Chapter 1: Family Style tells you that our family is a little-known family that cherishes time. The so-called cherish time is to cherish time. My family style is only two words: cherish time.
If you want to say anything, let's start with grandma. At my grandmother's age, she is also very busy. When we go out to study and work, she uses her time to wash and brush at home, and she is never idle.
In the morning, grandma gets up early. She helped us prepare breakfast and began to do other work. I got up and observed grandma's every move. She mopped the floor quietly as if afraid of disturbing my sleep.
I know, grandma's body is not particularly tough. Doing manual labor for too long has a slight impact on the body. She did everything for us. Look, grandma moves slowly, but mops the floor cleanly. If some places are still dirty, she will drag them around again and again until they are cleaned. If it really doesn't work, she will frown, shake her head and drag it with detergent. Grandma, we all love you. Thank you for giving so much for us!
Under the influence of grandma, my mother is also a person who cherishes time. Is the person we should mention. She works hard in the unit during the day, and because of this attitude, she is rated as "excellent employee" every year. After my mother gets off work, I can always hear her hurried footsteps and panting voice. Mother prepared dinner for us with a bag in one hand and a plate in the other. She didn't show any exaggeration, just to avoid attracting attention, just panting in a low voice. After dinner, my mother gave up socializing and didn't go back to rest, but helped with housework at home. Grandma does it during the day, and mom rushes to do it at night, so that grandma can rest.
One night, I woke up inexplicably. In a blur, I saw a faint light flashing in the study, and my mother was still sorting out the bookshelves! Wipe the left, another reason, go on. I saw sweat dripping down my mother's cheek. My mother's back is slightly hunched, and she used to be proud of her straight back. Why do you have a hunchback today? I'm wide awake and the light in the study is still on. Mom, I work in the office during the day and I have to do housework at home at night. Mom deserves to be an example for us to cherish time!
Under the influence of grandma and mom, I learned to cherish time. At school, I am the minister of health, not only working loudly, but also studying.
Once, the math teacher assigned us a lot of homework and asked us to finish it carefully. I wrote it for two hours that time! I did it seriously, persevered and didn't waste a minute. None of the other students finished their homework, and they all felt that there was not enough time. That homework was praised in public, which is the result of cherishing time!
The family style of our family-cherish the wind of time, and wish it to stay in my home. May the wind that cherishes time float all over the Chinese nation and into thousands of households!
Chapter 2: Family Style Family Style is a lamp that illuminates my road ahead. Family style is a road, accompanying me to the light. Family style is a mirror that always finds its own shortcomings.
In the hall of my house, there is a sentence hanging at the end: Only when you suffer hardships can you be a master. Every time I see these ten words, I always feel something in my heart Grandpa said that keeping this sentence in mind would benefit me a lot.
After entering junior high school, the pressure of studying is like a huge burden that makes me breathless. After the third grade, this life is even worse. By the third day, we can no longer have more time to stay in the warm bed and have more time to taste breakfast as we did in primary school. By the third day, we are even more afraid of the coming of winter. The cold wind roared in our ears like a dissatisfied housewife. It tells us that you can only move forward. Although this kind of study is very hard, no one flinches. Because everyone has a common belief: success will pave a beautiful road for tomorrow.
I slowly closed my eyes and played it back in my mind like a movie. I remember that my English grades dropped rapidly some time ago. The teacher asked me why, but I couldn't answer, so I thought about it alone. I am in a bad mood when I go home this day. Grandpa asked me about the situation, and I answered truthfully. Grandpa smiled kindly after hearing this. Grandpa said, "The most fundamental reason is that you are not serious recently, right?" I looked at grandpa and nodded. "What's the matter, can you tell grandpa?" I hung my head and said, "Actually, I'm very tired recently. I finish my homework very late every day. " After listening to this, Grandpa pointed to the words on the hall: Only after suffering can you be a master. I stared at it for a long time. Grandpa said, "Do you know why I hung this calligraphy here?" I shook my head. Grandpa said, "There are many stories here!" I will lie prone on my desk and listen to grandpa's explanation.
Grandpa said that this family style has been passed down for decades. When I was a child, my grandfather told him that if you want sweetness, you will never get it without going through the bee forest. If you want to succeed, what can you do to accumulate experience and experience the beauty of life without pain? I am the happiest when I listen to my grandfather talk about their past bitterness. I was suddenly enlightened. I began to pick up English books and spell words carefully. People are easy for me, I don't care, people are difficult for me, and I am not afraid of difficulties. Remember everything grandpa said. The motivation of learning will come back, as if full of power. After this mock exam, my English score has also improved to the previous level.
