After reading the first half of my life, 1 I have read many novels by Yi Shu, but after the TV series "My First Half" was broadcast, I found it really wrong to look at a book. The writer's wonderful pen, the hero He Han, the heroine Luo Zijun, the female No.2 Yolanda, and "Zhu Qiqi" and "Vivian", the characters in the play are vivid, and the plain original works are simply adapted. Let's look at the original again.
Zijun, the heroine, was a housewife for the first half of her life. She is happy to be a housewife. Living a leisurely life, her life depends entirely on her as a husband of western medicine, and her children revolve around her all day. Her life is entirely for family, which makes her life focus almost divided, which also reduces her friendship, affection and even love sensibility. For example, only Tang Jing is her best friend, and her sister is not close to her. Her husband Juan Sheng wants to divorce her. In her own words: nothing, half down and out.
Fortunately, things have changed now. Although this change is too great, Juansheng wants to divorce her, and his extramarital affair has been going on for some time. This is a sad part of this work: everyone except herself (even her daughter) knows that her husband Juansheng is unfaithful to her, and she is the only one who is well protected, sheltered in the shell of a housewife, enjoying life leisurely and watching others and her sister's children suffer. But divorced, she had to work, became bourgeois and numb, and lived the life of a clerk that most people in this world would live. In her own words: "To tell the truth, I am much older. I learn to be small and laugh so realistically that I can't even tell the truth from the truth. It's all from the heart, a trickle. Think about it, how terrible it is. Isn't that what' when the false is true, it is true' in a dream of red mansions means? " After zijun's divorce, she is going to stand on her own feet and the focus of life is back. She is no longer dependent on anyone, but an independent individual. Even though Juansheng finally asked to get back together, she refused with her own pride. She finally found herself lost for many years. "I have seen people for more than a year and really need to have a self. I can't just think about living a good life by one person. If you want to live a classy life, you must struggle on your own, and this kind of fruit will be safe to eat. People should keep their feet on the ground. In fact, Zijun commented on his half-life: "Nothing, half-life. "This is not about me? She can cheer up, and I have to be down-to-earth and step by step. Now I want to study hard and not waste my tuition. This is the most important thing for me these days.
The greatest success of this work lies in its close connection with our real life, which easily causes readers to say, "How did this happen to me?" Seeing others on and off is common. How can it happen to me? ""The person I admire most is myself. Only I can help myself to climb mountains and overcome difficulties again and again. Marriage has nothing to do with love. People always think that when love is mature, they will get married naturally, but they don't know that marriage is just a way of life. Everyone can get married. It's simple. Love is completely another matter. ""Being a clerk has a sense of security as a clerk. Even if the top of the stick collapses, we can always find a foothold, where we can shrink and hide for a while, and then come out for food after the storm. ""Tango requires two people to dance, and it is not necessarily all Shi Juansheng's fault. ""No matter who is in a difficult environment, he will think of death. This is a normal psychological reaction, but it shouldn't last long. Death is romantic, so it's a bit attractive. However, I am a down-to-earth person, and I just want to improve the environment. "Blood is thicker than water, and family doesn't need to learn and exercise. Everything comes from the heart."
The TV series "My First Half Life" is better than the original, because all the characters in the film are loved by the audience and the plot is in line with the public psychology. Marriage is not a child's play, and we can't solve the problems in marriage with the thinking of "substitution". Instead, both sides should stand on their own feet, know how to love each other, love themselves and manage love, and don't be at a loss before marriage. And the marriage of "substitution" is not blessed. It's the same whether it's the hero or the heroine. May all unmarried lovers in the world be well, and married lovers should cherish each other's other half. Men like Hu Shi and women like Jiang Yang all know how to tolerate and love their lives.
After reading the first half of my life, 2. When you fall in love with someone, silently thinking about it in your heart, but he likes to visit you, is this feeling of happiness incomparable to many happiness in the world? People still need this feeling. Even if you break up and get hurt, you will become a single parent and have no hope for the future and life. But why do people have to capsize in their feelings after all before saying not to go through it again? Is it painful? Or something else?
