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Is it possible to have a four-year long-distance relationship in college?
People who have been there say the chances are slim. We fell in love in senior year and broke up in junior year. He went to college in Weifang and I went to college in Heze. Now he has a new girlfriend who is cruel to me, and I have a boyfriend, but not as good as him. You may think that my ex and I are not in love enough. Actually, the reason for the separation is that I don't love him enough. How good is he? I don't even know where to start. Let's start with security. First of all, I can log on to his WeChat qq Alipay, JD.COM Taobao Special Edition Tik Tok King Eat Chicken Taobao Pinduoduo. I know his payment password, and my mobile phone password is my birthday. Wechat qq friends can be deleted at will (of course, I don't want to delete them at will). I am very possessive. I have deleted all the girls who used to have a good relationship with him. He told me that we really had nothing. He doesn't smoke or drink, and he is a boy with a good outlook on life. He wanted to be a soldier most since he was a child, but I didn't agree, so he never went. I know all his passwords, and I am particularly familiar with his mobile phone. I'm just looking around. He really wants me to search his cell phone. I know what software he has to go out for dinner with friends. Of course, all his friends know me, and I have had dinner with all his friends. Even in class, he will reply to my message. He gave me special attention. He told me personally that he was afraid of missing every message I sent, but he would grab the front row in class. Once I called him, and his voice affected others' class, so he turned it off in class, but he would watch me send him messages every once in a while, because he was afraid that I would be angry (he studied hard and was very good), and he and his friends. I never eat with girls, and I have no good friends of the opposite sex. I met all his friends and had dinner (he has many friends, four of whom are very close in our family, two of whom are high school classmates of * * *, and some of them have a good relationship. Five or six of them have eaten, but they are not as close as these four friends. He has roommates in college, two in other classes, and I have more than a dozen friends in college, not to mention * in high school. He will give priority to me in everything he does, and so will his friends. As long as I don't let him do it, he will say that his wife won't let him do it. All his friends know that he is afraid of his wife, and he likes it very much. I don't have to do anything with him. His WeChat and qq are mine, nothing else. I don't think anyone can do better than him in safety.

They say people who love you will spend money for you. I can say that it is particularly correct. He took his first part-time job and earned 1000 yuan. Then the first thing he paid was to buy me clothes, and then he spent all his money on me. He is also a student. He produced two-thirds of my college clothes. He hasn't bought clothes himself for a long time. My shoes were more famous than 200 Anta to me at that time. His home is from the county, but he bought it for me. I like to buy cheap clothes, but he won't let me. He said that the quality of expensive clothes was guaranteed and I couldn't buy them in Pinduoduo, so he gave me two-thirds of the money to buy clothes, but he also knew that I bought clothes secretly in Pinduoduo (I don't like cheap clothes, I like more clothes, and he told me that clothes can be less but not cheaper). Everything he bought is from the flagship store. Unless it is genuine, he will never give it to me. Needless to say, cakes, lipstick or liquid foundation, eye shadow trays and big meals are indispensable (I will also subsidize him 100 when he has less money). He won't let me buy anything or cake on his birthday. He said the cake was not edible, and the food was useless, but I knew he wouldn't let me spend money, so I gave him your birthday cake. However, on Valentine's Day, 520, 6 138, and so on, as long as it is a couple, he resolutely won't let me spend money on him, but he won't leave me a holiday (of course, it won't be particularly expensive, for example, on June 1 day, he gave me money to buy a bottle of Wang Zi and then ordered me fruit fishing and thousand flowers). When I was with him, I always thought that these festivals were for girls and boys, and I didn't have any burden with him. King's Skin: He knows which hero I like. I don't need to say that he will buy it for me as soon as he comes out. Except for those who have already paid 160 yuan, he said he can buy clothes for his wife, but I like the one that just came out 100 yuan. For example, in The Story of Diesim, he bought me a cat when he couldn't afford it on midsummer night. I received countless flowers. As long as there are flowers on the roadside, he will take the initiative to pull me over and ask me which one I want. What kind of flowers did I receive? 10 little flower, 100 many big flowers gave it to me. The flowers in front of his community have been bought for me. In fact, he loves to drink milk, but he is reluctant to buy it for himself. We spent a lot of time together as plaster dolls. Because I like flowers, we went out to play together. We have been to orenburg twice, and Weifang has also been there, but because of the epidemic, he dared not go out of the province, and all his money was saved. It was my idea to rent a house in the city where my university is located with the money he spent. What he did was to try his best to realize my idea. He was knitting me a scarf and broke up before he finished knitting it. We even almost bought a doctor. Last year 1 October1day, he came to Heze to find me (that was the last time we were together). He insisted on dragging me to DR in Jiahe City to buy diamond rings, but I know he has more than 1000, and I don't want him to have them all. We have our own electric car. I paid about 200 yuan for a thousand dollars, and he returned the flowers. He rode our tram to meet me in our village, more than 20 kilometers, and he also cooked for me. Spaghetti and chicken wings coke are both new. I think what he has done accords with all girls' dreams. What he does is not that I have the ability to give you a lot of things, but that all I have is for you.

