This has nothing to do with substance. For example, provoking a trade war in so many countries means that a president is a good president? Lao Wang, who sells tofu, has been selling tofu for 78 years. Does that mean his tofu is delicious? Having been in love with a boy for four or five times can you tell that he is handsome? It may also be because this boy's feelings are not specific or his emotional intelligence is too low, which is not suitable for long-term communication!