What is real stagnation? We should continue to work hard, clear our minds and meditate. This is the real accumulation of wealth. There is a saying in the Analects of Confucius, don't be too hasty, don't see small profits, haste makes waste, and see small profits achieve great things. Today, we are going to plant the seeds of big trees. Big trees need time to sprout and grow up slowly. If we are anxious to see the results, we will only plant leeks one after another.

The "thickness" of cultivating and accumulating wealth should be the thickness of morality. Only by accumulating a lot of virtue can we achieve greater career in the future. The teacher also corrected many misunderstandings, such as being a late bloomer and accumulating wealth. Is it necessary to criticize such a young fame? Actually, it's not. There are three main points:

1, we pay attention to the heart, not let children buy beautiful clothes and learn skills to please others, but their hearts are really full and kind. Do you have enough nutrition in your heart?

2. From the perspective of the whole life, no matter at which stage, we should constantly cultivate our own hearts.

3. bide your time. When it's time to keep a low profile, we should wait quietly. When it's time to make contributions, you should do your part.

Question:

The eldest daughter grew up beside the old man and lacked maternal love. At the age of 65,438+00, he was separated from his mother, which led to hatred for his mother. Now, after graduating from college, she won't get along with others or communicate with her family. She has found several jobs and is unwilling to do so. She is locked in her room and plays games every day.

A: Children playing games and watching plays are only the symptoms of the problem. What is the underlying reason? There are three reasons to play games:

First, escape from reality. Second, playing games has a sense of accomplishment. Many teenagers with internet addiction will invariably mention the importance of family ties and relationships, which often really tests their parents' wisdom.

Do you really love your children unconditionally? Do you still love your child even if he is deeply involved in bad behavior habits? If the answer is yes, you may have to ask yourself, is it the cause of bad behavior in the past?

Children who grow up in a bad family environment will naturally choose to escape. This is not to say that children are irresponsible, but once the reasons are attributed to children, they will lose the initiative as parents.

90% young people also want to change their parents' habits. My parents are always complaining and pointing out their lives. Back to ourselves, have we listened carefully to my parents' needs? My parents asked me, is it really so difficult? Love is mutual, and changing yourself is a shortcut to change the world.

At the same time, it is mentioned that parents can raise money with their children, do family strategies for ten years, and do our family meetings at a fixed time every week to express their gratitude and love for each other. When we create such an environment to make children feel safe, happy and confident, and give affirmation in time, there is no need for games.

Outcome: If there is a beautiful place in the afterlife, it is necessary to breed the future. Heaven does not converge or diverge. Anyone here? The flowers in Chiba are not real, because they are so beautiful. My good nephews don't take my words as pedantry, so they can make progress.