There are several levels in life. The first level, that is, the most basic, is kindness, integrity, and distinguishing right from wrong. This level is the foundation of life, and everything is empty talk if it fails to meet the requirements; The second level, sublimated from the first level, has certain artistry, such as euphemism, smiling at others, not showing it to people you don't like, taking care of others' emotions and so on. At this level, you will be likable, you will never lack friends, you are sincere friends; The third level is more difficult. Is to be a person with a complete purpose. For example, because of a certain working relationship, you must have a good relationship with some people, but for you, it is not out of your own emotional needs, or even a sense of rejection of very few people. But if you can make them willing to help, you will succeed. This is the relationship and connections of China people.
Doing things is a person's job, and doing it well is also very important. In the process of doing things, there are several very important qualities that must be possessed, such as being serious, meticulous, meticulous, not complaining, self-motivated and so on. In a word, you should try your best to eliminate all external interference and do your job well.
It should be noted that being a man and doing things are not completely isolated two independent bodies. Being a man is sometimes for doing things, and sometimes doing things can also have the emotional color of being a man. It is better to combine the two skillfully. As far as importance is concerned, it is still necessary to reiterate that being a man is more important. Specifically, doing things is almost as important as being a second level. If doing things conflicts with the first and third levels, it is not difficult to judge which is more important, but it depends on the situation.
Wish you success!