1, benefit and economy. At present, the competitive consciousness of college students is increasing day by day. Fierce competition often leads college students to pay great attention to interests, such as evaluating outstanding students and scholarships. Because the students have different views, some even become enemies with jealousy. Some people argue and fight with each other because of trivial matters such as water and showers, sports venues and seats.
The economy is also a factor that induces fights. For example, some students have different views on the economic responsibility after consumption because of * * *; Some disputes are caused by mutual borrowing and repayment in economic exchanges.
2. Love and make friends. Fighting incidents caused by love problems among college students also account for a considerable proportion. Some students regard love as a child's play, playing with each other's feelings, and even stepping on several boats, causing several lovers to be jealous and then fighting. Some people fail to fall in love because of wishful thinking, which leads to psychological disorders and even psychopathy, which in turn leads to vicious cases such as revenge fights. In terms of making friends, very few students form gangs with friends who share the same interests. They think that only the friendship between brothers is the most reliable. They often rely on the strength of many people to bully the weak and fear the hard, which can easily lead to fights between people.
3. Suspicion and jealousy. Some students always feel that others have a hard time with themselves and speak ill of themselves behind their backs because of suspicion and suspicion; Some speakers are unintentional, listeners are intentional, and they casually touch others' words and hate others for no reason; Some people have doubts about their classmates because their property was stolen, and even take illegal measures to deal with the so-called suspects, causing fights.
Similarly, people who are seriously jealous often regard the progress and achievements of others as a threat to themselves, which in turn leads to vicious fights and hurts the jealous objects.
4. Personality and personality. College students come from all corners of the country, with different growth environments and conditions, and their personalities are quite different. In the process of dealing with the relationship between classmates, personality differences can easily lead to mutual dislike, mutual dislike, antagonism and disputes.
Some students are darlings at home, and they can do whatever they want. I went to college, and I was still alone. This kind of abnormal psychology, in collective life, does not abide by public morality and code of conduct. When conflicts and disputes occur, not only can it not be strictly self-disciplined, but it always feels that others have violated their dignity. Therefore, when dealing with conflicts with classmates, I am rude and unreasonable, and often fight for some trivial things in life.
5. drink. College students' violation of law and discipline, especially fighting, is mostly caused by alcoholism. Some college students have no clear motives and preparations for breaking the law before drinking, but after drinking to a certain extent, some lose their minds because of trivial matters or a few words during drinking, and some even react at once, hurting the innocent.
Harm of college students' fighting
1, which damages the good image of college students. Contemporary college students should be a new generation with firm political orientation, noble ideological and moral character and innovative spirit. "A person, like a watch, is measured by his actions." The quarrels, fights, disputes and endless civil wars not only damage a person's personality, but also defile the glorious title of college students. Although a few people make disputes, it is the image of the whole college students that is damaged.
2, hinder internal unity and destroy the excellent environment for college students to become talents. It is very valuable to get along sincerely between classmates, teachers and students, and friends. Not only can you feel the warmth of the group, cultivate your good moral character in a good environment, but also get help and inspiration from others, and increase your knowledge and ability to deal with people. And "civil war" is everywhere, and endless disputes will only hurt feelings, weaken friendship, undermine unity and disintegrate the collective. In this environment, the bad habits of mutual distrust, suspicion and speculation, intrigue and bravado will affect your success.
3, lead to criminal and public security cases and ruin your future. As far as the direct causes of disputes are concerned, most of them are trivial matters, but once they become disputes, some of them are difficult to clean up. For example, love disputes can kill people; Disputes between students can bind people; Family disputes can also lead to bloody cases. Disputes are hotbeds of criminal and public security cases and moths that undermine stability and unity. We should take this as a warning and firmly remember the lessons left by others.