1, a gentleman keeps his mouth shut. The Book of Rites
If you don't outdo others, you will attach importance to your self-cultivation and always maintain a leisurely and carefree attitude. No matter how you look at it, how you respond, you are solemn and generous, well-behaved and not rash. Don't slip of the tongue, which means be careful, don't find fault with others, don't hurt people's pain, and don't be sarcastic.
2, people are polite and safe, and rude and dangerous.
The Book of Rites
People are polite, pay attention to etiquette when interacting with others, and speak respectfully and courteously, so they will get along well with others under any circumstances, and will not hurt others or be hurt by others; Otherwise, being rude to others and speaking rudely, no matter how big or small, no matter how long or short, will inevitably lead to contradictions, quarrels and even fists and feet.
3. People who love others will always love others; People who respect others will always respect others. Mencius
"Constant" means "permanent and lasting". People who love others will always be loved by others; People who respect others will always be respected by others. This is the old saying, "If you want to respect yourself, you must respect yourself first." .
4. People are rude, but they are not born; Things are rough, but they are not successful; This country is rude and restless. xunzi
People have no manners and cannot survive in society; If you don't pay attention to etiquette, you can't do things successfully; Without etiquette, the country will be in turmoil.
5, be kind to each other, comfortable and warm; Bad words hurt people, make enemies and invite trouble. (proverb)
A pleasant speaking attitude and polite language will make people feel comfortable and warm; A rude attitude and rude remarks will make people resentful and bring disaster.
6, a good word warms three winters, and a bad word hurts in June. (proverb)
A touching word makes people feel a warm current surging in their hearts even in the cold winter; A hurtful word, even in hot summer, will make people feel cold.
2. What are the etiquette cultures in China?
China's civilized etiquette includes: respecting the old and loving the young.
The instrument is still suitable. Be polite to others.
There is a complete set of instruments. In China, from primitive society to feudal society, the political and ethical relationship between people is linked by the blood relationship between clan and family, so we respect our ancestors in the family and our elders in the society.
The Chinese nation has always paid attention to expressing people's rich inner feelings through appropriate forms. There are many established ceremonies for major festivals and events.
If you get a bumper harvest, you should celebrate it with songs; When you are in trouble, pray for the blessing of the gods. In any civilized society and civilized nation, people always attach great importance to politeness.
It marks the civilized process of a society and reflects the spiritual outlook of a nation. The Chinese nation has always attached great importance to observing etiquette rules and being polite to others.
A person's appearance and behavior are the expression of his accomplishment and civilization. The ancients believed that dignified manners, moderation in advance and retreat, respect for deacons and proper manners can not only safeguard personal dignity, but also help to learn morality.
3. Composition format about Chinese etiquette
Confucian culture is a mixture of schools of thought contending, while China culture is a classic.
Tang poetry, Song lyrics, three amethysts, disciples' rules, augmented prose, Analects of Confucius, Caigen Tan ... these are the traditions of Chinese studies and the essence of China culture. Chinese studies are like a cup of tea, elegant and fragrant. Tea is a must, and Chinese studies are to be read. If you understand, you will naturally understand.
Sinology is the truth that our ancestors summed up their lives. This is a taste of life. There are vicissitudes of life, traces of history and the true meaning of life. That is the pride of China, and that is the unchanging spirit of a big family. Chinese studies have brought us to a new realm, which allows us to cultivate our self-cultivation, teach us how to be a real person, and teach us to distinguish between beauty and ugliness and between right and wrong. Chinese studies enable us to taste the true meaning of life from the advice of saints and wise men. From a small matter, a word, an action and a thing, we can all feel the lofty realm and noble feelings.
Classics of Chinese studies always lead us to constantly understand the meaning of life and correct teenagers' correct attitude towards life. Sinology needs us to go through a lifetime, and the essence of sinology cannot be learned in a lifetime.
