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The disadvantages of college love
Page function font: large, medium and small print closed Recently, the term college students' marriage has aroused public concern. From the legal point of view, college students should be given the right to choose early marriage when they find their beloved partner. But whether such a choice is wise is another question entirely. I object to getting married in college because it has many shortcomings. First, as far as I am concerned, the biggest shortcoming is that although college students are physically mature, they are not mature enough psychologically and emotionally to undertake the responsibility of marriage. Marriage, apart from romance and commitment, sometimes tastes bitter, and it is more realistic and materialistic, far beyond the imagination of college students. They must earn a steady income to support their families; They should pay attention to their own behavior, not just focus on themselves; They also need to show loyalty to their marriage, and many things need to be concerned! However, most college students, who are not financially independent of their parents, are far from being fully prepared to undertake the responsibilities of marriage. Love can never replace the food that fills the stomach, nor can romance replace the fire that keeps warm in winter. Then why do college couples sign marriage certificates, and all they have is love and romance? In addition, for our college students, more and more important things are placed before marriage, such as studying, working, achieving life goals, making contributions to society and so on. Marriage is just a part of life, not the whole thing. For college students, the main task is to study and make full preparations before entering this highly competitive society. But I still heard a story about a 20-year-old girl who left college, married a rich man and gave birth to a child. The girl never went back to college, and her career ambition was only a dream. Of course, this kind of thing will not happen to all college couples, but this story tells us that marriage takes too much time and energy, which we college students can't afford. Therefore, we hardly have enough time to deal with piles of exercise books, let alone get married! Last but not least, the person you love in college may not be your suitable "other half", and it is not always wise to get married early in college life. You know, it is common for college students to get married in America, but the divorce rate there is surprisingly high. A marriage that ends in divorce can't be wise, and a partner who is destined to separate from you can't be regarded as a suitable partner. As The Beatles sang "Life begins at forty", I want to say that the perfect marriage usually happens after the age of 28, when we have gained a lot of life experience and established a solid economic foundation. Of course, early marriage does have some advantages. As young parents are only about 20 years older than their children, the generation gap will be greatly narrowed and parents will have more energy to play with their children. A lovely child is chasing his or her young parents to hide and seek on the grassland, giving out happy laughter from time to time, and the sun gives off pleasant warmth. What a wonderful imagination! In a word, college students have the right to marry a suitable partner. However, they should not do so. Look before you leap, which will benefit you all your life.