Since entering the university, we have more spare time, and time management is one of the indispensable means. However, in our students' real life, the main symptoms of wasting time are procrastination, playing cards, reading novels continuously, chatting on the phone for a long time, QQ, drinking and eating regularly, chatting, hesitating, having no goal, not considering priorities, doing things by memory and so on. In view of better adapting to the pressure of future work and external competition, it is very important for us college students to learn to manage time effectively in school.
In the process of managing personal time, I think we should pay attention to the following points:
1: Plan your study and work in advance. Make study plans and goals for yourself every day and week, systematically study and record the knowledge you have learned and are interested in, usually at that time. If you have to, you can recall afterwards and try to master it in advance. To-do list, time book or efficiency manual should be prepared for analysis and inspection or reference to the to-do list; Mark the study and work plan or scheduled date of the day on the desk calendar or notebook in the dormitory to prevent forgetting, or set up a sound device in the computer system or electronic notebook to remind you in time; Put yourself in others' shoes. Are you wasting others' time or helping others? If the situation is negative, it should be corrected in time.
2: Do it now. Many people are used to "waiting for a good mood", that is, spending a lot of time to "enter the state", but they don't know that the state is made, not waited for, so the best time needs to be grasped.
Remember, the best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago, and the second best time is now. The bird in your hand is more effective than the bird in the forest. 3. Learn to say "no". It is common that plans can't keep up with changes. It is true that many times I have arranged the plan, but there are often some temporary changes. For example, friends dragging you shopping will take up most of your free time. In this case, learning to refuse properly is an effective way to get rid of change and entanglement in time management. But when you refuse, you should pay attention to skills, don't be straightforward, be tactful, and refuse with reasons that others think are really reasonable. Learn to limit time, not only for yourself but also for others. Don't dwell on boring people and unimportant things, don't stay in unnecessary places for too long, and don't break up all the time. Only when a person learns to say "no" can he be truly free. At the same time, we should also avoid peak hours, such as avoiding cycling, shopping and eating during peak hours, which can save a lot of time. 4. Time values. Avoid the example of "a penny for a penny, a few hours for stupidity", such as waiting in line for half an hour to save two yuan and walking three stops to save twenty cents, which is extremely uneconomical. When dealing with time, we should always have a concept of "cost and value", attach importance to the opportunity cost of time and maximize the value generated by time. Only in this way can we study better and grasp the missed time in college.
Or management knowledge between couples.
The hedgehog theory put forward by German zoologist Horst: Hedgehogs stay close together in cold weather to keep warm but keep a certain distance to avoid stabbing each other. When I go out with my boyfriend, he always wants to know everything about me. His first sentence on the phone is always "What are you doing?" Never changed. And when we meet, he always looks at my mobile phone. In fact, he just wants to see my information and phone records. We thought we had quarreled about it many times. But it's still useless. He's still like that. Maybe it's his personality or he doesn't know this truth. I think if I have time, I should talk about management and this hedgehog theory. The most important way to keep close is to keep a proper distance. There is also a running-in effect: the newly assembled machine, after a certain period of use, the processing marks on the friction surface are polished and become more dense. This running-in effect can also be reflected between couples. Everyone has a certain personality, but if you want to be with the person you like, you must give in to each other. Our own corner is likely to hinder the conversation or communication between couples, or hinder their lives. So at this time, couples should have a good run-in and get closer to each other.
At present, I am facing management problems myself.
As a junior, I am facing the crossroads of employment and postgraduate entrance examination. To tell the truth, I am a person who is particularly uncertain about the future and now I have to force myself to make a decision. I think it can be called decision-making in management terms.
There are six students in our dormitory, four for postgraduate entrance examination and one for employment. I'm still a little confused. I need to make a decision on postgraduate entrance examination and employment. Nowadays, the pressure of employment is increasing, and many people choose to apply for graduate students. In this way, one can enter the society in the future, avoid the current employment pressure and enjoy campus life again; Secondly, you can improve your scientific and cultural quality, and you can get a better job than a bachelor's degree. There are many benefits of postgraduate entrance examination, but the difficulty of postgraduate entrance examination is still great, and the opportunity cost of postgraduate entrance examination is also great. For myself, mathematics is a difficult problem to overcome, and there is a great possibility of failure. I may lose some internship opportunities during the preparation. In fact, there is no harm in entering the society early and working early, so you can get to know the society early. It is fierce competition and cruel survival of the fittest, which we can't experience in the ivory tower. Therefore, I choose employment.
After making a decision, it's time to make a plan that suits you. For employment, my current plan is to find an internship related to my future career without affecting my school performance. In practice, I can learn some working methods, accumulate some work experience and learn how to coordinate the relationship with people around me, which is of great significance to my future life and work. To find an internship, you should first make your own resume, then look for it on some recruitment websites, submit some resumes, or go to some recruitment markets.
But I have to say that even if I have a clear goal and a perfect plan, there will always be problems in implementation and I will never reach my goal. In fact, there are many such things. Girls always want to lose weight. For example, I often say these two words, and I will also make a weight loss plan for myself, such as what to eat for breakfast, what to eat for lunch and what to run in the playground. Often after a few days of implementation, I can't stick to it, and I start to find various excuses for myself. I think maybe my plan is not good enough. Just like losing weight, I have to do it step by step. I can't starve myself for several days at once, so I can't stick to it.
Management is an activity or process to effectively achieve goals by using human resources and other resources in a specific environment. Management is a very practical subject. We can improve efficiency through scientific methods such as planning, organizing, leading and controlling. Whether in work or in life, the correct application of scientific theories in management can make our goals easier to achieve, improve efficiency and get more benefits.
There are many management theories in daily life, such as barrel theory, which are examples from life. Barrel theory is the law of wine and sewage, which means pouring a spoonful of wine into a bucket of sewage to get a bucket of sewage; If you pour a spoonful of sewage into a barrel of wine, you will still get a barrel of sewage. In almost any organization, there are several difficult people whose purpose seems to be to make things worse. Worst of all, they are like rotten apples in a fruit box. If not handled in time, they will spread rapidly and damage other apples in the fruit box. The terrible thing about rotten apples is their amazing destructive power. An honest and capable person may be swallowed up when he enters a chaotic department, while a person without virtue and talent can quickly make a mess of an efficient department. Organizational systems are often fragile, based on mutual understanding, compromise and tolerance, and are vulnerable to infringement and poisoning. We even control our own destiny to some extent. Parkinson's law, Peter's principle and Murphy's law are all the crystallization of management wisdom in life.
Goethe once said, "Theory is gray and the tree of life is evergreen." These management wisdom from life are the experience, observation and thinking of predecessors in real life. They are highly sensitive to the common problems in the world and can think about the ins and outs of the problems. Because of the support of life, management has the source of living water and can show openness and practicality. Management theory affects everyone in daily life, and we must also learn management in life. For ordinary people, abstruse management theory is hard to reach, and easy-to-understand life management common sense is easier to understand. Another important reason for the rapid spread of saboteur ability is that destruction is always easier than construction. Therefore, for individuals, if they have any shortcomings that will affect their normal work or life, they should correct them as soon as possible to avoid big regrets caused by small problems.
There are many similar examples. For example, we take care of our clothes all year round. If properly managed, the clothes in each season will be placed in different categories. Another example is that we manage our own books. Wait a minute.