If you want to change this state, you need to read more books, because women who love reading or not are not at the same level in their life and mental state. Women who love reading and have advanced charm will plan their lives reasonably, live in an orderly way, get into the hall and get out of the kitchen, have elegant temperament and have extraordinary conversation.
Women who don't like reading, but only pursue low-level charm, will haggle over every day, have a chaotic life, be impetuous inside, have a small pattern and narrow vision, and only look at their husbands and children, neighborhood gossip and privacy rumors. They always stay in the comfort zone and are self-righteous. They don't want to improve themselves or study. They can get enough money just by punching in every day.
There is only one word "reading" between these two lives, and the life you want and the life you don't want are only separated by a few books. Reading is a woman's highest charm. After all, you know a lot about reading, and you can change yourself meaningless even if you don't go to school, which is why some people say that all roads lead to Rome, and those who finish college may not be able to make money.
In some ways, this sentence also has some truth, but the colors of universities and primary schools, junior high schools and high schools are completely different. You can get to know more local people at school, teach you survival skills and choose other jobs, so you can get more choices. Moreover, the university will make a person's vision longer, and it is easier to choose the path that suits him.