It is difficult to get married in the countryside now. On the one hand, the bride price is rising. On the other hand, many rural boys are also very relaxed. They feel that they don't have to spend all their marriages or carry on the family line.
First, the traditional thinking is serious, resulting in a large number of boys.
Due to the feudal ideology in rural areas, most people like to have boys, which leads to a serious imbalance between men and women. There are more boys than girls, so many boys can't find wives. Now this situation is getting more and more serious.
Second, the standard of mate selection for girls has become higher.
Because there are few girls now, everyone wants to marry, so the competition is fierce. There are many boys, so girls don't have to worry about not getting married, so the conditions for choosing a spouse are getting higher and higher. Some college students will not choose junior high school, and those who have houses in the city will not choose the countryside, so many rural girls also marry in the city, making it even more difficult for rural families to marry wives.
Third, the cost of marriage in rural areas has become higher.
Now that the countryside is getting married, many people want to have a house in the city. The house is not a small number. Many rural families earn a little money by farming. Where can they buy a house in the city? Many people need a bride price because of this, basically hundreds of thousands, so many rural boys can't help being single, the old farmer said helplessly.
Nowadays, it has become a social status quo that it is difficult for rural dolls to get married. Because there are many problems, it is really difficult to solve in a short time. Therefore, we should face the reality, have a good attitude and strive to improve ourselves. When we are truly capable, there will be no shortage of objects.