The feeling of falling in love is so beautiful that it makes people young and confident. You don't have to care about what you originally cared about. You are so happy that you get carried away. Nothing can compare with it. Even if you are successful in your studies and career, even if you have a soul with hundreds of millions of assets, even if you are free and free, you will feel lonely and bored, you will not feel full of joy, and the whole soul will be happy, even if it is a family.
Maybe what I said is not good or accurate, because I am not sure and lack of words, but you don't believe it, which only means that you don't understand this feeling and you can't experience it. I can only understand.
After watching the first half of my life, the weather suddenly turned cold. I sat quietly all afternoon, finished reading Yi Shu's, and went out to look for food, but I couldn't find my car keys at this time. I always forget things, what a nuisance! Fortunately, I have a spare. When I went downstairs, I was still wondering if I forgot to lock it in such a hurry yesterday. I went downstairs, and sure enough! When I first saw my car, I was lucky to have a key to the lock.
When I got on the bus, I found it was dusk, but I felt a cold wind blowing on my face. Looking at the soft street lamp, I feel a faint joy, because I feel relieved, the rainy road is clean and refreshing, and the cypress trees are green and lovely. ...
My stomach growled.
Whenever I finish reading a book, I always think of it.
A book can be deeply liked by readers, probably because readers can find their own shadow in the book, thus producing a song, at least for myself, although I am not as experienced as the characters in the book.
In this book, I like Shi Anni and Tang Jing best. Shianer is still a little girl. She is only twelve years old, but she has the maturity and reason of a twenty-year-old person. She has the innocence of a teenager, but she has the ability of an adult and behaves appropriately. Tang Jing is a professional woman with a successful career but empty feelings, and she is comfortable with her career; She would rather lack love than abuse it; Treating her friends for ten years, her verbal humor reveals calmness and calmness. She is a woman with personality, and ordinary people are not allowed to appear in her life.
It is happy to have such relatives and friends around, but the protagonist lost his happy marriage with these, and finally found his own happiness with the care of the people around him and his own efforts. The ending is a bit dramatic. Many people can be reborn in despair, but I'm afraid few people can get God's blessing. Some things have results without hard work. Annie Baby said it well: some things can be forgotten, some things can be commemorated, some things can be willingly, and some things are powerless.
Of course, I am very happy to see such an ending, which makes everyone see hope. The heroine found the focus of life and the richness of life in the first half of her life. I can't help feeling, so, what about me? The student days are coming to an end. What have I done?
After reading the first half of my life, I have never read Yi Shu's books, because I have always heard that her books are mainly about love. It's always a joke to think of your age and read a love novel in your hand.
When I accidentally selected an early education book for my baby online, the title "My First Half Life" seemed to attract me like magic. I bought it without thinking, and read it all at once. It seems that this situation has not happened for a long time.
I don't know why the story of the heroine in this book is about my age. It's like her story is telling me, although I'm not miserable enough to be abandoned by my husband. But her dedication to the family and her focus on the family are the same as mine; And her inner tenacity and unyielding strength are like stubbornness in my bones. This book made me instantly understand the true meaning of life, and understood that marriage is not a fairy tale, and I am not a princess in a fairy tale.
Yi Shu's quotation: "Marriage has nothing to do with love. People always think that when love is mature, they will get married naturally, but they don't know that marriage is just a way of life. Everyone can get married. It's simple. Love ... is quite another matter. "
Every woman is wandering in love and hate for marriage, giving and taking, awake and confused; Let yourself know the truth of marriage earlier, wake up earlier, see through the present marriage earlier, be independent earlier and know how to love yourself earlier, because the painful process of Phoenix Pannie's rebirth is not for everyone to bear.
The First Half of My Life is a new drama starring Jin Dong, Ma Yili, Yolanda, Chen, which is being broadcasted on Oriental TV. With the realism of the plot, sharp golden sentences and the actors' online collective acting skills, the score of the play is over 7. 6 points, the ratings frequently broke 1, which was very eye-catching. In particular, the collision of values presented by the characters in the play has aroused heated discussion among netizens: should women be full-time wives and how to strengthen themselves? Female viewers have a lot to think about.
