulder to comfort her.
Finally, Chen Haiyan stood out and won the victory of Zhuo Yan. The next morning, Zhuo Yan woke up and left in panic. That day, Zhuo Yan felt sorry for his girlfriend, but he also felt really ridiculous. How could he do such a thing?
But when night fell, Chen Haiyan invited him to dinner again, and Zhuo Yan agreed to the evil spirit's invitation. This time, instead of drinking, they cheated on each other.
After Chen Jing came back from Tientsin, Zhuo Yan felt guilty and kept avoiding her. Zhuo Yan's sudden neglect puzzled Chen Chen. She had no choice but to cry to her mother.
While comforting her daughter, Chen Haiyan promised to talk to Xiaoyan.
Chen Haiyan found Zhuo Yan and said bluntly, "I didn't expect you to be such a person. You take the initiative to leave my daughter, or I will warn you of rape. "
Although Zhuo Yan is an old hand in love, he is only 20 years old after all. When he heard that Chen Haiyan was going to call the police, he was so frightened that he agreed to break up at once.
Since then, Zhuo Yan and Chen Jing have drifted apart. No matter how much Chen Jing cried, he dared not explain. Finally, Chen Jing couldn't stand the "cold violence" and offered to break up.
In Yan Jiehe's view, he has always loved Chen Jing, and hopes to wait for a period of time until they all calm down, and then restore relations. But Chen Haiyan didn't give him a chance to leave. After her daughter broke up, she immediately introduced her daughter to an object.
Chen Jing met another woman, but Zhuo Yan didn't know it. 65438+One day in February 2002, Zhuo Yan came to Chen Haiyan's house and cried and begged Chen Haiyan to "let him go" and let him continue their love.
But Chen Haiyan was unmoved and said earnestly, "As long as you don't fall in love with my daughter, you can talk about anything." You are the second man in my life, and I won't be too heartless. "
That night, the two chatted late into the night and drank a lot of wine. Zhuo Yan once again lost herself and fell into the tenderness of Chen Haiyan.
The next morning, Yan Yan woke up and saw Chen Chen taking pictures with a camera. Chen Haiyan told Zhuo Yan that she could do anything for her daughter. If Zhuo Yan still pesters Chen Jing, she will give the photos to the police.
Zhuo Yan was really scared this time. He quickly put on his clothes and ran out of Chen Haiyan's house.
Zhuo Yan is still in fantasy. He tried to find Chen Jing, but she didn't see him. There is no way but to ask Chen Haiyan again.
On February 20th, 2003, Zhuo Yan drank a lot and found Chen Haiyan's home. He begged Chen Haiyan again, asking her to let Chen Jing see him.
However, Chen Haiyan told him that his daughter was seeing someone, and he was dead. If she pesters him again, she will call the police.
After learning that Chen Jing was dating someone, Zhuo Yan was completely desperate. On the contrary, he thinks that Chen Haiyan has a photo in his hand, which is always a handle.
Zhuo Yan felt that his life was ruined, and it was Chen Haiyan who started it. So under the paralysis of alcohol, Zhuo Yan went crazy, and he asked Chen Haiyan to hand over the photos.
After being rejected, Zhuo Yan jumped on Chen Yan, grabbed her by the neck, dragged her into the bedroom and covered her head with a pillow. She didn't let go until Chen Yongjun stopped struggling.
It took Zhuo Yan a long time to wake up after the murder. He cleaned up the place and created the illusion that Chen Haiyan was "going out". Then, he removed Chen Haiyan's body and buried it on the bank of Yongding River.
Chen Jing returned home and found that there was neither her mother's passbook nor her ID card. She thought her mother had gone on a trip, but she didn't pay much attention. Chen Jing can't contact her mother for more than ten days. She realized that something was wrong and called the police.
However, Zhuo Yan handled the scene very well. The investigators found that it didn't matter, and no one knew about the chaotic relationship between Zhuo Yan and Chen Haiyan, so no one doubted Zhuo Yan from beginning to end, and this case became an unsolved case for some time.
After the murder, Zhuo Yan was so worried and nervous that he had to drink all day to paralyze himself. Once after drinking with a friend, Zhuo Yan said to his friend, "I killed my mother-in-law and buried her in Yongding River."
My friend thought Zhuo Yan said he was drunk, but he didn't take it to heart. After Zhuo Yan woke up, he didn't remember what he said, and the two of them no longer mentioned it.
But in 2007, this friend was arrested for stealing. In order to reduce his sentence, he told investigators what Zhuo Yan said after drinking. Chen Haiyan's disappearance case is finally closed.
Zhuo Yan was finally caught and confessed his crime. On February 23rd, 65438, Yan Jiehe was sentenced to death with a two-year suspension.
Chen Haiyan loved her daughter so much that she did not hesitate to test her husband and finally died here. Parents are understandably worried about their children's marriage, but they should also be prepared to avoid similar tragedies.