As the children's first enlightenment teacher, parents' words and deeds have a subtle influence on children, and they play a unique role in the process of educating children. We should be good leaders for children. The following is my personal comments on the lectures on family education in primary and secondary schools. I hope you like them!
Personal thoughts on family education lectures in primary and secondary schools 1 Mom said that many children are not in favor of having a second child now, and some even threaten to commit suicide if their mother has a second child. When my mother said these words, she pretended to glance at me unintentionally. I know my mother's mind.
My mother asked me 860 times if I would have a younger brother or sister. In fact, I like my brothers and sisters very much, because I like other people's children as soon as I see them. "Why did your mother have a second child? If she has a second child, she won't have time to go out with her eldest son! " That's what someone told me.
I am not a selfish child. I even think my mother gave birth to a second child for my own good. You want to! After several years, if I am on a business trip and my mother is ill, I can't come back. My brother or sister can take care of my mother and make me feel at ease. Besides, isn't life so hard? If we really encounter any difficulties, my brother and sister can help each other! This is a wonderful thing.
Instead, I feel a little distressed for my mother!
If in ten years, I will enter the university. In another twenty years, my brother or sister will also be admitted to the university, and my mother will be sixty years old at that time. Then, isn't her youth dedicated to me and my little brother or sister? Someone, like me, asked his mother, "Why do you like dealing with children so much?" ? Is it worthwhile to dedicate precious youth to children? "Mother said," for the sake of children, this life is worth it. "I cried when I heard my mother finish this sentence.
I am so happy to have such a good mother! For the children, she not only dedicated her best years, but even her own life. My mother is really the most selfless mother in the world! So, mom, don't worry anymore. It's up to you whether to have a second child with me or not.
Personal thoughts on family education lectures in primary and secondary schools 2 Adolescent children have rebellious mentality and are prone to conflict with their parents. If parents can't solve contradictions rationally, it is easy to have some problems and even affect their children's life.
Some parents are grumpy and easy to beat and scold their children, which will affect their mental health, make them hate their parents and even society, and even induce crimes. Some parents are stubborn, like to compete with their children and are angry, which is not good. It may make children narrow-minded, grumpy, difficult to accept other people's opinions and self-righteous. Some parents indulge their children, don't beat and scold, let nature take its course, or seldom take care of their children, so some children with poor self-control may learn from others. Therefore, when educating adolescent children, parents should be flexible, grasp their characteristics, control their temper, influence their children with their good outlook on life, and always urge them to be on the right track.
In adolescence, learning is equally important. Generally speaking, it is not too late for children to start learning from grade one, but it is best to start from grade six, so that children can develop the habit of maintaining excellent grades, urge themselves in time, reflect on themselves in time, and not to keep up with the pace of learning. If the child has excellent grades, don't encourage him too much, but explain to him how many children are higher than him in study and how competitive they are, so that the child can be proactive and get better grades without indulging himself. Some children don't want to study, and their grades are behind the average. There is little hope for such a child. They don't know the importance of learning because they lack the correct guidance of their parents, so they muddle along and can't learn knowledge. If it is not corrected in time, most people will work hard when they grow up and life will be very difficult. Therefore, for the sake of children's lives, parents should urge their children to study, learn from the class teacher in time, and prevent children from falling behind. If you can't do this, your children won't have to go to school. Drop out of school quickly and make plans before it's too late.
Adolescence is the most important period in a child's life. Parents should actively participate in their children's education and pave a road of hope for their children.
Today, I went to Ai Jia department store to interview how adults educate their children.
As soon as I entered the supermarket, I stared at an uncle with a little brother. I stepped forward and started my interview with a smile. "Hello, uncle, I'm a little reporter from Tianzhong Evening News. Can you accept my interview? " Uncle readily agreed. "Do you think it is important to communicate with children in the family? Do you think paternalism plays an important role in family education? " My uncle said kindly, "it is of course important to communicate with children, because without communication with children, there is no way to understand their young hearts and conduct correct education." I think paternalism should play an important role in the family. " Uncle changed the subject, his tone faded, and he looked at his little brother affectionately. "But I have too little time. Usually, the mother of the child is tutoring him. I can only bring him to play during the break, and I am sorry for him. " I also think of my father who travels a lot, and my eyes are going red. I quickly changed the subject. "Do you think a good boy will be encouraged? Have you ever thought about your child's feelings when you criticize him? " Uncle smiled. "Of course, it is better for children to be encouraged. Children like to be encouraged. He will do things better, but not everyone is encouraged. He should be criticized for not doing well, but he really didn't consider his feelings when criticizing him. " "Thank you for accepting my interview. You are a good father. " My uncle signed it.
