But Mr. Media still wants to tell you,
Don't mix up the things you once hated in the best years.
Let alone live up to the infinite opportunities that this era has given you.
If you don't seek truth and learn,
What's the point of going to college without practicing real skills?
The following media jun will tell you about it.
In college,
Eight things you must know and do.
1
Learn self-discipline
Self-discipline can bring you not only academic progress, but also spiritual enjoyment. Self-disciplined people are not necessarily excellent, but excellent people must be self-disciplined. Haruki Murakami has been writing and running every day for more than 30 years. He treats writing like punching in, no more, no less, ten pages a day. Some people say that Haruki Murakami is a genius writer. In fact, no matter whether people are geniuses or not, they can throw ordinary people a few streets by decades of self-discipline.
2
Have your own goals.
The goal is motivation, just like traveling, there is always a destination, so you can know which bus to take! The goal can be how many books to read a year, or trying to get a scholarship and so on. You may not like specialized courses, but I hope you will take them seriously. If you can do what you don't like well, you can do what you like better.
three
Cultivate one's interest
University is really a good place to develop hobbies. High school should finish hobbies in college, because there is no time to cultivate them. Dance, guitar, guzheng, singing, etc. Whatever interests you, do it! Moreover, Mr. Media wants to tell you that only the university is a place where you can learn these hobbies without spending a penny. Only in the university can you have enough time to develop your hobbies. The point is that when you graduate and look for a job, you will know the importance of hobbies.
four
Read more books
Maybe after reading for half a year, let's talk about it. You may forget the names of the characters in it, but why do so many people say reading is useful? Writer Jiang once said in a program: "If a person doesn't study, his values have to be decided by his relatives and friends." In the process of reading, you can have a spiritual dialogue with a great writer like Lu Xun, so as to gain knowledge that you can't get in the surrounding environment. This is undoubtedly a spiritual journey. If the body and spirit are on the road, let the spirit move on!
five
It is ok to fall in love, but it is best to grow up together.
A good relationship can make us not feel lonely on the way to hard work. So, in college, enjoy the beauty of love.
But remember, take love seriously and don't start a relationship casually. A good relationship must be a relationship of growth and mutual achievement. Good love can make people grow up quickly, while bad love can make people fall easily. Gao said, "What is a good feeling? Is to make ourselves better, which is the most important thing. What is a better self? It is a virtuous self, a sincere self and an open self. This is the most important thing in life, not falling in love. Each of us has become better, and this is the best relationship. Love between two free souls is the best love. "
six
It is better to please yourself than to please others.
The better people are, the more lonely they feel. So don't please those who are not worth it because of loneliness. In this world, no two people have exactly the same idea. Everyone has different experiences and different ways of thinking, which doomed us to be unable to be understood by many people. So, don't blindly rely on other people's opinions and visions. But we should still get along well with the people around us. Because being alone is a character, and being kind to others is a kind of accomplishment.
seven
Don't bother others if you can do it yourself.
An educated person never gives others trouble at will. Depend on your parents, and your parents will never be with you for a lifetime; Relying on friends, friends will eventually travel far; Rely on the teacher, but you are not the only student. So, all your life, you can always rely on yourself. However, I hope you understand that in group activities, relying on others is not disturbing others, but cooperating with each other and occasionally disturbing others. In fact, it is also an activity to enhance the feelings between people.
eight
Love yourself
As the saying goes, loving yourself is the beginning of a happy life. The world is so complicated that everyone has his own things to do. Instead of waiting for others to love him, learn to respect and love yourself, so that you can live high! No matter how troubled the world is, we should always be kind to ourselves, let our hearts calm down, get out of the past, find our original self and meet a better one, and happiness will come unexpectedly! It's great not to worry about the past or the future!
University for four years, not to mention more efforts to become a successful person, but also to rely on their own efforts to get scholarships!
Some pictures and texts come from the Internet.
Producer: Huang Jean Zeng Di