Family style grew with me. I will take this sentence as my motto. Suffering is our virtue, because all our efforts have not been in vain, and it will give you unexpected returns. Family style keeps in mind my heart. It will always be handed down with me.
Chapter 3: Family Style Composition "Honesty, Upward, Respect for the Old and Love for the Young; Diligence, Harmony, Home and Everything Prosperous "—— Walking into the home of Zhang Longxing, a villager in Maanshan, the unique" Family Training Card "in the case corner is very eye-catching. In recent years, inspired by the villagers in Wang Yang village, the practice of "practicing family training" and "cultivating family style" has become a common practice in Fengxian.
With the media publicity and reports, the word family style inadvertently broke into everyone's field of vision. Although everyone is no stranger to family style, what is family style? I'm afraid different people will have different answers. Some people say that family style is clean, and some people say that family style is to respect the old and love the young; Some people say that family style is hard-working and kind, while others say that family style is to save civilization. Although there is a literal definition of family style, in everyone's mind, family style actually has a different internal.
From the historical origin, the rise of family originated from the ancient civilization of farming society and is an important part of traditional culture. In ancient China, family style was still an important energy core of a family or clan, and it was a code of conduct and moral standard that all family members must follow. The ancients said, "cultivate one's morality, keep one's family in order, govern the country and level the world." "Managing your family" here means managing your family, and managing your family requires a good family style, so the importance of family style is obvious.
With the development of the 1980s, the internal family style has been constantly rewritten, becoming richer and richer, with more modern elements and less feudal colors, which is also the progress of previous history. However, we can probably see that in the era of product economy, people's values are increasingly diversified. In addition, due to the influence of bad atmosphere, some people ignore morality, do not stress honesty, or forcibly enter Liangshan for their own self-interest, or do whatever it takes for their own purposes. Although these are only legal or moral appearances, they are essentially the result of damaged family style and lack of family education.
On the surface, family style is just a family matter, which has nothing to do with society and the country, but it is not. In the process of human growth, the influence of family style on oneself can not be ignored. As a quiet moral force, family style purifies the hearts of every family member all the time. Families with good family style can cultivate good citizens for the society, and officials with good family style can become good public servants of citizens.
Broadly speaking, family style has both clan characteristics and social characteristics. The family is the basic unit of society, so as a positive energy, family style is also the product of the deep precipitation of the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation. More importantly, a good family style not only embodies the energy style of the Chinese nation, but also shows the details of socialist core values. Therefore, as long as the family style is correct, the folk customs can be correct, the political style can be clear, and the party style can be terminated.
You don't need to be overjoyed to build a good family style. We can follow the principle of "don't do it with small evils, don't do it with small goodness", start with small things, let a good family style be passed down from generation to generation, and promote family harmony, social development and the early completion of the Chinese dream.
Chapter IV: Family Style The family is the nursery and the children are the seedlings. The family wind is like raindrops, which sneak into the night with the wind and moisten things silently. Only under the moisture of rain and dew can the seedlings grow healthily. Only under the influence of good family style can children stand out. Recently, with the popularity of the word "family style", I can't help seeing photos of my grandparents educating me.
When I was a child, my grandmother always told me a few words before going to school: "Son, don't grind your teeth with your classmates at school (Bozhou proverb means quarreling or fighting). If someone bullies you, come back and tell me, and I will go to your teacher. " ! Grandma is afraid that I will have conflicts with my classmates at school. She always gives me a "political lesson" when I'm free, tells some classic stories, and teaches me to be frank when things go wrong, to get along well with teachers and classmates at school, and not to always have conflicts with others. Under grandma's inculcation, I basically have no contradiction with my teachers and classmates.
Grandpa loves to tell me a lot about his experiences in military service, and warns me: "Few young people nowadays can bear hardships and stand hard work. You must learn to bear hardships from an early age, otherwise you can't do great things! " Grandpa also taught me: "Only by suffering can you become a master." Only after experiencing an unbearable environment can we cultivate real talents and excel in our future work and life. Perhaps this is "the day is about to drop, and people must first suffer their minds, work their bones and muscles, and starve their bodies and skins ...", I think.
Now, I have entered high school and become a high school student. I have developed a good habit of being helpful, hard-working and simple. Come to think of it carefully, these are closely related to our family style. Grandma still gives me a "political lesson" before going to school every time, and grandpa still tells me the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation from time to time before and after meals, such as thrift and hard work. I'm happy to listen to them, because that's a good family style in our family.