Then I interviewed many parents and an American friend. Although he has no children, from talking with him, I know that family education in the United States is really different from that in China. In the interview, I learned that the reason why our parents in China strictly demand our study is related to our traditional examination methods.
Personal thoughts on family education lectures in primary and secondary schools 4 "Son, I think _ _ cram school is good. Are you going? "
"Whatever!" I answered.
"Don't always be casual, casual!"
"Then-don't go!" I answered happily.
"What? Don't go! " Mom went on to say, "Look at Li _ _, who studied so well, and Wang _ _, who didn't study well but didn't know enough, also went." You little _ _, why don't you go? ……"
You should be familiar with the above passage! Yes, that's what my mother said. She always invades our leisure time at will, and her imperial edict is inviolable forever. Once we popped a word "no" through our teeth, it was her Enemy at the Gates, who gushed, gushed and spat. What is even more frightening is that once this move is launched, our father will also be involved in this war. Although my father may join me, his mother will win no matter which side he joins. Unless we can use tricks to invite grandparents to my barracks, we have a little chance of winning.
Actually, there's nothing I can do. The method is simple. As long as I return a few handsome words, "Look at how many times Mother Wang is softer than you, and look at how many times Mother Li is stronger than you." I am a shoo-in! But victory is victory, but the final result is that although I won, I was defeated. Besides, I don't want to or dare to say those words, because if I say these words, I may get a black and blue reward, and the result is still the same, that is, I have to go to cram school gloomily.
The story I told is an old story, but who can say that it didn't happen and continues to happen in every family? The story here is not only for children, but also for adults. I hope that all parents who have read my story will think about it: "How do you feel when the balance of comparison falls on you?"
Personal thoughts on family education lectures in primary and secondary schools 5. The beauty of family education lies in leaving no trace —— I read the third issue of Felize's Parents' Meeting, and I was delighted to read the useful article Family Education in Felize. Read carefully and feel a lot. I am amazed at Felize's father's studious spirit and thirst for knowledge, and I am also impressed by Felize's father's ingenuity in family education. Felize was named "the most successful entrepreneur in America" by Happiness magazine, and he was the founder and general manager of American digital equipment company. Talking about his success, he said that all this is inseparable from his father's teaching and family education. Phyllis's father firmly believes that his parents are the best teachers for his children. Although he was born in poverty, he dropped out of school and went to work in a factory after only reading the fifth grade, but he regarded society as a school and studied hard. He is interested in everything: he reads all the books, magazines and newspapers he can read, and tries to understand the world outside this remote town. Phyllis's father thinks that the most unforgivable thing about people is that they are as ignorant when they sleep at night as when they wake up in the morning. He often said, "There are too many things to learn. Although we are born ignorant, only fools will be like this forever. " . Listening from ear to ear, my father passed on this studious spirit to my family and children, making everyone at home fall in love with learning.
