In fact, I am also the monitor of the university, and I have experienced your problems, but the difference is that after half a year, my state changed from contradiction, depression and depression to self-confidence and easygoing, and gradually my classmates began to believe and respect me. But to do this, you must first let your classmates know that you are a person with a clear distinction between public and private, and you should be very serious when you are in charge of discipline. Being able to mingle with your classmates after class will make them feel that you are a buddy and make them admire you, giving you more or less face. It will be very smooth at work in the future! But for yourself, do the following:

1, lead by example, if you can't even do yourself well, how can you be a monitor?

2. I am very popular. It was because of his bad popularity that he changed his vice president.

3. unite classmates. There is a monitor in our class who is not a monitor because of disunity. He is now a sports Commissioner.

4. To have management ability, you must first have a loud voice. There is a study Committee member in our class. Because of his low voice, Sanpiao can't be the monitor. Secondly, speak clearly so that students can understand what you say; Third, we should say reasonable words to convince noisy or fighting classmates; Fourth, we should not shield good friends, but be fair; Fifth, we should improve the relationship between teachers and students; Sixth, be strict with yourself and be lenient with others. The first monitor of our class can't go on because he is "strict with himself".

5. Remind the class cadres to do what they want and have a sense of responsibility. The members of the Disciplinary Committee of our class just have no sense of responsibility, and the position of the monitor has been removed.

6, don't take out the shelf of the monitor, be open-minded.

7. Care for classmates (including study).

8. To find problems as early as possible, you can solve them yourself; If you can't solve it yourself, let the class teacher solve it as soon as possible.

9. Find a good position in the class and praise it in time. Let the class do it.

10, don't worry too much about learning. Being a class cadre is good for future work. This is an opportunity to exercise. Take it seriously Come on, man. Confidence is the most important thing!