I remember a 14-year-old girl who was transferred from gastroenterology to gynecological clinic during the internship break, and her parents were very unhappy. She said that we are still children, how can we come to see gynecology? !
Results After examination, I found that I was pregnant for three months. When I was a child, I looked blank, and when I became a mother, I cried and made trouble.
Finally, we can only do induced abortion, which is very harmful to the child's body and mind.
According to the statistics of relevant departments, there are 10 girls who have unsafe abortions every minute in the country, and there are nearly 5 million cases every year in the country, among which teenagers account for a quarter, and the youngest is 12 years old! Not including those who have clandestine abortions in private clinics.
If it is understandable that minors don't know how to protect themselves, lack the necessary sexual knowledge, or are sexually assaulted by criminals, then some college students have impulsive behavior without any protective measures when they are pregnant, and they don't know to take emergency contraceptive measures afterwards.
Not to mention the harm of abortion, that is, college students' understanding and views on premarital sex are so superficial and casual.
I don't object to having sex before marriage if they decide to be together in the future, but I object to having sex when the future relationship is uncertain.
Maybe you can decide that he is the only thrill and won't let you down, so please protect yourself. After all, your body is your own and you should take good care of it.
Because in the secular eyes, there will be more embarrassment and accusations against women.
Many men say that they don't care if their wives are virgins, but they still care.
Now college students are quite open, so they live together and open hourly rooms.
When I was studying in Harbin, I lived in the same building as the graduate students of Harbin Medical University. Many female graduate students have boyfriends. They go out together every day, just like living a married life.
Although I study medicine, I still don't know how to protect myself. There is a condom vending machine in the corridor, but according to my observation, almost no one buys it.
Once a replenishment came, I went to ask how long it would take to replenish and how much it would cost, which made the replenishment handsome boy look embarrassed.
Female graduate students would rather take chances and pray that they will not get pregnant or have an abortion than take protective measures.
Sometimes I wonder if the proliferation of premarital sex among college students is a kind of social progress.
Compared with 40 years ago, society is certainly progressive. It is more tolerant and protects everyone's legitimate personal rights to the greatest extent.
However, the proportion of unmarried pregnant college students is increasing year by year.
20 1 1 Feb. 25th, 2008, a survey on college students' sexual and reproductive health showed that about 60% of the interviewed college students hold the concept of sexual liberation, and more than 70% of the interviewed college students are tolerant of premarital sex and unmarried cohabitation.
14.4% of unmarried college students admitted to having sex, while 47% took contraceptive measures in their first sex, and only 28.7% took contraceptive measures every time they had sex. Among the students who have had sex, more than 25% have experienced unintended pregnancy.
This result is really shocking.
The attitude of the school is that college students' sexual behavior can neither be prohibited nor allowed. The key is to treat sexual behavior rationally, scientifically and healthily.
No matter how the society progresses, women should be responsible for their actions. It's true.