"Starting from the face value" is the beginning of everyone's love, but many people also stop at the face value. When the gorgeous appearance is tired of looking at other parts, many people will feel that everything is inappropriate, so they break up and look for the next one. This repeated search exhausted them.
Many people pay attention to what kind of partner you want, but also ask yourself what kind of partner you want to be, because this will help you imagine your perfect partner more clearly. "You are a book that will never be finished.
Both men and women have a restless heart and are always curious about the outside world and things.
But in reality, many men and women fall into the life of daily necessities and vinegar tea after falling in love and getting married, and always keep a "bad" look at their close lover.
More importantly, I will come clean about my past experiences, whether good or bad. There is a saying in reality: "When the other half knows everything about you, that is, when ta wants to abandon you."
Although we have been pursuing the other half all our lives and have the integrity and unity of the whole person, on the other hand, we are always independent individuals. Therefore, in our love and marriage, we should keep 30% mystery and treat ourselves as a book that will never be turned over.
Let the other side have a sense of competition
To have a long-term, stable and lasting intimate relationship, competition is essential. Of course, this is not asking you to cheat or anything, but asking the other half to be competitive.
Many people who are already in love or married will be content with the status quo and think that the other person is already their own, and ta will never leave themselves. As a result, even if you want to have a romantic candlelight dinner, the other person is too lazy to dress up or unwilling to go with you; No longer carefully choose gifts for you; Sometimes I even take your efforts for granted.