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Why can't a freshman find a girlfriend?
When I first arrived at the university, my dormitory was full of single dog. Just passed the entrance of the college entrance examination, many people came to the university to talk about a vigorous love. However, why is the single rate of college students still so high? Why is the dropout rate of freshmen so low?

Many people have loved someone before coming to college, or have been in love, or have an indelible shadow in their hearts.

College is not like high school. In college, the concept of class is vague, and many people can't know everyone in the class in one semester, so there are few opportunities to really know the opposite sex in a class. In addition, the imbalance between men and women in many majors makes many college students have no image of looking for boyfriends or girlfriends in classes or universities.

Of course, there are many student associations and student activities in universities, which seem to be a good opportunity to get away from each other, but in fact, it is difficult to cultivate love by such activities once a week or less. If one or both parties are not very active, then the chance of falling in love is really small. In college, if you are really not good enough and attractive enough, who will take the initiative to chase you?

Modern college students first look at the face value when looking for an object. What is love at first sight? Obviously, it's about seeing the color, despising the ugly, despising the beautiful and despising yourself, so it calls itself cold and feels that there is nothing suitable for you in the university.

At this time, most people are still keeping in touch with TA in middle school. Without the barrier of the college entrance examination, they thought they could be brave together, but the geographical distance made them more timid. In this way, I was caught in a dilemma. At this time, as long as someone takes the initiative, a beautiful love may begin. Of course, it may also be a person's trauma ... this is probably the reason why the freshman is single!

I took off the bill and suggested:

1. Determine your mind. If you really have a shadow in your heart, try it. Don't be too impulsive when you are single. If it doesn't fit, don't force it.

2. Don't always stay in the dormitory, go out for a walk more, participate in more community activities and cooperate with others;

3. If you have someone you like around you, go for it bravely. Often TA will be moved by the true feelings. As long as you are careful enough and work hard enough, you will definitely catch up with Ta.

4. Treat it sincerely and don't cast a wide net (draw the key points), otherwise t a will be disappointed in you.