First of all, because college classmates or close friends are almost everywhere. Even after graduation, I often keep in touch, so I spend little time together in private, and the distance is inconvenient. When we get married and have children, we all have different families, so the relationship will fade over time. And college students are no better than high school students and junior high school students. At that time, they were minors. Everyone's ideas are relatively simple. At most, it is to compete with each other for academic performance, and there is no fundamental interest at all. However, it is different in college life. Annual scholarship appraisal, excellent class cadre selection, including party member election, special recruitment at the end of graduation, etc. It's time for everyone to compete for a place. At this time, the friendship is not so simple, and there are many contradictions, so that we will no longer contact after graduation. Although college students always go out to play or have dinner together, how many people will regard each other as bosom friends in private? What's more, there will be emotional disputes, or boyfriends fall in love with girlfriends, or girlfriends take boyfriends away, and so on. This has also led to many college students' infighting. Of course, there will be no real friendship, and there will certainly be no contact after graduation. In addition, college students generally go their separate ways after graduation, some go back to their hometown to work, some go to other cities to work, and do not study and live together. As time passed, the relationship faded. And the purpose of college students' making friends is very direct. As long as it is useful to them or helpful to their study and life, they will be attentive and friendly to you. Otherwise, for most students, making more friends will bring more trouble, and it will bring trouble if they want to borrow money or deal with things in the future. Therefore, based on the idea that more things are not as good as less things, it is getting more and more powerful.

Of course, some people will be popular, others will be isolated, and your words and deeds, too eye-catching or too low-key, will become the object of exclusion, so that you will not make sincere friends, and of course you will not contact after graduation.