1, know yourself and improve yourself.

As a college student, you should know yourself comprehensively. What kind of person you are, what kind of personality you are, what are your strengths and weaknesses, etc. You should have a certain understanding in your heart. Only by knowing yourself objectively can we know what kind of person we are and find out the countermeasures to improve ourselves. In the process of knowing yourself, don't escape. Only when you face yourself will others look at you. Only by enhancing your charm can you attract others.

2. Learn to love and truly understand.

Don't be too self-centered in the process of interacting with others. Everyone has his own growth experience and different stories. Sometimes I hear people have different views on different things, so I need to understand them properly. Although people can't really empathize with each other, we should understand each other's difficulties, don't always tell others what to do, and don't always substitute our own ideas into other people's experiences.

Join a club and make friends with like-minded people.

As we all know, there are many clubs in the university campus, and there will always be places to exercise in these clubs. Of course, joining your favorite club is not only for exercising yourself, but more importantly, you can find like-minded friends here. In many societies, there are many talents with various abilities. You can make friends with them and learn from their strengths.

4, reading, traveling, expanding knowledge.

During my four years in college, I can learn a lot on campus, but sometimes I need to read books and travel to gain different experiences. A lot of reading helps to increase knowledge and improve logical ability. Traveling can not only make people happy, but also see different people and things, understand the ideas of people at different levels, and make many book friends and donkey friends.