After a hard day's work, our family sat around and enjoyed a family dinner. Some of us, as parents, think that "we have finally seized the best opportunity to educate our children". From the indecent photos at the dinner table to the deviant in the classroom during the day, I rambled until the child couldn't bear it and reluctantly quit. I don't know that such half-hearted preaching is harmful, and the small dining table has become the birthplace of some "family wars", so there is an old saying that "children are not taught above the dining table" However, Phyllis has a different father. The dining table is actually a place for him to exchange knowledge with his family. Let's watch feliz's father's wonderful tutor class: "feliz, tell me what you learned today?" "What I learned today is the population of Nepal ..." Felize always wondered. No matter what everyone says, his father won't think it's trivial and boring. "What's the population of Nepal? Well, good! " Then the father will look at the mother of the child sitting at the other end of the table. "Mom, do you know the answer?" "Nepal, frankly speaking, I don't know the population of Nepal, and I don't even know its position in the world!" Of course, this answer is just what my father wants. "felize, take the map with you, and we will tell your mother where Nepal is." So, the whole family searched for the location of Nepal on the map together ... Seeing this, we couldn't help but marvel at what Feliz's father did, and the method of educating children was as seamless as snow. But at that time, Ferris was just a child, and he didn't have any insight into the secret of his father's education. It was not until he entered the university and summed up what he had learned from several educators that he discovered that this was exactly what his father had let him know. "If learning is just a child's own business, it may be a kind of labor; If learning is the same thing for children and parents, it becomes a pleasure; When learning becomes everyone's business in a family, it becomes a sweet life. " It is great wisdom in education to make education perfect.
My opinion on family education lectures in primary and secondary schools. Classmate A worked in book wholesale business, partnered with others to open a beauty shop, and later opened a restaurant. Once, she invited several of our classmates to get together in her restaurant. "She has done better than me in the book wholesale industry." Classmate B, who is also engaged in book wholesale business, told us. It is said that classmate B later bought several properties.
I saw her again not long ago. "How is your restaurant business?" I asked. "I turned off my phone and am sitting at home now." She told me. "Don't be comfortable. When I opened the restaurant, my mother-in-law always thought that we had made a lot of money, and she wanted us to pay for anything at home. Now, she often says that we are the most difficult and need everyone's support. Said my child didn't have to pay for college. I am at leisure now. "
As elders, they always want their children to live happily and help each other. However, if the disposal method is improper, it will affect the children's positive and enterprising spirit. The lifestyle of the elders affects the value orientation of the younger generation.
In order to study the influence of mother on children's life, a famous American psychologist selected 50 successful people in the United States and asked them to talk about the influence of mother on themselves. A famous person in the White House wrote: When I was a child, one day my mother brought some apples, red and different sizes. My brothers and I are fighting for the big one. My mother held the biggest and reddest apple in her hand and said to us, "This apple is the biggest, reddest and most delicious, and everyone wants it." Good. Now, let's have a game. I'll divide the lawn in front of the door into three parts, and each of you is responsible for trimming it. Whoever works fastest and best has the right to get it! "
The three of us competed to weed, and I won the biggest apple.
I am very grateful to my mother, who made me understand the simplest and most important truth: to get the best, we must strive for the first place. She has been educating us like this, and she has done the same. In our family, it is fair that you want to win some good things through competition. What you want, how much you want, you have to pay the price!
People can often see such a situation. In biology class, the teacher teaches students to maintain animals, while doing vivisection on animals. Parents told their children the story of Kong Rong letting pears, but when they handed out textbooks, they saw their children take the initiative to get back the dirty books, but they called them stupid. The serious betrayal of real life and educational content will make children wonder and even make them feel the hypocrisy of adults. How can we achieve the educational effect? Real life is the best teaching material for children, and the way teachers and parents do things is the best guidance. Do you realize that?
Personal thoughts on family education lectures in primary and secondary schools Article 7 In the spring breeze with peaches and plums flying all over the sky and catkins dancing, a weak baby was born and fell to the ground. Under the gaze of a pair of loving eyes, she began to thrive. With this, she began to look at this strange world with curious eyes. She began to learn, and under the careful guidance of her family, she began to experience a learning process from simple to in-depth, from not knowing much to knowing much, which was full of joy, pain, tears and laughter. How many years have passed in endless love!
Joy came in an instant, sitting in the cradle car, looking at the whispering swallow, so grandpa taught her to recite "helpless flowers fall, like swallows returning", oh, Song ci can fly; On the big round table in front of the window, he pointed to the red lotus, so grandpa shook his head and read, "Lotus can be picked in the south of the Yangtze River. What is the sweetness of lotus leaves?" Oh, the ancient Yuefu is colored and smells faint. On a dark rainy night, accompanied by the story of the prince and Cinderella and her mother's temperature, she crossed the Nile and the Danish Strait in her dream and played games with Grandpa Andersen with a white beard. In the bright spring breeze, sitting on the grass as soft as Beth, lying on the green Qin Sang, listening to grandpa's story of the Three Kingdoms, she really wants to ride a red hare and meet the majestic Guan Yunchang. These bits and pieces of joy made her interested in her future life and gained endless knowledge.
