? At the annual meeting, I benefited a lot from the speeches of such heavyweight guests as Mr. Xiao Shuai, Mr. Xiong, Sister Na, Uncle, etc., which are listed below. I can't help but talk about my fairy tale first.
12 14 I pray and bless myself in my heart. I believe I will benefit a lot from attending the annual meeting. What is more certain is that my life direction will be more clear. Because I joined the UP family for a short time, I only attended the 10 reading club and the wealth class of Teacher Xiaoshuai. On weekdays, I talk less in the group and don't link with my sisters. So I left without expecting the feelings between my sisters, and went with a serious study attitude.
? Everything was normal in the morning, and the brain was running at high speed to receive knowledge light waves. Six guests/sisters shared all the wonderful things. At noon, I had dinner with seven friends and lamented that they had left me far behind on the road of learning and growth, such as psychological counselor, Maya interpretation, meditation and so on.
? After dinner, I returned to the annual meeting, and my fairy tale began.
When I returned to the table, I found my sister in an orange sweater standing next to my chair, with her own things. I told her that this was my seat, and we had a table available. My sister moved from my seat to the opposite side of me.
? At noon, volunteers and sisters randomly distributed the gifts that everyone brought in the morning to their seats. Maybe it's because there are not enough gifts, and there are no gift bags on my chair. I saw my sister across the street take out the gift box. Oh, it looks familiar. This is the gift box I prepared on the evening of June 65438+February 65438+April 4, and there is a brooch in it. It used to be mine, but now it belongs to my sister. 12 14 when preparing gifts at night, I had a faint wish in my heart, hoping to know who received this brooch and hope that the things I like have a good ownership. It's good to see its new owner open the gift box at the annual meeting.
? There is an empty seat next to my sister. There are two gift bags on that seat. My sister handed me a bag and said, this is a gift. Please open it and have a look. Take out the gift, wow, I was surprised, happy and moved in an instant. Those are three lipsticks in a shiny bag. At this point, it is my version of the fairy tale of dream realization. Is it? be
At the beginning of this year, I decided to give two sisters a lipstick and three sisters a lipstick of the same brand and different colors. The Spring Festival is beautiful. Every time I read information about cosmetics, I will pay attention as long as I see lipstick. Having finished the handsome teacher's wealth class has strengthened my confidence in not spending money indiscriminately, but I know that I have decided to buy these three lipsticks. Every lipstick is in the early 200 s, and every time I see the price, I wonder if it can be lower.
Holding lipstick and cards together, I told my deskmate that I like this gift very much, and I really want to thank her for Qian Qian. My well-connected deskmate told me that the girl nearest to you at the next table seems to be called Qian Qian. Oh, my friend, thank you for being reasonable. I turned around and saw a little girl with long princess hair, wearing a pink artificial fur jacket, thick gray pantyhose and white Mao Mao shoes. I walked over and said, are you Qian Qian? She chewed candy and said yes. I told her that I received your gift and liked it very much. You don't know I have two sisters. I've always wanted to give them lipstick as a New Year gift. Qian Qian is very happy to see me so happy. She told me that she brought it back from America some time ago.
Later, during our chat, we hugged each other deeply several times, which was amazing. I can't help hugging my friends, because of their happiness and mutual understanding, which may only happen in college. Hehe, 65438+February 16 is also a magical day. Hardly had I typed the word university on the keyboard when my mobile phone rang. At first glance, it was the closest sister in college. We haven't called in years. Hehe, there are no words to express, only laughter.
? At first glance, Qian Qian is very young. After chatting, she learned that it was 9 1 year, younger than me 1 1 year. However, her language and expression are full of intimacy and kindness. I took a photo with my sister, put a brooch on her, and took a photo with her sister. All's well that ends well/when you really want something, the whole universe will help you together. I originally believed it, but I believed it even more on the day of 65438+February 15.
? These are my fairy tales. Next, I will confess all the big coffee sisters. Every big coffee and wild sister brings too much spiritual food, especially big coffee. I can only absorb a small part. If this small part can be thought out and practiced in 2020, it will be different. From each guest's speech, I selected several most touching aspects to understand.
Observe and discover the strengths of family members and develop them into life partners;
With Jane's encouragement, my husband soon mastered how to make excellent publicity materials; Mother-in-law was very happy in short-term praise, and the two couples made their career very successful.
? Short words are great, and husband He Hui is even better. He Hui publicly announced his wife last year and publicly sang love songs this year. He Hui, the brightest young man in these two years, made every effort to create tears for everyone last year (I heard) and this year.
Husband and wife are United, and their profits are broken. In a word, husband and wife are examples for us to learn from.
1. A little trick, a new husband!
? Every woman knows this little trick, but many people don't. This little gesture is ~ jiao ~
A woman who can coquetry has the best life, and a woman with good life can coquetry. Remember and practice this sentence well ~
2. Only unreasonable expectations, others are reasonable. Instead of waiting for her husband to change, it is better to change yourself first.
Change to a new self, and a new husband will come soon.
? I have attended 9 wealth classes of Xiaoshuai teacher before, and I have been brainwashed by Xiaoshuai teacher in many ways. At the annual meeting, there are many aspects to refresh my cognition.