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The plot line is realistic: Ma Yili and Jin Dong are very happy together.
In the play, Ma Yili plays Luo Zijun, who is 35 years old. After graduating from college, she only worked in a foreign company for half a year, then returned home and became a senior full-time wife. Unexpectedly, her husband Chen () fell in love with a colleague in the company and immediately filed for divorce. Since then, her quiet life has been broken, and the first half of her life has been completely separated from the second half.
As a realistic drama, the biggest highlight of My First Half Life is the plot close to reality. The first few episodes of compact stories quickly caught the audience, and the sharpness of the lines in the play was also widely praised. In particular, Ma Yili and Jin Dong were judged to be very happy and addicted. For example, "Your' pretending to be forced' is more annoying than local gold" and "Please look like seven 165438+"
Online performance:
Wuyue's acting skills are so good that he gets the most scolding.
In addition, unlike the current market preference for young actors, the play is all powerful actors, and its acting skills are online collectively, which makes the audience applaud frequently. Ma Yili's opening remarks vividly show that Shanghai women are very creative. Yolanda's interpretation of the elite style of returnees and being girlfriends is more accurate.
As for the hero, Lei Jiayin made her guilty and determined husband change his mind. Jin Dong's performance is stable. Chen is the owner of the restaurant and the host of the play.
Impressively, Lingling, the "intruder" played by wuyue, contributed a solid acting skill, worked hard, seemed to want nothing, but achieved one step at a time, and was the most criticized role, which just showed that her performance was very successful.
The audience hotly debated: Women should be dolls and Iron Man.
Regarding the values of the characters in the play, many people appreciate Tang Jing's approach, "What is the real female awakening? When a woman no longer thinks that it is her duty to take care of her life for a man, she no longer thinks that marrying well means living well. "
As a result, some viewers began to reflect: "Women should be dolls and be their own iron men. Never believe a man's' I support you not to work', even if he is sincere."
Some people say that stay-at-home wives do have risks. "It's risky. He has been moving forward, and you are falling behind more and more, because the people who can stay together for a lifetime must be people who can improve themselves. This model is * * * ".
Some people think that whether a wife is full-time or not is not necessarily related to whether her husband has an affair. "It still varies according to personal circumstances, but the woman can't forget to enrich and improve herself anyway."
The first half of my life. I like two writers very much, one is Yi Shu and the other is Wu Xinyi. I read and reread their works in college. Since I began to write articles on film reviews and book reviews, I should of course start with the works of my most familiar and favorite writers. The book to be shared today is The First Half of My Life by Yi Shu.
The hostess is Luo Zijun, a beautiful and lucky woman. After graduating from college, I chose to get married. My husband's name is Shi Juansheng, and he studies medicine. Zijun worked for a while after he came out of school. First, when I became a primary school teacher, I felt that my child was too stubborn. Then I worked as a clerk for a while and felt unaccustomed. Finally, at Juansheng's suggestion, she simply stopped working and became a full-time wife. The benefits of doctors are very good. When he joined the company, he had a fairly spacious dormitory, and his income could cover the expenses of his family. Zijun gave birth to two lovely children after marriage. The eldest brother Shi Aner is a beautiful and energetic girl, and the second child Shi Pinger is a simple and lovely little boy. Juansheng later opened his own clinic. With the business gradually getting on the right track, they have become middle class, with spacious houses and rich lives. There are two nannies and a full-time driver at home. At this time, housewife Luo Zijun's daily life is to buy in buy buy. She thought that life would go on like this, and never thought that there would be accidents in life. On an ordinary day, Juansheng suddenly told her that he wanted to divorce her. Since then, Luo Zijun has gone from a pampered doctor's wife to a professional woman. Re-entering the society, experiencing the hardship and sadness of professional women, learning the way of doing things in the workplace, signing up for various interest classes to pass the lonely time, and at the same time, life is full of vitality because of changes.
