If parents give their children enough care, whether mentally or materially, he will feel satisfied, and he will no longer need anything from others, in other words, cultivate his high self-confidence. Parents' care and financial support are enough for children to live without distractions, without thinking about what to get from falling in love with the opposite sex.
Or, I just think that having boys/girls chasing me and falling in love with others can satisfy my vanity. At this time, parents try to talk to their children, making her feel that it is not a good thing to have a boyfriend so early. I believe your inculcation can work, come on! thank you