In recent years, there have been many scandals involving love between teachers and students, involving many famous schools, which have greatly affected the reputation of the school. Aside from these events themselves, many people are concerned about a question: can college students fall in love with teachers?

People who support love will say that freedom of love is advocated now, and teachers and students are only imaginary identities and really have feelings. These are not problems at all. But people who don't advocate love will think that it is this identity that has brought many problems to the love between teachers and students. Since you accept this identity, you must abide by the rules of this identity. Otherwise, don't assume this identity from the beginning, and don't be bound by it. Who is not trying to play their part in maintaining the stability of social order? Without rules, there would be no Fiona Fang.

Whether you support the love between teachers and students or not, the harm caused by the love between teachers and students to society can not be ignored. Give a few examples that reflect reality:

1.' s novel Out of the Window: Jiang fell in love with a Chinese teacher. At first, the teacher was confused and refused. Later, he accepted it and threw himself into it. The relationship between students and married teachers near the college entrance examination is doomed to be a love facing family and social moral criticism.

2. Japanese drama "The Condition of the Witch": A female teacher and a boy collided in the cold morning, which was the beginning of fate. However, their love is hindered by schools, boys and mothers, female teachers and boyfriends and even laws.

3. Swedish film "Don't Love in the Classroom": A 37-year-old female teacher and a 14-year-old male student are completely immersed in sensory stimulation.

The above is the love story between teachers and students in novels and TV series, but looking at the thoughts of young people today, there are also several obviously wrong emotional psychology:

1. Some people go from the extreme of suppressing emotions to the other extreme of indulgence. For example, the concept of "let me love enough at a time" and "follow my feelings and hold the hand of my dreams" makes them despair of love, and of course they don't care if the person they love has a family.

2. Contemporary China people's views on marriage and love are not the product of a single ideological trend. There are the release of ancient desires that have been suppressed for many years, the transplantation of some western social concepts, and the catalytic role of social transformation. When emotions and desires break through the shackles of roles, the identity of students and teachers is no longer an obstacle.

3. Becoming eager for quick success and instant benefit, the purpose determines behavior and affects emotion, so with the love of purpose, the love between teachers and students is no exception.

People are more and more inclined to put happiness in an important position.

How do foreign universities view the love between teachers and students?

American colleges and universities have long banned the love between teachers and students. After more than 30 years of constant debate and revision, the love between teachers and students cannot become common sense.

In addition, Japan is a relatively open country, but the requirements and supervision of university teachers are very strict. In Japan, the relationship between teachers and students is very sensitive. Once the abnormal relationship between teachers and students is found, the parties will face severe punishment, and students will not dare to sacrifice their reputation to have intimate relations with teachers. For example, 1993, Professor Masahiro Miyano of Kyoto University was forced to resign from his teaching post because of the affair of sex. He went to Tofu Temple, the capital of Kyoto, and was soon kicked out of the temple. 1996, he had to leave Japan and was abandoned by Japanese society. 1999, he died in another country with a tragic fate.

In Britain, due to frequent sexual harassment on campus, in 2007, many universities stipulated that teachers should report to the school if they fall in love with students, so as to prevent teachers from "favoring" or sexually harassing students.

In Germany, although there is no specific law explicitly prohibiting the love between teachers and students in colleges and universities, the so-called love between teachers and students, or beyond the similar relationship between teaching and learning, will not only be condemned by morality, but also violate the professional standards of teachers. Especially in recent years, with the occurrence of non-proper relationship events such as the younger teachers and the precocious students in Germany, as well as the rising love between teachers and students, relevant German institutions have begun to call for drafting a special law in the Federal Parliament as soon as possible to prohibit romantic relations and sexual behavior between teachers and students.

It can be seen that some countries, such as Japan and the United States, strictly control other emotions between teachers and students in colleges and universities or the occurrence of proper relationship.