Luo Zijun is very lucky. Her road is actually much smoother than other women. After thirteen years of marriage, Shi Juansheng gave her a rich life, which saved her from being honed in the workplace. After the divorce, Tang Jing, her best friend in the workplace, was very busy and helped her find a good job. After all, Luo Zijun has received formal education, and his intelligence and emotional intelligence are not bad. She quickly got used to the administrative job. After I got comfortable with my work, I began to sign up for many extra-long classes to get rid of the lonely time. In many long classes, she found herself interested in clay sculpture, and her teacher Lao Zhang praised her for her artistic talent. Feeling that the personnel relationship at work is not easy to handle, she simply resigned and made clay sculptures with Lao Zhang. Sometimes talent is really irritating. Lao Zhang has been engaged in art for many years, but he is not as marketable as Luo Zijun who is occasionally inspired by becoming a monk. The clay sculptures she created have been loved by many people and brought good income to their studios. With money and leisure, she went to Canada to see her daughter Ann, who was studying abroad. As a result, she met Zhai Jun, a high-quality single man, at her daughter's boyfriend's house. Zhai Jun is an architect and works in North America. In order for Luo Zijun to return to Hong Kong for development, they finally tied the knot. Luo Zijun said that she still can't live alone. She needs marriage. Fortunately, she got her wish.
Luo Zijun is lucky, but at the same time he is tough. Imagine a housewife who has been out of society for more than ten years. Once her husband kicked her out of the house, her life changed dramatically. But she quickly accepted the reality, calculated her material foundation and decided to work to support herself. When interviewing, you should compete with young people in their early twenties who are younger than you. After taking part in the work, when I was teased by my boss, I was conscientious and had no complaints. When I have to work overtime, I can change the documents as many times as I want. Get along with colleagues, don't gossip about other people's privacy, live in peace with everyone, don't be distant or indifferent, and pay great attention to discretion. Soon, Luo Zijun enjoyed the happiness of being an independent woman. Active thinking, energetic and free, compared with before, being a housewife who has to ask her husband for money to buy a bag of salt is too arrogant. After the novelty, it is followed by a lot of alone time. I don't want to go back to an empty home after work, so I signed up for many courses, such as language, flower arrangement, painting, clay sculpture ... and finally I found one of my talents. We can't say anything. We are determined to squeeze the bus to get a driver's license and enter the workplace. I have been a rich woman for more than ten years, and I have a driver who drives a luxury car to pick me up. The car should stop in front of her, otherwise she is an invisible melodramatic little woman. She didn't suffer much before the divorce. She was taken care of by her parents before marriage and loved by her husband after marriage. She is like a delicate flower in a glass room, just enjoying the sunshine and rain, and someone helped her block the miserable rain. It's really great that she can accept the reality, cheer up and enter the workplace quickly, and find ways to solve her negative emotions after work instead of being immersed in self-pity.
In real life, many people are not as lucky as Luo Zijun, but life cannot be forced. Being born in a big city and being born in a marginal mountainous area are already different starting lines, which cannot be changed by manpower. All we can do is get lucky. No matter how bad the cards in your hand are, you should carefully calculate the moves, analyze the cards with your head and heart, and try to play the best hand of the bad cards. Luo Zijun's practice of understanding, accepting and integrating with reality is worth learning. I think there's a saying by Yi Shu that is quite right. She said it was obvious where the time was spent. Yes, some people spend an hour learning a foreign language every day. After a year or two, they can speak fluent English and enjoy foreign language films without watching subtitles. Some people insist on sports, yoga, running and swimming ... after half a year, I am tall and straight, thin but not firewood, full of energy and bright eyes; Some people concentrate on their work, always thinking about how to grasp the hearts of customers and how to better introduce products. It's strange that such people don't make achievements. Just like Tang Jing in the book, she has been working hard in the workplace since graduation. When Luo Zijun divorced, he was already a hotel executive who managed hundreds of people, independent and proud. From the book, we can also feel how difficult it is for Tang Jing to get to this point. She forgot to eat and sleep, carefully avoided the stab in the back of the workplace, and continued to work hard after crying. I really think that the person who has achieved good results in his own industry is the Armor Warrior. You can be a teacher if you suffer a little, and the words of your ancestors don't lie. If you don't want to suffer passively in life, you can only suffer actively in work and study. The road is getting wider and wider. If you stop, the wide road will soon become a dead end. Go ahead, even in the swamp, there will be a day to step out.
