1, just entering the society is too busy, and friends around me share it. Because of the direct employment after graduation, the busyness of newcomers entering the workplace has been overwhelming. At this time, her other phone call was still calling for life and asked, "Why didn't you reply to my message?" I want to return to a single and unrestrained life instantly, so I ended my three-and-a-half-year relationship just three months after graduation. As soon as the student couple graduated, they gradually stepped into a new workplace environment. In order to adapt to the changes in the pace of life, people often have to take care of themselves, and the frequency of contact between the two sides is reduced because of "being too busy". When one of them tries hard to continue the relationship, while the other is exhausted by the compressed time, there are fewer and fewer responses on WeChat, leaving only a few words or pictures, which often makes people feel disheartened and suspicious of emotional deterioration.
2. Busy with postgraduate entrance examination or laboratory, many people will break up at present. Under the pressure of long-term study, they may ignore the other half and feel that they often can't take care of the other half, which leads to breaking up. The research topic of the laboratory is Nocturnal Animals, so the time for experimental observation is always reversed day and night, so I can't stay with my girlfriend at that time for a long time. After several quarrels, the two men were exhausted and agreed to break up.
3, work to meet new friends, and the other is the change of life circle. Student couples will meet more different people and expand their lives after entering a new workplace, school or moving their stronghold to a new country. On the one hand, the circle of life has changed, and the distance between two people has also widened; On the other hand, after the change of life circle, the same topics of two people are less and less. When the topics of two people gradually don't match, the relationship gradually loses its temperature. At this point, if there are other objects around, it is more likely to cause derailment or emotional derailment. Or when you meet the opposite sex at work, you will feel fresh and suddenly have a topic to talk about, and then go out for three days and two nights with friends you know at work, or go to an amusement park. When I came back to see my other half, suddenly there was no topic to talk about, and I felt as if there was no freshness, so I had the idea of separation!
4, life goals are different, and some break up because of different life goals, so young couples often break up after graduation. For example, continue to study or go out for employment directly, get married as soon as you graduate or go back to your hometown to prepare for the civil service exam. Even if every couple has the same preferences, they don't necessarily have the same life goals, which is often the main reason for separation. I just want someone to accompany me when I study. I can have people working together or accompanying each other. I didn't intend to stay in the auditorium for long, so I agreed to break up in the season of Phoenix and bloom. Fortunately, the other party is not sure that they can manage a long-distance relationship well, so after graduation, they gradually drifted away and became ordinary friends, and now they have their own happy families.
Breaking up is not a question of graduation. There are many reasons for breaking up. "Graduation" can only be said to be an opportunity, not the whole reason for breaking up. As I said just now, "busy", "different places" and "economic factors" are the main reasons for couples' separation. If you don't meet the right person at the right time, you can't reach the finish line, and you have the idea that "it's better to break up", then any trivial matter will evolve into the main cause of separation, so don't blame "graduation" again.
Thanks for each other's company, whether to break up immediately after graduation, who cheated, who didn't maintain it seriously, or who went to a different place to pursue his dream may be the main reasons for lovelorn; As long as the other person accompanies him through life, he should thank the other person for his contribution, although he is forced to part in the end.
Breaking up after graduation is by no means immature or not loving each other. It's just that both of them have projects to study hard, so they will be challenged so much. I believe that after crossing these challenges, each other's lives will be more complete. I hope everyone can break the spell of breaking up after graduation and stay with him/her as a student for a long time! I wish you all a good result!