I had dinner with a female classmate last night. She is a gynecologist. Speaking of work pressure, she said that obstetrics and gynecology is the busiest department in their hospital now. Every day, there are college students who choose to have an abortion because of pregnancy. It's really tiring. In addition, she also said that it is really distressing to see these young girls. How can I fall in love with each other well? How can they harm their health? Nowadays, college students lack self-esteem and self-protection education.
Falling in love is very common in college, and some people even say that not falling in love during college is an incomplete college life. We cannot say that this view is unreasonable. But I want to say that everything should be measured. No matter how much I love you, or whether I neglect my studies, it may not matter to my parents, but dear children, you should protect my own body! Everyone has been impulsive when they are young, but how can you be irrational and not cherish the critical moment when you are weak and influenced by your parents?
The pregnancy of junior students is actually a very difficult problem, and they will soon face postgraduate entrance examination, internship, writing papers and choosing jobs. If we can't deal with the problem quickly at this time, it will seriously affect college life, even four years of college. From the perspective of parents, I think you should do this:
1, if your parents are very strict and afraid that they can't bear the result, then don't tell your parents, but you must tell the boy's parents for two purposes:
First, the elders are experienced in life, and they know how to help you solve problems and take care of you, which will not affect the study of boys.
Second, look at the attitude of boys' parents. You can always see human nature at critical moments. If the boy's parents are cold at this time, I think your love can end. Prejudice is sometimes in your bones.
No matter what you think, you must resolutely give up the baby in your belly. Because you have a long way to go in the future, whether you can finally get together is still a big question mark. There is no need to let a seed that is still gestating become a burden that limits your freedom.
3. Don't handle it yourself or tell your parents directly. Be sure to tell the boy's parents. This is the principle. If your parents are gentle and healthy, you can also tell them that they are their own daughters and can get better care, which is a good thing.
In short, when problems arise, you should face them bravely, and don't look back and forth. After all, your body is your own, something that will affect you for a lifetime, and it is also the most testing thing. Everyone's nature is exposed at this critical moment. Come on!
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