The environment is created by the mind. Whether a person's situation is bitter or happy is often subjective. Some people are satisfied with a certain life, while others can't. Therefore, those who can be content with the status quo may wish to live like this, and those who can't have to find another way. You can't be sure where your success lies, nor can you be sure whether you will be happy at a certain point. Some people will never be satisfied, and their happiness can only be established in the process of constant pursuit and struggle, so their goals are constantly moving away. Such people may have less happiness, but they may have great achievements. Bitterness and pleasure are both judged by ourselves, and they are not necessarily directly related to the objective environment. Just like a woman who doesn't love jewelry, even in an environment that attaches great importance to vanity, it won't hurt her self-esteem. The poor scholar with thousands of books doesn't want to exchange diamonds or stocks with millionaires. People who are satisfied with rural life do not envy any scholar's honorary title or senior official. Your hobby is your direction, your interest is your capital, and your temperament is your destiny. Everyone has an ideal heaven and a world of flowers and flowers that they are willing to enjoy. A friend of Dahe Xiaoxiao talked about his relative's aunt, who never wears shoes that fit her, and often walks around in huge shoes. If her son and younger generation ask her, she will say, "All shoes are at the same price, why not buy a big one?" Every time I tell this story, some people laugh their heads off. In fact, we will see many such "aunts" in our lives. Writers who have no thoughts only write heavy and bitter works; Painters without content only draw super-huge paintings; Businessmen who often go out have big homes. Many people are constantly pursuing greatness, which is actually driven by inner greed, just like buying oversized shoes and forgetting their own feet. No matter what shoes you buy, it is most important to fit. No matter what you pursue, enough is enough. A person's life is often in a choice, such as: which university to go to? What kind of occupation do you choose? What kind of woman do you marry? ..... and so on. A person's decision-making power can tell whether his personality is mature or not. It is those who have no ideas and don't suffer from choice. Because when making a decision, he always asks others, "Hey, what do you think?" Anyone who can make a big difference is a person with strong choice. He knows that the success or failure of a thing depends on who can't do it for you, let alone decide it for you. At the moment of choice, success or failure has already appeared. People are like this all their lives. I often use the phrase "people are like this all their lives" to warn myself and convince my friends. These seven words are easy to say and sound simple, but they are profound to remember. It can make me brave when I am weak, humble when I am proud, positive when I am decadent, happy when I am in pain, and let go of everything, so I call it "a blow to the head" and "seven-character proverbs". -I often think that the hardships, troubles, grievances and grievances in this world, if any, can't be solved and digested. Will they disappear in just a few decades? If so, what can't be solved? People have been thinking about this sentence all their lives. If I were a hero, I would make greater achievements. If I were a scholar, I would gain higher knowledge. If I love someone, I will tell her boldly. Because today is the past and will never come again; After this life, everything disappears. If you haven't read a book and said a word, you'll never get another chance. This is a precious life, and I must seize it! People are like this for a lifetime, and you can actively grasp it; You can also face it calmly. Think about it, and you will be relieved! Think about it when the spirit is decadent, and you can be grateful! Because in any case, it is always lucky to have this life, and you can't come for nothing. Smile like a flower, love like a flower, hope like a flower, and life like a flower. Everyone has his favorite flowers, and everyone has many reasons to be kind to himself and condense his life into lasting fragrance in the long river of time. The moment it blooms, it will attract all eyes. Flowers are so weak, no matter how beautiful or gorgeous, they still can't stand the cold rain and wind at night. Chunhong quickly thanked her, leaving only sadness. Flowers are beautiful soldiers. Although I am getting younger and fatter in the wind and rain, I never bow my head after all. Life is the same, like a delicate glass, which can't stand the impact of natural and man-made disasters and breaks into a bright light. Every piece is a transparent heart. Life is often like a epiphyllum. With years of tears and sweat, mixed with painstaking efforts, there will be a moment to laugh at the world. In today's world, fewer and fewer people