Mother-in-law chooses son-in-law. It is of course the best if the son-in-law has a good family, but if the son-in-law is self-motivated, the mother-in-law can accept it. Compared with whether the son-in-law has money at home, how the son-in-law behaves, how to treat his daughter and how his parents treat his daughter are the first things the mother-in-law should consider.

Of course, if your girlfriend is rich and beautiful, with good academic performance and strong ability, I guess your mother-in-law will look down on you even though you are a student in 985 school. Sometimes it's really important to be appropriate.

Your mother-in-law will care more about you than your family. Boys from ordinary families can have a good life in the future as long as they are willing to work hard. If boys are good-natured, capable and kind to their daughters, many mothers-in-law will even be willing to help their daughters and sons-in-law.

There are several such examples in my family. Boys are poor, but if they are willing to work hard, it will be good for the woman, and the woman's family will have more foil. Life is very good now, and my familiar sister is such an example.

Being competent is as important as being kind to your daughter. After all, what should I do if I get rich and abandon her daughter? This kind of example is not uncommon, and it is normal for the mother-in-law to be uneasy.

In fact, your education is less important than your ability. Education is the capital for your parents to talk to themselves, but people with high education don't necessarily make money. Life needs money, not education.

So if your girlfriend is not a perfect sister paper, then as long as you have a good job and are sincere to your girlfriend, your mother-in-law will not look down on you.