Some thoughts on the first half of my life 7 Not long ago, I saw 1987 the film "The Last Emperor" produced by a Sino-foreign joint venture company, but I still felt dissatisfied. On the recommendation of a friend, I borrowed the book My First Half Life from the library and spent three days reading it one by one.
I chose to read My First Half Life mostly because of the author. The author is Aisin Giorro Puyi, the last emperor and citizen of the Qing Dynasty, who witnessed the earth-shaking changes of an era.
This is a work of great documentary value and confessional nature. Pu Yi wrote about his family background, abdicated when he was young, forged the rule of 14 years, and later accepted socialist transformation. Puyi changed from the last emperor and war criminal to a new person who consciously repented.
Overall feeling: It's like crossing just visiting and being in that fascinating era.
Write about corruption in the Qing Dynasty and intrigue within the imperial court. When writing about Cixi's moodiness, there was a passage: A eunuch played chess with her and said, "I killed my ancestor's horse." She immediately flew into a rage and said, "I killed your family!" " Have the eunuch pulled out and killed. When writing about the extravagance and erosion of feudal rulers, some records are not only quite shocking: Queen Yulong has about 100 dishes per meal, and Chen Fang needs 6 tables; "I" (Puyi) is a family of six. I need a total of 3960 Jin of meat and 380 chickens and ducks a month, of which 8 10 Jin of meat is for my five-year-old child. In addition, we should supplement vegetables every day. This month, we have added 3 1844 Jin of meat, 8 14 Jin of lard and 4786 chickens and ducks.
Puyi was forced to ascend to the throne at the age of 3, and then abdicated, becoming the puppet of the Japanese army to establish the puppet Manchukuo, and finally being transformed into a new socialist citizen, which can be said to be a historical necessity. Puyi was born in a noble family in a feudal court. Since he was forced to ascend the throne, his fate has been out of his control. As he later said when he accepted the socialist transformation, he even hated the feudal system and made him want to be a simple child and become an incompetent person. After Puyi, who had been soaked in the venom of feudal monarchy since childhood, had that kind of deep-rooted imperial power thought, when the Qing Empire was completely destroyed, the self-centered thought in his bones would inevitably lead to his unwillingness and restoration, but at that time, he was alienated from others, coupled with the fear of death, and colluded with the puppet Manchukuo established by the Japanese puppet regime in an attempt to restore it; However, taking the socialist road is the only way for China and the general trend. Any hostile forces will surely come to their own destruction, and Puyi will surely wake up from the emperor's beautiful dream and accept socialist transformation.
The First Half of My Life can be said to record in considerable detail the mental process of China's transformation from a feudal society to a socialist society, and the transformation of Puyi from a feudal emperor to a new socialist citizen. After reading this book, my mood is quite complicated, including sympathy for his tortuous life, sympathy for him as a victim of feudal society, and satisfaction for his final transformation into a new socialist citizen. I don't think any emperor in China can witness the changes of an era like Puyi, and no emperor can have such a complicated mental journey like Puyi.
After reading The First Half of Life, I always wanted to read The First Half of Life written by Puyi. I finally got what I wanted! Reading books is completely different from watching TV. In the process of reading a book, you can interpret the stories in your mind, or you can portray yourself as the characters in the book, which is lifelike.
Puyi's introspection should be from the heart. Although his ancestral home life, which was once pampered and materially intact, left him with a deep life memory, he could not feel his inner nostalgia and happiness. It is all kinds of rules that make him lose himself and his free will. He just interpreted the process of kings from generation to generation according to the rules of his ancestors, and made an individual become an emperor step by step.
