It is another school season, and many boys and girls come to strange cities with longing for college life. They expect people here, life here and love here. I don't know if you have noticed that campus love is quietly changing, and students' love views and values are also quietly changing. From 65438 to 2000, the changes of college students' love and sexual behavior are gradually obvious: compared with ten years ago, the characteristics of college students' love and sexual behavior have indeed changed greatly. 10 years ago, there were few middle school romances, but now the proportion of middle school romances is high. Nowadays, many college students' love begins in middle school and is brought to college with traces of middle school. Some began to fall in love from middle school and brought them to college to continue their love. Others put their feelings in the college entrance examination stage for a period of time and then start again after entering the university. The incidence of sexual behavior has improved. In the past, love on campus rarely happened in freshmen, only in sophomores and juniors. Nowadays, when college students fall in love, they will have sex when they are freshmen. The increase in the incidence of sexual behavior is an obvious change. Some people have had sex since middle school, and they only continue after college. College students are more mature and objective. Nowadays, college students are more mature psychologically than before. 10 years ago, college students, like children, knew nothing; Nowadays, college students are more mature and have a more rational and objective attitude. Feng Dakuan: Making mistakes is not terrible. The terrible thing is that you don't learn from it. * * * is not an impulsive act, but a rational choice. There is a big gap between the rich and the poor in society. It is not wrong for college students to pursue material things, but they should not advocate the way to get rich. They should work hard instead of simply selling their bodies. At the same time, many students who take such extreme measures have difficulties, not all out of personal vanity, but also out of family needs. I once met a case of an only daughter in a rural area whose parents were ill and had no money to treat her. She was in a hurry and went to a rich family to make money to treat her parents. Except for a few, no students are willing to sell their bodies. There are other reasons why a person has his own parents in society. We can't simply say that he has a bad moral character. I hope the media will give more tolerance, give them space, let them see clearly and struggle. In fact, our society has many assistance systems. When college students encounter difficulties, they can turn to these institutions for help or go to work-study programs. We should advocate the help between people. When such a thing happens, others may scoff. But in fact, this experience is a double-edged sword. After the incident, it has an impact on life, but it is not necessarily a bad influence. If you marry a rich man and are abandoned by the rich man, if you experience such a thing, the parties will start to complain about society and feel incompetent and inferior, which will have a negative impact on life. If he passes this matter, he will find that it is not a long-term solution, but through his own efforts. Maybe he will fight back and try to get what he wants. So after something happens, it depends on how to deal with it, not the thing itself. It is difficult to simply estimate the proportion of college students with more female injuries. Beijing once conducted a survey on * * among sophomores and juniors in four universities in Beijing, and the results were different in liberal arts, science, good schools and poor schools. College students * * * mostly occur among netizens, and their characteristics are different from those of social migrants. It is often the first online love, and meeting again after online love can be said to be a continuation of love. College students' * * *, whether psychologically or physically, are more hurt by women. After one night, girls will think that they have changed from girls to women, and their feelings will change qualitatively, so they will hope for further development. But boys often don't have such psychological preparation, so girls will get hurt. In addition, college students * * * mostly occur among peers, so there are not many sexually transmitted diseases, but there are many examples of pregnancy. Internet is a good way to make friends and know more people. However, many college students take virtual things too seriously. I strongly suggest that "what you know online is not counted, but what you meet is counted". After all, the network is virtual. Don't regard online dating as real love, but return to reality. College students have the right to live together, but they should think about whether they have the ability to live together. /kloc-More than 0/8 people enjoy the rights conferred by law, and they have the right to live with the people they like. Society should not severely criticize this as immoral behavior. But to make them realize that cohabitation is harmful to psychological development, personal development and career development. As college students, we should learn to make decisions, improve our ability and take responsibility. At the university stage, many people's abilities are still very limited, such as the simplest economic ability. Values affect a person's grasp of sex and love. University is an important stage of forming values. After going to college, college students will be full of hope for the future. Sex and love are two aspects of their dreams. One is a family dream and the other is a career dream. Different college students have different choices. Some college students want to realize their career dreams before their family dreams. They don't fall in love, study hard and fall in love after 30. Other college students regard college as a way to realize future family happiness, choose the way of rejuvenation, and find someone to accompany them in college for life. University has a great influence on life, which will form a person's outlook on family, life, values and world. It is this concept that definitely determines what to do during college. Values determine how to grasp. I don't suggest educating them too much, but should encourage them to realize their ideals. Even if they are wrong, don't be afraid of the difficulties encountered in the implementation process.