We are all complaining that students are not easy to manage at present. If we find another way, walk into students' lives and get in touch with them at zero distance, there may be a situation of "another promising village". The experience of teachers' home visits is that teachers should enter students' lives. I called all the parents of the students, but when I really stepped into this home visit, I realized the effect that telephone home visit could not achieve.
10 19 during the break, two teachers and I went deep into the homes of several students and made home visits, which was deeply touched. Home visits can really make us become one with the parents of students, and our feelings are cordial and harmonious, so that parents will no longer have any misunderstandings and complaints, and our work will be handy.
Student Tang Youwen, from a superior family, is an excellent student in the eyes of both teachers and students, but this student beat Yin Changlin in the next class with two other students in the class at the weekend because he felt that Yin Changlin didn't respect his remarks and didn't like Yin Changlin. Yin Changlin is not convinced and wants to invite social youth to wait for revenge. The student was so scared that he told his parents who were working in Shanghai, only that other students were going to beat him. His parents were anxious, so they called his aunt, who was closer to the children and didn't know what was going on with the teacher. He called a relative of Yin Changlin directly and asked him to tell Yin Changlin's parents not to hit Tang Youwen. However, Yin Changlin didn't want to stop. When Tang Youwen's guardian grandfather knew about it, he was worried that his grandson would be beaten and was very picky about the school. He also said that he would transfer the child. Knowing the ins and outs of the matter and properly solving it, I went to visit my child's guardian grandpa. We communicate well. The child's grandfather also regrets that we don't trust the teacher and disturb so many people, but things have not been solved. In the future, he should trust the teacher and tell the teacher first if he has any problems. He also told us that because there are many girls in the third generation of the Tang family, there is only one boy, and relatives and friends are more fond of him. Finally, we reached a consensus that we should strengthen the education of children's thoughts to make them more mature.
Teachers' home visits bring warmth to students and parents. When I arrived at the student Yang Yishu's house, my parents were surprised, but not very enthusiastic, because the child's grades were not good and he was very naughty. Last semester, this student was so angry that he bumped his classmate Liu Feng's head on a concrete column and got six stitches in the hospital. This semester, he was so angry that he deeply embedded the ear-digging spoon in Mr. Deng Jiaqian's ear and took it out in the hospital, but the diaphragm was damaged. Parents have lost confidence in such children. I told them the advantages of his children, such as playing basketball well and not contradicting the teacher after making mistakes. Personality is telling them that the teacher has not spared their children. Last semester in 8th grade, Yang Yishu got more than 80 points in Chinese. Hearing this, the parents were very happy and shouted excitedly: "Yang Yishu, look, the teacher didn't let you go. You should be disciplined and study hard. " Although Yang Yishu didn't give a verbal guarantee to the teacher, during this time, he obeyed discipline, obeyed orders and made a guarantee with actions.
During my home visits, I also learned that quite a few parents are busy making a living and seldom look after and supervise their children. This makes our shoulders more responsible. We can't choose our parents, we can only choose different educational methods to treat these children who need our care more. Many parents report that their children will listen to what the teacher says. As a student, the teacher is particularly moved by this sentence, and the charm of the teacher is infinite. Of course, you need to pay more when you are happy. At the same time, it also makes us more deeply realize that different family education methods have different effects on children's growth. Parents with higher education know how to guide their children in study and life, and most of them will form good habits and have strong consciousness. Parents who strictly discipline their children will teach them the truth of being a man, and their children's personality will generally not be too big a problem. A family that dotes on children too much; As children get older and bolder, some families are out of control. In view of these situations, we have a heart-to-heart talk with parents, some give affirmation and praise, some discuss with them, some use good educational cases to analyze, euphemistically point out the problems existing in their education, and explore educational measures, so that students can be convinced and parents can readily cooperate.
Experience of visiting teachers at home: classic model essay II
As the saying goes, "Emotion is the bridge of education". There are many contact ways now, such as telephone, mobile phone, internet and so on. Why do you have to communicate face to face with your parents? But when I really set foot on this road of home visits, I realized that telephone visits could not achieve results. Face-to-face talk is different from listening on the phone, so the feeling and effect are different. During my break, I went deep into several classmates' homes and made home visits, which was deeply touched. Home visits can really make us become one with the parents of students, and our feelings are cordial and harmonious, so that parents will no longer have any misunderstandings and complaints, and our work will be handy. At the same time, the hospitality of most parents made me deeply realize the pride of being a teacher.
The parents of student Yi Guangqiang are very surprised and excited about my arrival, which is really a bit "; I'm flattered "; This feeling. I gave them a brief introduction to the concept and development of current education, reported the guidance of our school in the direction of children's education, and how to carry out education and teaching in our school. In the face-to-face conversation, parents gave high praise and encouragement to our educators. Finally, I said, "Our Fulu Central School is thriving. Please forgive our parents for what we can't do. If you have any suggestions for the development and class construction of our school, please feel free to put them forward. " Yi Guangqiang's parents said: "I never thought that teachers cared so much about students. Our children are in your school, so you can rest assured that you will run a school that the people are satisfied with.