love flowers. When people are running for a living, they can't even grasp their own life. Who will listen to Hua? However, restless city, please don't forget that this world is a mirage. Everything is like flowers, and flowers are like everything. Therefore, the Buddha touched the flowers and Ye Jiaxiao; This smile is the world. Life, life, may be the only factor in the universe that should be worshipped. The gestation, birth and presentation of the essence of life is an extremely exciting process. Life, like music and pictures, has a predetermined hue or blood color in secret. When it meets the impact of the spring tide, when it hears the urging of the horn, it will suddenly be full of vitality, revealing its gorgeous and enthusiastic nature. Of course, this essence is more likely to be mean, cowardly and boring; Its owner has no choice. It should be admitted that life is hope. It should be said that meanness and vulgarity should not be prematurely complacent, and should not be mistaken for having successfully eliminated nobility and purity. Camouflage can't last long, because time is like a long river, and despicable people, profiteers and vulgar sticks can't always wear the laurels of educators, poets and soldiers. At the end of their unimpeded career, their descendants will feel humiliated for a long time. I worship life. I worship the secret of noble life. I worship the fireworks when life is born, grown, fought, disabled and sacrificed. I worship the freedom of a living soul floating in mountains, rivers, oceans and continents. Yes, life is hope. It floats and is free, so that mankind will always have a small fish who is unwilling to fail and pursues his own golden pasture idea without regrets. Every pond smells of the ocean, and every stone has the shadow of a desert. So the poet said: a clover, plus my imagination, is a vast grassland. Walking in the field of autumn moon, I remembered a poet's inquiry to old Tolstoy: Does everything/maturity/hang its head? Yes, every step we have taken will become the past, whether it is a happy meeting or a painful parting, but please believe that every song we have sung will not disappear in an instant, whether it is eager expectation or affectionate memories, as rosa luxemburg said: "Wherever I go, as long as I live, the sky, clouds and the beauty of life will be with me!" A narrow and selfish mind will become its own hell, while a broad and cheerful mind will become a paradise for others. There is only one layer between hell and heaven. And all the flames of jealousy always start with burning yourself. An old writer told me, "How long has your foot been trampled?" ? But don't regret it, as long as you step on the truth, whoever steps on it will have depth. "When you finally win the flower of success, don't you miss the intersection of the past? Don't you miss the old wood in the luxurious house you rebuilt successfully? It sometimes takes many years to trust someone. Therefore, some people have never really trusted anyone all their lives. It's meaningless if you only trust those who can please you. If you believe everyone you meet, you are a fool; If you trust someone without hesitation and in a hurry, you may be betrayed by the trusted person so soon; If you trust a person only for some superficial need, then annoying suspicion and betrayal may follow immediately; But if you dare not trust someone who is worthy of your trust, you will never get the sweetness of love and the warmth of the world, and your life will be bleak. Trust is a feeling of life, trust is also a noble emotion, and trust is the bond between people. You have an obligation to trust another person unless you can prove that that person is not worthy of your trust; You also have the right to be trusted by another person, unless you are proved to be untrustworthy. There are too many beautiful things in this world for us to count. We always want to get too much and make as many things as possible our own. Life is short as a blink of an eye, and it flows away inadvertently between possession and loss. If you lose the sun, you still have starlight, you lose money, you still have friendship, and when life leaves you, you still have the kiss of the earth. When you have it, cherish it; Lost, as a test of life's true knowledge, as a struggle commitment of bumpy life. If you are honest, you give up hypocrisy; With enrichment, you will abandon boredom; With pragmatism, you will abandon impetuousness. Whether it is intentional abandonment or accidental loss, as long as it is really owned, at some point, isn't generous abandonment also a realm? What you lose inadvertently can be won back. If you are lovelorn, you can find it in spring, but if you lose your will, you should sharpen it in winter. But you can't pick it up without laziness. Too much desire becomes a burden. What can enrich and satisfy oneself more than having an indifferent heart? Choose indifferent, and then prepare to walk a mountain road.

There's really no time to appreciate it, man. I'm sorry