1, we need to change the word, modify it, and change our thinking.
The most basic communication between people is language. If we speak without art, or if we don't speak properly, it will be difficult to get others' good opinion of ourselves. In terms of personality, if the habits are heavy, vicious and bad-hearted, and Jaken, jealousy, stupidity and arrogance remain unchanged, it will be difficult to improve moral cultivation. Therefore, we must learn to constantly improve, change our own words, modify and change our own thoughts, so as to make continuous progress.
2, should teach, suffer, suffer indignities.
On the road of life, why can some people make continuous progress, while others retreat instead of advancing? The problem is that he can't stand it. This is the same as learning to read. Some people make progress easily because they are willing to accept it. Some people tend to go backwards because they can't get in. In the process of deepening self-cultivation, we must first learn to be educated. To be educated is to absorb things into your own mind and then digest them into your own thoughts.
3. Dare to speak, do and be human.
Some people dare not express their ideas, and dare not publish them in public when they have opinions, so they can only talk privately; Dare not do anything. If you dare not be responsible, you will not be responsible. If you don't take responsibility, you can't gain others' trust in yourself, and your self-cultivation will not improve. Therefore, as long as it is a good thing, we must learn to dare to speak, dare to do and dare to be human.
4. You should think, think, think.
You must think twice before you do anything. Thought is wisdom, and anything carefully thought out will surely get twice the result with half the effort.
I hope I can help you. Thank you.