1. First of all, it is normal to feel confused. Really, because we have just entered a strange environment, we are very free without the heavy study in high school. Suddenly, we have too much time to arrange ourselves. Then report to some departments or clubs that you are interested in, make more friends, participate in group activities, and don't stay in the dormitory, play games, follow Korean dramas, etc.
Read more books
If you feel "confused", it is mostly because your heart is empty. Seeing and thinking about problems is only superficial and lacks depth. The main reason for this problem is too little reading and lack of in-depth thinking. So, if you feel confused, read more books. You can read some books on common sense. You can read a lot of books in the early stage. In the process of reading, we should also learn to think. Next, I recommend a book suitable for college students to read.
Self-control: This book is very good. It can help you learn to concentrate, make you have more self-awareness and learn to control yourself. I highly recommend you to watch it.
Step 3 find what you like
Why are universities so confused? To put it bluntly, there is no goal. This is because students' thinking is at work. In high school, the goal is the college entrance examination, and the class teacher encourages them around, which naturally gives them motivation. As a result, I went to college, no one came to guide me, I didn't know where to work hard, and I was very confused. Therefore, if you want to overcome confusion, you need a clear goal. The author suggests choosing what you are interested in and what you love. You should know that interest is the teacher of learning, and learning is very boring, but learning what you are interested in will not be so boring, and you can stick to it in the future.
Summary: In fact, the main reason for being confused in college is that you are not clear enough about yourself, don't know your future development, and don't know your goals, so you will feel confused.