The Analects of Confucius enables us to cultivate our self-cultivation and moral life. The Analects of Confucius used quite a lot of space to clarify the difference between a gentleman and a villain, such as "an upright man is open and poised, a villain is always at peace" and "a gentleman is not compared with others, and a villain is not comprehensive".
Confucius advocated benevolence all his life. "If people are kind, they want to stand up and be human, and they want to achieve it." Teach us how to be kind to others.
The essence of The Analects of Confucius is to tell you how to climb the peak of life, how to realize the meaning of life, how to really "treat" people, and how to live the kind of happy life that we need in our hearts. "Caigen Tan is a wonderful book of China's 5,000-year life wisdom."
This is the world's evaluation of it. "The world is in the clouds, and Gan Kun is still; Look at people calmly and act rationally; A drop of water wears away the stone, and the melon is ripe. "
Life is like this. We should be able to find the factors of happiness in ordinary life, stay alert in the face of honor, and learn to persist in the face of setbacks. Caigen Tan is full of philosophical flavor, changeable philosophy of life and endless interest.
I think Cai Gentan really understands this complicated society and teaches me how to face life and face life. Tao Te Ching is the one I understand the most. It can always lead us to another wonderful realm with a short and incisive sentence, full of truth, goodness and beauty.
This is the power of Chinese studies. Once you understand life in Chinese studies, you will sublimate your life to another level-regardless of gains and losses, regardless of the ups and downs of the world, you will always treat it with a normal heart and face it with a calm heart. Look down on the power and fame of life, see through the prosperity of the world, see through the true meaning of life, and be detached from things, and you will have a different taste.
"Goodness is like water, and water is good for all things without contending", and the highest state of goodness is like the nature of water, which benefits all things without contending for fame and fortune. This sentence is the highest realm of truth, goodness and beauty, and it is also the insistence of Lao Tzu all his life.
Power, fame and fortune are underestimated, and the world is at peace. Reading Chinese studies is reading life.
If you understand Chinese studies, you will understand life! Chinese classics accompany our bank to carry forward Chinese culture and inherit the national spirit. The whole country has set off an upsurge of learning Chinese knowledge, and the popularization of Chinese knowledge runs through our study life, whether inside or outside the school.
In our graduate school of Shenyang Agricultural University, we also held a series of activities related to "praising the classics of Chinese studies and feeling the beauty of Chinese studies". The students actively participated and showed high enthusiasm for learning. During the preparation of the activity, the students tried their best to find a lot of materials in order to show the charm and connotation of Chinese studies one by one with various novel expressions. Students combine their talents with China's traditional classics, which brings a refreshing feeling to everyone. Some students showed their vigorous and profound calligraphy works, while others gave impassioned praise to China's famous classics. At the same time, they enjoyed the classic charm.
In such a strong cultural atmosphere, we are friends with sages and walk with classics. While lamenting Yue Fei's ambition to serve the country, let's not forget to realize the noble character of "getting out of the mud without being stained"; Recite "The Son of Heaven doesn't go aboard" with Li Bai; Looking upstairs with Fan Zhongyan, worrying about the country and the people; And Su Dongpo * * * "I wish people a long time and a thousand miles of good scenery"; Join hands with Zhang to praise the beautiful scenery of Chunjiang Moonlight ... In short, the students have interpreted the spirit and connotation of Chinese studies through various colorful forms. Through this series of activities, they created a strong atmosphere for everyone to inherit Chinese civilization in the school, and the students seemed to be in the treasure house of Chinese classics. While feeling the 5,000-year-long history of China, they also deepened their understanding of China's traditional culture and strengthened their patriotic feelings. It not only enriches one's own cultural accomplishment and taste, but also promotes the spread and influence of Chinese culture, promotes the true sense of "all people learning Chinese" and truly plays the real purpose of respecting traditional culture and advocating civilized ideas. It has carried forward the Chinese civilization, enriched the spiritual life of teachers and students, and developed the professional connotation, which has a good demonstration role and practical significance for improving the comprehensive cultural literacy of teachers and students in the whole school.