Habit becomes nature, which is the relationship. Jin Yongmo wrote in "Speech on Ten Relationships-Relationship between Legal Person and Natural Person"; The relationship between the overall situation and the small bureau; The relationship between opportunity and necessity ... habit plays a decisive role in one's life. When you want to get rid of your habits, it's like turning yourself into someone else. If you can't get it, you will get lost. It is very difficult to change habits and adapt to the environment and needs. How hard it is to persevere!
Theory and practice complement each other. The emperor can rule the world without leaving the palace. In the process of the development and evolution of the situation, laws and regulations have been improved according to the facts, which has evolved into a great benefit and navigation for mankind! Theory needs practice to verify, and the process of practice needs theory to support. Theory is human bone and practice is blood. Only a reasonable zoning layout can realize blood exploration and deep movement that runs through the whole body, nourishes bones and sustains life.
Puyi's life is rich and colorful, which makes people deeply moved!
My first half of my life is being broadcasted by Oriental TV and Beijing TV. This drama is a realistic drama about middle-aged men and women's love and marriage.
Luo Zijun, the heroine in the play, married her rich husband Chen and became a full-time wife. She eats well and is happy. It's a pity that after more than ten years of marriage, our own people suffered a marriage change when they reached middle age. The husband abandoned his wife and children and threw himself into the arms of others, and the happy life was zero. The TV series revolves around the marriage experience of this urban woman, and various people's views on marriage, values and outlook on life are intertwined and collided, resulting in many wonderful sparks. In these sparks, I want to say: in this world, in this real society, I am my savior.
Let's look at Luo Zijun again. Since he found the "long-term meal ticket" of Chen, he never thought about struggling and improving himself. He gradually attached himself to Chen economically and spiritually, so that he was later used by Xiaosan and lost everything. Let's take a look at the little three zero again. In order to live a better life for herself and her son, she simply changed her husband. When Luo Zijun questioned that "office romance" could not enter life, it was difficult to hide his guilty conscience; We also came to see Chen, Luo Zijun's husband. When there are problems in his marriage, he doesn't want to change and remedy, but he just wants to escape, unwilling to face the reality and look for warmth from another woman. His selfishness and cowardice have brought irreparable harm to two women, two children and two families!
The movie Struggle 10 years ago, Ma Yili, 30, opened a new chapter in his acting career with the wonderful performance of Charlene Marilynn Dangelo. /kloc-Today, 0/0 years later, Luo Zijun in My First Half Life once again added icing on the cake to Ma Yili's acting career with his wonderful design and superb performance.
Charlene Marilynn Dangelo and Zijun are two landmark roles in Ma Yili's acting career. I met Charlene Marilynn Dangelo at the age of 30 and held hands with Zijun at the age of 40. In The First Half of My Life, Ma Yili composed a symphony of destiny with his works and characters: "Women are ambitious, but they become rigid when they encounter rigidity".
It can be seen that putting all your hopes on others is ultimately a rootless duckweed and will not last long. Because there is no eternity in this world, only dynamic balance. When Chen married Luo Zijun, she promised to stay at home and be a canary in a diamond cage. This is true. It is also true that Chen said that he was hopelessly in love with Lingling when he filed for divorce from Luo Zijun. It's just that time is changing, mood is changing, and the protagonist is changing.
After reading the first half of my life, 10 emperors are not all lucky, especially Aisin Jiro Fu Yi. In the Forbidden City, even eunuchs stubbornly kept a child in a dark room for treatment because he was afraid of crying, until he was exhausted. There are too many people who care about him, but he must at least have food and clothing.
Without protection, even eating porridge soup for 30 days once made Yi Fu so hungry that he grabbed the bait and sent it to his mouth.
Some people say that Manchukuo is a disgrace to China people, but I don't deny it. But from another perspective, does Fu Yi have a choice? Can he choose? If Fu Yi had really worked hard at that time, subverted history and a group of powerful ministers opened a new era, maybe he would not have come to recall his past hard. calendar
History is just a memorial for losers. No matter how confusing history is, whether you believe it or not, because you really existed, even if there is no value to pursue.