I have been thinking that it is a national culture worth promoting to establish a correct family style and inherit excellent family rules and family instructions. Nowadays, some bad habits in society have gradually withdrawn from people's sight, and "positive energy" has been passed down. If we add a good family style to the construction, the atmosphere of our society will be purer, the people's life will be better and the country's future will be more prosperous!
Chapter V: Family Style Every family has its own family style, family rules and family training. To talk about my family style, family rules and family precepts will be related to several things when I was a child.
Since I was sensible, my mother has told me the truth of being a man. First of all, I should study hard, which means I should study hard. Secondly, make progress, keep making progress, and prove that you can do it with your own practical actions; Then there are people who are honest and dishonest. How can others trust and rely on you? Finally, kindness, without a kind heart, only a narrow heart, how to think of others? How do you help others when they are in trouble?
At the age of five, I can do anything I want. But eating is very picky, not picking meat or vegetables, and there are often leftovers. Moreover, when I wash my hands, I waste half a basin of water every time I wash them, and I waste a lot of water by leaving the faucet on after washing. After knowing my two bad habits, my mother said to me, "frugality is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. Don't be picky about food or leave leftovers in the future to save water resources." From that moment on, I knew to be frugal.
During the Chinese New Year, I went to my grandfather's house to pay a New Year call. Say "Happy New Year" to Grandpa. Grandpa took a red envelope from his pocket, put it in my hand and said to me earnestly, "Granddaughter! You are six years old and will be in the first grade next year. I want to tell you three words. The first sentence is to respect the elders. Wherever you go in the future, you should be polite and respect your elders when you meet them. The second sentence is filial piety to parents, who brought you into this world and raised you. You must repay them and be filial to them when you grow up; The third sentence is self-reliance. Whatever you do in the future, don't rely on others, work hard on your own, be content with the status quo and be diligent and enterprising. This is my expectation for you, and I hope you will always remember this. "
In another year, I will go to primary school. We sat down for a family meeting. Dad said: "Today's content is to discuss family style, family rules and family training." The purpose is for you to discipline yourself and manage yourself after school. "We discussed it for a long time before deciding.
Family style is diligence, progress, honesty and kindness.
Family rules are diligence and thrift, and family precepts are respect for elders, filial piety to parents and self-reliance.
After going to school, I feel that since I have family style, family rules and family instructions, I will always remember and restrain myself.
Chapter VI: Family Style My parents are both intellectuals. As a senior engineer, my father will take "learning first" as his mantra, while as a teacher, my mother will always say "Be gentle". These two sentences have made my ears thick with cocoons, which can also be said to be my family style.
As long as I can remember, every visitor will see his parents smile and receive the guests gracefully. Therefore, it is either a sweet and delicious meal or a way to talk about "what is it?" My brother and I don't ask questions, answer questions, adults don't interrupt, and adults don't eat at the table, which won the praise of the guests: "Your children are really sensible." "You are an intellectual, but you are different." But usually, my naughty brother and I will "make a scene" from time to time. For example, don't put a hairpin on my sleeping dad and then comb two beautiful pigtails, so my mother took a broom in her hand and drove us all to the toilet or balcony. I could hear my dad's anger: "How dare you touch the emperor's head?"
Although it was 2 1 century, my father always used some feudal education methods to control us because of the influence of feudal consciousness. But it is these educational methods that keep my brother and I among the best in our studies. Every night; At home, there is never the sound of playing mahjong or shaking the earth, only the rustling of my brother and I doing homework and the sound of my parents turning over books and newspapers. Sometimes, the whole family will be flushed because of a math problem. But after all, it is feudal education, so there is a policy of closing everything! Don't listen to the radio, don't go out to play on holidays, as if to make my brother and I become nerds. No, even extracurricular books can only be peeked in the toilet or under the covers. I really want to say to my father, "It's 2 1 century, and the old education method should be changed." But afraid of his father's majesty, words always swallow back into his mouth.
This is my family style, which has advantages and disadvantages. But I firmly believe that with the progress of the times, the family style of the new era will settle in my home. My family will become richer and better!
Chapter 7: Family style is in my heart, home is a vegetable garden, I am a vegetable seedling, and the family style that has accompanied me for thirteen years is dew and raindrops. It is the family style that patiently moistens me through spring, summer, autumn and winter. I can't thrive without family style.