The theory of Sinology first appeared in the early 20th century, which is an important historical period of China's cultural transformation. In order to distinguish it from western learning, people at that time called China's six arts and five techniques and a hundred schools of thought contended as Chinese studies.
After the May 4th Movement, the west wind spread eastward, and some masters of Chinese studies began to argue with western learning, so as to protect Chinese studies and objectively consolidate the concept of Chinese studies. Nowadays, with the development of society, Chinese studies have been endowed with richer contents and freer definitions.
In recent years, there has been a saying of "New Sinology", but now the more common saying of Sinology is China traditional culture and scholarship with Confucianism as the main body. For our ancient civilization with a long history of 5,000 years, Chinese studies are like a bright star in the vast universe, shining with beautiful and charming light. It maintains the spiritual life of the Chinese nation and affects people's psychological development.
4. What is the etiquette of Chinese studies?
China is known as the "land of etiquette", and "etiquette" exists all the time in the society, and there are rituals for traveling, sitting, feasting, weddings, funerals, birthdays, sacrifices and battles. The "ceremony" here includes two parts: the spiritual principle of the ritual system and the etiquette behavior. Etiquette is the spiritual core of ritual system, and ritual system is the external expression of ritual spirit, which are closely related.
The etiquette spirit of China people is to love others, and the etiquette principle is to feel inferior and respect others.
When dealing with people, we should keep a low profile, be modest and respect others, so as to win their respect. If a person with high status condescends to make friends with people with lower status, it will get good social effects. "If you want to do something good, respect it first." Respecting others is not only a polite gesture, or just a ceremonial expression, but also a heartfelt respect for others.
If there is no respect from the heart, etiquette will become a false set, which does not meet the new standards of etiquette and righteousness. The principles of etiquette and justice, such as sincere respect and humility in customs and habits, and self-cultivation in harmonious coexistence with people, are still worth advocating in contemporary society. Of course, the inheritance of our etiquette and customs is a complex issue, which needs to be carefully analyzed and followed.
5. Chinese Etiquette Society Politeness and Correct Eating Habits Teaching Plan
If you don't learn manners, you can't stand it
"That is to say, if a person wants to achieve something, he must start from learning etiquette. It can be seen that etiquette education is of great significance for cultivating high-quality talents with courtesy and noble morality.
Our school combines classic education of Chinese studies with civilized etiquette education, strives to improve children's traditional cultural literacy and understanding of civilized etiquette, and takes "reading classics" and developing civilized etiquette habits as its own conscious action, thus promoting the development of teenagers. Second, the curriculum development background: Bailutun Primary School in Zhengzhou High-tech Zone is located in Bailutun Village, Zhengzhou High-tech Zone. It is a rural primary school. The school's philosophy is "promoting all-round development and educating sunshine teenagers", aiming at the all-round development of students, tapping each child's unique potential, allowing each child to show his personality and fill their hearts with sunshine, so as to grow up actively and become all sunshine teenagers.
However, because the students in the school are all rural children, and two-thirds of them are children of migrant workers, parents are busy with work on weekdays and have no time to take care of their children's study and life, so many children have poor study and life habits and few hobbies. At the same time, the school believes that the first grade is a turning point for children from kindergarten to primary school and an important stage for children to cultivate various good habits. Therefore, the curriculum of Chinese Studies and Etiquette is set up, and the ever-present essence of China classics is selected. Through the teaching of books and etiquette, let children know how to stand on their own feet and know etiquette.
6-7-year-old children should learn proper etiquette and norms when they are at home, going out, treating others and studying, so as to enhance their expressive ability and make their personality more cheerful, thus promoting the healthy development of their body and mind. Third, the curriculum design (a) learning objectives 1, I will correctly read and recite the "San Zi Jing" and "Di Zi Gui" fragments, I will read some children's songs and tell some stories.
2. By reading the fragments of The Amethyst and Disciples Rules, I will have a strong interest in Chinese studies and form a good habit of learning Chinese studies and patriotism. 2. I can learn from Chinese studies.