1, professional skills. We spent four years studying our major. If a freshman finds that he is not interested, he must find a way to change his major in the first semester. )

2. Read more books. The most abundant resources are in university libraries, so we must cherish them.

3. Participate in community activities. Actively participating in clubs is mainly to exercise my communication and cooperation skills.

4. Cultivate your hobbies. Hobbies can cultivate people's sentiments and make people happy.

5. get all the certificates that need to be tested. Teacher qualification certificate, computer, etc. ) we are all ordinary people, doing things separately and keeping our place. Love life and cherish the present. Because what you do in your twenties is really important. Full of expectation for life and longing for the future.

People who want to cross back, as people like to say, knew it early, mostly to make up for their past efforts.

If I had known that I had used all my savings for loans and bought more suites, I would have realized my freedom of wealth and reached the peak of my life.

If I know to learn more about stocks and securities, I will make a fortune.

If I had known, I might have been a different person today, because I was too young.

If only I knew.

Haruki Murakami said:

"I don't know why, the right words are always late and miss the most suitable time." What I want to say is that even if you go back to the past and your life state and mode have not changed, you will still be the same, just like putting an overeating addict into a thin man who eats less and eats more, you will still gain weight back.

Now you may be a veteran in the workplace, love Kan Kan Mavericks in class, play mobile phones, and hang out on major online platforms;

In this way, if you go back to the past, you will only team up all night to play games and crack down, releasing your hard-won youth;

Maybe you are still the same person, who doesn't want to study and socialize, and is free to indulge in places without jurisdiction;

Maybe you will be complacent intermittently like now, continue to eat and die, or worry about the status quo but don't want to change yourself.

Now you may be a veteran in the workplace, love Kan Kan Mavericks in class, play mobile phones, and hang out on major online platforms;

In this way, if you go back to the past, you will only team up all night to play games and crack down, releasing your hard-won youth;

Maybe you are still the same person, who doesn't want to study and socialize, and is free to indulge in places without jurisdiction;

Maybe you will be complacent intermittently like now, continue to eat and die, or worry about the status quo but don't want to change yourself.

Cruel and true. ? You or you, change the medicine.

There are two kinds of pains in life, one is the pain of hard work and the other is the pain of regret, but the latter is 1000 times bigger than the former.

I think of an aunt in my grandmother's house, who is 30 years old, but lives like an old man with a candle. Although she is still young in appearance, her bones are worn out.

She is a little nurse in the countryside, with a monthly salary of two or three thousand yuan at most. She has been sharing a room with others. She is busy in the clinic every day. Her roommate's vulgarity is not on the table, and she is full of dirty words. The room is always filled with the smell of mixed gas, smelly shoes and socks. The low quality of patients often refers to swearing and taking it out on nurses.

However, I still work in the same clinic and share the same roommate every day.

She doesn't want to face all this. She wants to get out of this circle, but she always fishes for three days and dries the net for two days. She works part-time in WeChat business and wants to take the self-taught exam. Her friends also introduced her to work, but in the end she stayed in the clinic.

Maybe this circle is too violent, no matter how big her dream is, it's gone. I saw that some people around me found doorways and started their own businesses. After a few years, everyone changed their appearance and became depressed, delaying work and depressed. In today's words, they are full of negative energy with nowhere to put.

One of her favorite words is "If I go, will it be her turn for this position?" ? Don't look at her. If it weren't for me ... "

Dissatisfaction with the status quo leads to nostalgia for the past, which can't change regret and remorse. bereavement has become a boring attitude towards life, and others naturally want to stay away.

My mother often says to me: Don't fall into another regret because of one regret. I often tell myself that if I can't learn from my past mistakes, I can only keep spinning around in my mistakes, and I can only move from one regret to another.

Regret will never change anything. What you think, do it, seize the opportunity, those regretful choices, failed in the exam, missed people, made mistakes, didn't have time to say it, didn't have time to explain the misunderstanding ..... Everything has become the past. It is better to tell yourself to grasp what you have now and live every day diligently.

Today is the past of tomorrow, and today brings together my tomorrow. Try to find the truest self from past failures and experiences, and stop the cycle of regret again and again.

Finally, we can't go back to the past in reality. Just look at Marisol's novels and science fiction.

The best time to plant a tree is 10 years ago, followed by now, life is early, take every hurdle seriously now.