Family style accompanied me from ignorance to maturity, and stepped on the steps of life step by step. This is my intangible strength-family lifestyle. In my vague memory, my mother taught me to be polite, to respect the old and love the young, to be honest and trustworthy, to help others and so on. Quality is strictly controlled.
Time goes by slowly and things happen again and again. The bright sunshine outside shone directly into the window, and the controversy in our family once again reached my ears:
"You say how old you are, and you can't do anything well. Listen, I asked you to get yourself a glass of water. Why is it so full and spilled everywhere? " It hurts all the time. My mother started nagging again while wiping the water on the table. Although my mother's "chatterbox" is a bit annoying, it can barely be regarded as "music". Just listen to it. It turns out that an aunt came to my house this morning. My mother ordered me to pour a glass of water for my aunt. Accidents will happen. Unexpectedly, the hand was shaken carelessly and the water was full. A little careless, but I didn't mean to. After menstruation left, my mother's "small bass horn" began to play nonstop, so as to be steady and half-hearted. I must correct it.
"So big, I don't even know the rules. I don't know how to greet the guests when they come. I only care about myself. " As soon as my mother sent the guests away, she gave me another "gift" when she came back. How could I be so unlucky? "...!" After a long speech, my mother was not tired at all: "You should know how to respect others and be polite." From then on, I dare not neglect the guests at home for a moment, and quickly left a "hello aunt" and right a "hello uncle."
In my mother's chatter, I learned to be polite, respect others and concentrate on my work ... As I grew older, I got older, but my mother never slackened. Tell me: "Although these things are trivial and trivial, they can directly affect your growth." My family style is cultivated by my mother, step by step, step by step.
Yes, the cultivation of an invisible good family style is the transmission of positive energy and the feedback of your future education. As long as the family style is good, the national style is good.
Our family style, I hope it stays in my home. May the never-ending wind of progress blow all over the Chinese nation and into thousands of households. May my family become richer and better because of it.
Chapter 8: Family Style "Hehe ……" Which family is still lighting bright lights in the dark night, trying to make it bright for the family? This is our home! This light in the dark is the brightest light in the community, no, in Wenzhou.
I tell you, we are a hard-working family, and we are not famous in this community. Four generations of ancestors, one generation is diligent!
If you want to say anything, let's start with grandma. At my grandmother's age, she is also very busy. When we go out to study and work, she uses her time to wash and brush at home, and she is never idle.
In the morning, grandma gets up early. She helped us prepare breakfast and began to do other work. I got up and observed grandma's every move. She mopped the floor quietly as if afraid of disturbing my sleep.
I know, grandma's body is not particularly tough. Doing manual labor for too long has a slight impact on the body. She did everything for us. Look, grandma moves slowly, but mops the floor cleanly. If some places are still dirty, she will drag them around again and again until they are cleaned. If it really doesn't work, she will frown, shake her head and drag it with detergent. Grandma, we all love you. Thank you for giving so much for us!
Under the influence of grandma, my mother is also a diligent person. Is the person we should mention. She works hard at work during the day. Because of this attitude, she is awarded "Excellent party member" every year. After my mother gets off work, I can always hear her hurried footsteps and panting voice. Mother prepared dinner for us with a bag in one hand and a plate in the other. She didn't show any exaggeration, just to avoid attracting attention, just panting in a low voice. After dinner, my mother gave up socializing and didn't go back to rest, but helped with housework at home. Grandma does it during the day, and mom rushes to do it at night, so that grandma can rest.
One night, I woke up inexplicably. In a blur, I saw a faint light flashing in the study, and my mother was still sorting out the bookshelves! Wipe the left, another reason, go on. I saw the sweat dripping down my mother's face and cheeks ... My mother's back was slightly hunched, and she used to be proud of her straight back. Why is she hunched today? I'm wide awake and the light in the study is still on. Mom, I work in the office during the day and I have to do housework at home at night. Mom deserves to be our hardworking role model!
Under the influence of grandma and mom, I learned to work hard. At school, I am the head of the health team, not only working loudly, but also studying.
On one occasion, Teacher Lin assigned little homework. But we need to finish it seriously. Yes, there are only two, one is regular homework and the other is composition. I wrote it for two hours that time! This composition is written on five sides. I did it very seriously. Maybe I usually read a lot of extracurricular books. When I pick up a pen, I will be inspired by generate, and the more I write, the stronger I get. That composition, I was praised in public, it was the result of hard work!
The family style of our family-the wind of hard struggle, may it stay in my home. May the industrious wind float all over the Chinese nation and into thousands of households!