Our parents must strongly support the work of the school. "
Many parents are very enthusiastic about the teacher's arrival. They feel warm and excited. Students themselves feel that they are not "forgotten corners" and are not dispensable in the minds of teachers. Teachers always pay attention to and care about themselves. Student Yang Li said, "Teacher, your home visit has given me great strength. I feel more confident. I will work harder. I should be a good student in class and a sensible boy at home. Look at my future performance. "
This home visit made parents and students feel very cordial and thanked the teachers deeply. Wang Jun, a student, was very nervous when he saw my arrival, and stood at the door at a loss. He was worried that I would complain to my parents. Unexpectedly, I didn't say anything about his poor performance, but encouraged him to foster strengths and avoid weaknesses and strive for greater progress. In a relaxed and harmonious chat, the more children talk, the happier they are, and they tell their ambitions and ideas to the teacher. In this way, parents have a better understanding of their children's inner feelings and are more and more satisfied with their children's performance. Finally, their family reluctantly sent us out of the door, hoping that the teacher would come home often.
During my home visits, I also learned that quite a few parents are busy making a living and seldom look after and supervise their children. This makes our shoulders more responsible. We can't choose our parents, we can only choose different educational methods to treat these children who need our care more. Many parents report that their children will listen to what the teacher says. As a student, the teacher is particularly moved by this sentence, and the charm of the teacher is infinite. Of course, you need to pay more when you are happy. Let me see that different family education methods have formed completely different students' individual and cognitive expression levels. Parents with higher education know how to guide their children's study and life. The children of these parents often form good habits and strong consciousness. A kind of parents with low education level, but principled in dealing with people, lack guidance for their children's learning, but will teach them the truth of being a man. Parents talk more, but do less. A considerable number of parents only talk about their children's bad tendencies, but they can't come up with a solution or take measures, and the effect is not good. Such children need more guidance in their study habits and methods. There are also a few parents with low educational level who spoil their children too much since childhood; Now the children are getting older and bolder, and some families are out of control. Therefore, for students with problems, I have a heart-to-heart talk with parents, analyze students from the perspective of dichotomy, grasp the reality at the same time, adjust flexibly, put forward the problems existing in children in a relaxed and harmonious atmosphere, and discuss and explore educational measures with them, so that students can be convinced and parents are willing to cooperate.
Experience of visiting teachers at home classic model essay III
This winter vacation, Teacher Ji and I went to Wang xx, Ma xx and Chen xx. After this home visit, I am deeply touched. During my home visit, I deeply realized that as a parent, I care about and attach importance to my children's education, and I also felt the great responsibility as a teacher. Home visits bring us many benefits. First of all, we go deep into the family, carefully understand the students' family situation, and at the same time understand the students' personality and performance at home, so as to lay the foundation for after-school work. Secondly, home visits can teach parents the correct educational methods and avoid problems for their children in time. Teachers pay attention to home visits and teach parents some ways and means to change some parents' ideas reasonably, which can get twice the result with half the effort for children's health education. For example, Chen Xinghao's mother always says that children are not lively and their academic performance is not ideal. We told him not to criticize his children in front of others all the time, but to look for their advantages and encourage them. As long as children make progress, they should be praised to give them confidence and motivation in life and study. The second home visit can also coordinate the relationship between teachers and students, thus promoting students' healthier psychological development. Personal home visits can make children psychologically close to teachers, especially children with poor learning, which can stimulate their interest in learning. Interested teachers, that is, their learning motivation, especially middle school students, most of their learning motivation depends on their love for teachers first. Once you like teachers, you like learning this course, so that a virtuous circle can be formed and children can gradually become confident.
Through home visits, I feel that as a middle school teacher, to make students fall in love with learning and school, they should do the following. First of all, there must be love and childlike innocence. We should love our students as parents love their children. Students can deeply feel every caring and encouraging look in their eyes and will repay us with double enthusiasm. We have a childlike innocence, which can close the distance between teachers and students, make friends with students, and make students like us and our thinking class. Secondly, we should look for the advantages of students. Everyone wants to be appreciated by others, especially middle school students. Especially for students who are not very good at study, we should try our best to find their bright spots and expand them to establish their self-esteem and self-confidence Thirdly, we should pay equal attention to students with learning difficulties. We teachers should care about these students with learning difficulties with an equal attitude and as friends, strengthen exchanges and communication with these students and their parents, fully understand them, and teach students in accordance with their aptitude.
In short, home visits have taught me how to understand and care for students, and also made me more aware of the shortcomings in my work and the direction of my future efforts. In the future, I will insist on home visits during the holidays, and through the joint efforts of home and school, let the children become the pillars of the country.