The pain left an indelible impression. When she caught the chicken and gave a smug laugh, when she had a whim to cut flowers and clothes, when she put down her pen and slipped out to make a snow doll, when she was put in a dark room for disobedience, she rudely accepted a firm "lesson." So she felt wronged, sadder than that Qu Yuan, and shed tears than the Empress Dowager of Southern Tang Dynasty. She got a warm and reasonable explanation, learned not to bully the weak, learned the hard-won needle and thread, learned persistence, learned patience, learned the basic principles of being a man, and gained strength that she could not learn from schools and books.
Tears and laughter enriched her plain life. Encouraged by her father, she climbed the Great Wall, Mount Tai, Yueyang Tower and the sea viewing platform. In the whirlpool of laughter and tears, she learned to have a majestic waist like a mountain and a broad mind like the sea. Every time she shed tears, she snuggled up to her family. This is the quietest haven. Every time she laughs, she shares it with the whole family. This is the most beautiful Shangri-La in her heart!
There is joy, pain, tears and laughter. This is her fleeting time. Time flies like water, time flies like water, but what never dies is that beautiful and meaningful happy time!
Personal thoughts on family education lectures in primary and secondary schools When the fifth grade started, my daughter brought back a book "Suzhou Family Education Reader" and told me to read it well. I also joked that my mother's quality is high and she still needs to study again. My daughter told me seriously that I must study hard. According to my daughter's instructions, I read all the chapters of the fifth grade edition carefully, and I feel that I have benefited a lot. Some insights are recorded as follows:
First of all, parents have a "validity period".
Parents have a "validity period", and they should not be lazy in those ten years. When children are young, parents are omnipotent and completely reliable. This is the golden age for parents to educate their children. As soon as the child reaches puberty, the "validity period" of the parents will arrive. What should be said, taught and done should be completed within the "validity period" as soon as possible. No matter how hard parents try after the expiration, they are not as effective as 10. In the process of children's outlook on life, values and world outlook gradually forming, parents will get twice the result with half the effort if they are not lazy and evasive, otherwise they will spend twice as much energy and have little effect.
Second, parents are "lifelong learning" type.
We are in an unprecedented era, and we cannot rest on our laurels with inherit the wind's ideas. Every stage of a child's growth is not static. Parents should bend down and learn to listen, learn some psychological knowledge, and better understand and master the children's dynamics. I used to think that my daughter was a little enterprising and unwilling to set higher learning goals, which was very troublesome. After communication, it doesn't matter that my daughter is afraid that she can't finish writing. Suddenly, I felt a little distressed. Parents must not be arbitrary. They have to keep growing up to keep up with their children's growth.
Third, academic qualifications cannot be faked by others.
Companionship is the longest love, and education can't completely fake others. For a while, I thought it would be all right to help my children sign up for interest classes. I can also confidently say that parents spend money and energy to send their children to various interest classes. They can't learn well, but they can only blame their children for not working hard. Rationally speaking, the first priority of a large number of interest classes and remedial classes in society is to make money. Children are not products on the assembly line. Every child is unique. If parents themselves don't want to spend time and energy thinking about their children and make some study and game plans independently according to their characteristics, how can they simply count on unrelated social training institutions?
Fourth, parents are the best role models.
My daughter sometimes stays indoors, and I always hope that she will go out to exercise more. To this end, I will also take advantage of walking and climbing mountains on weekends and holidays to encourage her to go out together. I hope that what kind of person the child will become in the future, we must first work hard in that direction and let her stand on our shoulders and be infinitely close to the goal.
Personal thoughts on family education lectures in primary and secondary schools Article 9 It is the Internet age. Most people rely on the internet, and children are addicted to video games, regardless of their studies, because some electronic products delay their studies.