Besides, meeting parents is the biggest bottom line for boys. Indeed, I was his first love. Both parents have eaten a lot. I usually live in his house because it is convenient for his family to buy things in the county. I had a good time at his house, and so did his mother. She treats me like a child. He has a sister, but his sister takes care of me like a sister. His mother usually cooks for us. It doesn't matter if I get up late, but my predecessor asked me to get up early because I was too lazy. He said that after we have our own house, you can sleep as you like, but now we should pay attention to the influence. Getting up early is not too early. He gets up at seven o'clock. I basically don't start to pack jiaozi from 8: 00 to 9: 00. My aunt taught me. She also took me shopping for clothes. When we first met, she gave me 1000 yuan (his family's economic level was not very high, because his father spoiled his mother very much. At that time, his mother didn't have a job, and his father wouldn't let her work). His mother started to work because she wanted to prepare something for him to get married. ) I usually go out to play with my high school roommate, and my mother will force me to give hundreds of dollars. Every time I go to college, my mother buys me a thousand dollars in addition to clothes, and I also buy a bag for my aunt. But the money was given by my predecessor, so I said it was for my aunt, and then my predecessor bought me a bag. I have the same position in my predecessor's heart as his mother. Perhaps this kind of mother-in-law relationship is also the dream of all girls. I can really treat my aunt as a mother. My aunt does even better than my mother. My mother won't cook for me in the morning, but my aunt won't let me miss a meal. Every time she cooks, she is rich. Every time I go home, my aunt will ask me to bring something back.

I'm spoiled by him, and I have a bad temper when I get angry over trifles. He really tried his best not to make me angry. For example, I had a quarrel and left, making trouble for no reason. He followed me all the time, and he ignored me wherever I went, even if he was angry. His mouth is heartless, but in action, he always does something that won't make me angry. When I scold him, he can put down his face and coquetry.

I used to envy myself. He likes my plain face. I am not good-looking, my skin is yellow and black, I have a single eyelid, small eyes, myopia, half eyebrows, many pimples and a big forehead. He doesn't care about this at all. He told me that I think you look good. I wish I had eyebrows. I don't need liquid foundation or anything, but I always put on makeup when I go out, because I am confident that I will put on makeup after I put on makeup. So all his friends think I look good, but Su Yan really doesn't look good. I never wear makeup when I am alone with him. Usually, as long as I don't go out to play and wear makeup, he doesn't care if I look good, because I am his wife in his heart.

However, long-distance love is very hard. I can only hold my mobile phone with my eyes open and my mobile phone closed every day. The relationship between my roommates is not good. One roommate sued another roommate for moving out. That man took it out on me again. My life is particularly dark. In the second year of high school, my father was seriously ill and no one could hug me. All he can do is send me a message. When I have dysmenorrhea, all he can do is send a message. He said to call me. I pretended to agree, but he didn't know it was useless. I was depressed at school. I do everything alone, attend classes alone and eat alone. Even if you are targeted, you can only bear it silently. In short, as long as I go back to school, there is only a mobile phone in the world. He will play games with me every day, and my studies will be ruined, because I am addicted to games, only games. And all I can think about is my ex, so I was playing games when he was studying, and he was trying to persuade me, but he also liked me very much. I have no friends, only two, but they also have their social circles. It can be said that going home is heaven and going back to school is hell. Finally, because someone appeared last year, he added me (many people added me before). I had a quarrel with my ex. I found him playing king with a girl. He said he didn't know how to play casually. I logged into his account and found that it belonged to his former student union. I was angry, so I chatted with that boy. Boys fall in love at first sight at the express station, and then have a physical examination. He didn't let me run 800 meters, and recorded the results directly. He thinks I'm single, and so do his friends. He told his friend about me, and one of his friends knew me and set me up with him. Then he went to the classroom to find me at night, with snacks. He wants to send me back to the dormitory. He was very sad when I told him I was meeting someone downstairs. Then I told my predecessor about it and all I got was criticism. The map of Gaode is located in real time. He said that I hold my breath every day, and I quarreled with him again. In order to be angry with my predecessor, I went to that boy (this is the most wrong thing I did and the most regrettable thing). I told that boy that I wanted to be with you, but I didn't want to be with him. Finally, the boy agreed, so I told my predecessor, who was also very angry. He also set up a couple id to annoy the girls who played games with him before. We were finished, but he came to me and kept making peace. It was my fault, but he thought it was his fault. He reflected. He said that he shouldn't say that about me. He only had my image in his heart (I really have a double standard). I don't want to accept him. We broke up because of that boy.

Later, he changed a girl, and he loved her as much as he loved me. There is a boy beside me, but he can never compare with his predecessor. There is no me in his circle of friends, only one or two festivals. Going out to eat without reporting, giving gifts is a two-way street. You never bought me clothes. You asked me why I still fall in love, because I am used to the life of two people, and I can't accept that he falls in love with someone else. You ask me if I regret it? I regret it. I regret that I did that and missed the boy who only had me in mind. I cried for countless nights. I don't regret it. He is good to me only because I am his girlfriend and I am someone else, not because I am me. So you ask me what emotion is. I used to think it was a person, but now I think it is a choice.

So, stop asking, is it possible? I want to ask you if you are mature enough. If the problem is not handled well, the white can turn into black, the lover can turn into an enemy, can you resist the temptation of the outside world, is your's love mutual, and can you choose each other firmly. Even if you love each other enough, if you are not mature enough, you will separate.

I advise you never to leave a person who is good to you because of novelty, because not all people can really do as well as him. You must have your own social circle. In case you meet love rat, you can get away with it. As I said now, my boyfriend just wants someone to accompany me to dinner.