Our university dormitory is also a dormitory for six people and girls. Therefore, there are bound to be various minor contradictions, and it is very important to handle the roommate relationship at this time. And I have been living in a dormitory at school, so I have a lot of experience in dealing with roommate relationships. The specific process is as follows:

(1) It's important to get familiar with roommates.

The familiarity here is not the familiarity with friends on weekdays. But to know what kind of person your roommate is. And the earlier this understanding, the better.

Only by knowing your roommate can you know how to get along with him. For example, your roommate is too narrow-minded to joke. Then when you get along with her in the future, you'd better not joke with him. Pay attention to what you say at ordinary times.

(2) Be tolerant at ordinary times.

I think "forbearance" should really be the most important thing to get along with roommates. Because as we all know, university dormitories must come from all over the country. Different regions make many people have different personalities. Just like when I was young, I grew up in Sichuan and had a hot personality.

When I first lived in the dormitory, I had a bad temper and always bickered with others. After a long time, I found that my temper is getting better and better. You can bear it. As a result, the relationship with roommates is getting better and better, and there are few minor contradictions at ordinary times.

(3) If you can't bear it, don't bear it any more.

From my high school classmates, everyone around me knows that I am tolerant, that is, I can tolerate how others go too far. However, as far as these days are concerned, I have run out of patience.

I have a great roommate now. She has a really strange temper, the kind that makes you angry for no reason. Sometimes she gets angry when I don't know what's wrong. My other roommates usually quarrel with her, so she is "polite" to others. Suppose she goes too far. I finished the open-book exam. I don't think she has any books, so I asked her if she wanted to give them to her. Then she was angry with me and said I was bored ... so I didn't say anything.

In fact, I pinched her a few days ago, but I just couldn't bear it anymore. Although we have a good relationship now, we must still be a little uncomfortable. She will never be angry in front of me again.

Therefore, it's no use getting to know your roommate again. But if he is an excessive person, then you don't have to put up with it any more. This should be the best way to deal with the roommate relationship.