Some children's grades are gradually declining. The main reason for this problem is that students pick up their mobile phones to play games as soon as they get home, and they don't even eat or do their homework. I don't listen carefully in class, I don't finish my homework on time, and I even steal my mobile phone to go to school. Parents are dissatisfied with this kind of thing, but today's children have a big temper and dare not be too strict. Some children are left-behind children, and when their parents are not around, they will ask their grandparents to help them discipline them, but how children listen to their grandparents is even more lawless.
In daily life, some parents let their children do some housework within their power, but some parents spoil their children too much to do any work, saying that as long as they let their children manage how to study, reading is the most important thing. But I don't agree at all, because learning is very important for children now, but doing something properly is also cultivating children. You can't just learn and do nothing else, it won't help you.
Now there are basically only one or two children in the family, and they are spoiled and the children are more delicate. Once I saw a little boy fall down in the square. He didn't get up at once, but cried on the ground until the adults saw it, lifted the child up, patted the dust on his body and hugged him to stop crying. If this happens to a child before, the first reaction is to get up by yourself, pat off the dust and continue to play by yourself, which makes people feel that the child is very strong. Parents should also tell their children more about their times, so that today's children know how to be a sensible child next.
In my family, my parents never spoil me. Sometimes I help my parents do things that I can. My parents go out to work. I am not addicted to mobile phones like other children, but I still do what I should do. At home, I am also very obedient. My parents sometimes tell me something about my study and how to work hard to get into a good school. He also said that only by studying hard can you find a job and earn a good income when you grow up. If you don't study hard, you will work like us and listen to the boss's nagging. You must study hard, so that you won't regret it when you grow up, like mom and dad.
Family education is very important to us. Good family education will make children become excellent talents with all-round development in morality, intelligence, physique and beauty. Correct family education will make children better integrate into society and become useful people to society in the future.
Personal thoughts on family education lectures in primary and secondary schools 10 From the moment we were born, we began to receive education from our parents, elders, teachers and society, the most important of which is the education of our parents. Because we spend the longest time with our parents and receive the most education. If parents have the art of education, we can become adults even if we can't become talents. If parents blindly educate, the situation will be different. So education is an art.
Why should we receive education?
Only by receiving education can we improve ourselves and understand the progressive world. From an ignorant baby to a teenager who knows manners, rules, order and knowledge. After receiving education, we know the knowledge, we can use the knowledge we have to understand the world, while scientists use what they have learned to study the unknowable mysteries. Research needs a huge knowledge reserve, which is also attributed to education, so it is necessary to receive education.
Why is the education of parents the most important?
We have been with our parents since we were born. In the process of going to school and graduating, parents' education is indispensable. There is an idiom called "lead by example". Parents usually not only educate us with words, but also their qualities will exert a subtle influence on us. Therefore, whether you are an adult or not depends largely on your parents' education. Maybe your parents won't instruct you how to study, but they must instruct you how to be polite and obey the rules and order. They should pay more attention to your moral cultivation, which is an art of education.
So, how should parents educate their children?
In today's society, there is a particularly serious phenomenon, that is, there are many children with "high scores and low abilities". The main reason is the lack of parental education. Some parents choose "accompanying students" with good intentions, but they choose the wrong method. Many accompanying parents help their children fold quilts, wash clothes and cook. As a result, these children study well, but they have no ability to take care of themselves. There are also many parents who confiscate their children's mobile phones and disconnect from the Internet. In fact, this is a distrust of your own children. Some children are not addicted to the internet, but only use mobile phones as communication tools. Blind uniformity is not conducive to the emotional communication between parents and children.
Some parents' educational ideas are too pedantic, and they think that children are the property of their parents and must obey the discipline, which is extremely bad. As parents, we should know more about the world of young people and communicate more emotionally, instead of directly reprimanding or using violence without asking why we did something wrong.
To sum up, parents should pay attention to cultivating their children's good qualities, exercising their abilities, communicating with their children more emotionally and giving them more trust.
Therefore, family education is an art. Only with good education can we become adults, or at least make contributions to society. Be independent and self-reliant. Family education art determines a child's life!