Reflection: Why do we fall into an "underground romance"
Guide: Yes, we are not stars, and there are no paparazzi around. After all, a few people fantasize about whether their friends are wolves, tigers or leopards every day, unless this person is crazy. Women try their best to go down to the end, and no one around them knows about this relationship, and no one even believes it is true. Why did our love become an "underground love"? I was listening to an emotional broadcast while driving that day. A girl called the studio and said that her boyfriend never took her to meet any friends, let alone her parents. She said it was unnecessary. Her boyfriend kept repeating: "Love is between you and me. What does it have to do with others? " So, she has been underground for more than three years. "It feels unreal. One day you say no, and it's gone. No one knows. " The girl is not worried. The male and female anchors were gagged. The female anchor said that the man must have left his hand. The male anchor quickly said, not necessarily, if my girlfriend is too beautiful, I dare not take it out and let people grab it. Is that really the case? I do not think this is necessarily the case. I have seen too many people show off their girlfriends because they are too beautiful, but I have rarely seen them try their best to hide their girlfriends unless the girl is a lover or the man is not serious. Of course, there is also a special case-one or both are public figures, and talking about this is not good for the public image. It's not too late to make it public until the children can't hide in the entertainment circle. Anyway, it's already fame and fortune. Yes, we are not stars, and there are no paparazzi around us. Only a few people fantasize about whether their friends are wolves, tigers or leopards every day, unless this person is insane. Therefore, if you don't show your love generously, you will think of four words: ulterior motives. When I graduated from college and parted ways, there was a couple in my class, a typical peacock girl and a phoenix man, but these two words were not popular at that time. After graduation, the boy went to Tsinghua for postgraduate study, while the girl left her hometown and followed him to Beijing. As a result, they broke up before the first semester ended. It is said that every time a girl goes to school to find a boy, the boy sets the date far away. If you happen to meet a classmate, your hand will suddenly loosen. For eating, whether the canteen has passed the peak or the tireless choice to stay away from the dormitory. No matter how stupid a girl is, she will have a bad feeling. Sure enough, boys are chasing new lovers. There was another affair around me, but this time it was the woman. Women try their best to go down to the end, and no one around them knows about this relationship, and no one even believes it is true. Yes, no lovers, no words, no photos, no physical evidence. The woman is determined to do her best to finish from the beginning. The rest are spoony men like Xianglinsao, and women have started a new round of love fighting. From beginning to end, the identity created by women has always been single. Similar things are by no means uncommon. Many people add secrets to their feelings under various flags, such as precocity, fear of parents' opposition, being too busy with each other and uncertain future ... Of course, it is understandable if both people agree and are willing to do so for a long time. The point is that one side wants to get out of the water, but the other side wants to put him (her) underwater, and the ending may be a bit ominous. Let's see what kind of relationship is usually off the table. First, the third party is involved. Most women are young and beautiful, but they have to dive underwater, because men have successful careers and harmonious families. Women used to love men, but they had to sacrifice themselves for it. If we have to fight for black and white, then either men are defeated or women disappear from here. Second, you are not what I want. Loneliness without love is inevitable, so even if you are not the person I finally want, it will not affect each other's love in the emotional window. Of course, it is best not to form history. And if you want an innocent history, underground activities are the first choice. How noble and elegant it is to steal something and pretend not to be hungry. Third, I want to keep pace with the title of single. There are many such men and women. There is a booth here and an exhibition there. It's all chicken ribs anyway. Throw them away. Unfortunately, keep them. They have no taste. That's it, date occasionally, who to call, and see the mood at that time. This shows that I am single, but I am not being dumped at the end of the road, but picking flowers. What do you think can be accomplished? Eliminate accidental factors. When I said accident, I didn't mean anything.