? 1. Who have you been living for in the past 10 years?
? Married in 2009, graduated from graduate school and entered the current company. /kloc-in 0/0 years, she became the mother of two children, and her career was serious but not hard. It seems that in 10 years, I didn't live for anyone, for myself, or for my parents/husbands/children/careers. Live too ignorant and too sloppy.
If time could go back to 10 years ago, how would I plan my life?
I think I will seriously think about family planning, financial planning, career planning, read more excellent books in these fields, take excellent courses, learn to write carefully, and talk with excellent people I can contact for advice. The general direction of these family financial management is well known, holding the steering wheel of life instead of automatic navigation.
The best time to plant a tree is ten years ago, followed by now. From now on, live every day carefully.
2. Use the network of contacts to deeply link high-level contacts and find their own guides;
In 2020, learn from better people with goals, seriously understand and practice hard.
3. Achieving the goal is not ability or technology, but a set of processes;
? (1) It is very important to determine the correct/appropriate goal first. The process of determination needs to combine innate advantages, acquired advantages and essential advantages.
(2) the way to achieve the goal: come up with it-write it down-post it-watch it every day-move it-really achieve it.
At the end of the annual meeting, I asked everyone to write down the goal for 2020. I wrote down two goals I had buried in my heart before:
The host, Mr. Abu, walked around the venue, encouraging everyone to write down their goals. When I saw that I was writing very fast, Mr Abramovich read my first goal in public. Thanks for your support. Wang Yu, my little friend, was sitting at my front desk. Hearing my goal, she immediately added a WeChat friend, Wang Yu. Thank you for your support and blessing.
Take being kind to others as the most important lesson in daily life, and good opportunities will only come from old friends. Today's new friends-tomorrow's old friends-a good opportunity the day after tomorrow.
? (1) Make more people on the same frequency and keep in touch with old friends diligently. Try to provide mutual beneficial value for friends who have frequent contact;
(2) Praise/support your friends more, and express your gratitude with gifts and money within your ability;
Qing Er shared the theme "What determines our destiny". Qing Er only attended the 10 UP book club, which was the most difficult period in her life. Every book shared by Zi Mu is her lifeline. In just two months, she changed from a person who wanted to commit suicide to a person who started making money by her own talent. Now Qing Er is the happiest person in UP family, and her life is rich and happy every day.
? Different values make different choices-different choices produce different results-different results produce different destinies.
? Destiny is in our own hands, and each of us can make a comeback if you want.
Chuan Geng Na Kun is very inspirational and good at encouraging everyone. By studying and following Zi Mu, she got rid of depression and became a professional Maya interpreter. I fully explained with my own experience that only a firm belief can make a comeback.
Chuan Geng Nakun shared that she dared to stand on the stage this year because at last year's annual meeting, she saw an ugly girl standing in front of the stage to challenge herself and tell her story. Her indomitable character made her make up her mind at that time: she can, so can I, and I will stand on this stage next year. She really did it. The process of passing on Geng Nakun inspired me a lot. As long as I persist in 2020, I will definitely change. I also like sharing and secretly sowing seeds for myself. With such a good tutor and director as Zi Mu, I can be a guest speaker at next year's annual meeting as long as I obey.
Chuan Geng Na Kun Chuan enthusiastically shouted to everyone, "Come to the annual meeting of UP Reading Club next year and stand on the stage as a guest speaker. Do you dare to come? " Then thank you and get ready to step down. The style of painting began to change. Teacher Abu said, "Pass on Geng Nakun, please stay. Someone in the background has been listening to your sharing. " . Chuan Geng Na Kun turned to look at the background doubtfully, and his mother came up from behind. The big screen began to play pictures of Geng Nakun with his parents since he was a child. Chuan Geng Na Kun held his mother in his arms and burst into tears. There was bitterness in the past and relief when he grew up. This tear point is really big. Maybe everyone was moved. The deep and steady Mr. Abu cried.
Zi Mu and several small partners of the UP family joined hands to give Chuan Geng Na Kun a surprise and warm-hearted UP family.
The grade gap with Mr. Xiong is equivalent to Mr. Xiong watching the scenery on the 100 floor, and I started climbing from the second floor.
Many of Mr. Xiong's views have subverted my original cognition, because Mr. Xiong is best at leading ordinary people to fight back. First, use the main points that I can understand and take action on:
1. The upward road is not crowded, because most people choose comfort. Counter-attack requires growth in many aspects;
It's hard to fight back. It is not difficult to lower the expectation of growth. Little by little, I hope that I can finally counterattack. My current situation is that every working day (plus commuting) takes up 12 hours, and my children need someone to accompany them when they go home.
? When are you free?
? 1) You can listen to audio and think for 3 hours on your way to and from work every day;
? 2) Try to get up at 5 o'clock every day;
? 3) On Saturday or Sunday afternoon, you can arrange reading and writing time for yourself.
2. There are four ways for ordinary people to fight back: talent (hobby), way out (opportunity), resources (information) and pattern (persistence);
? It is easy and feasible for us to grow up with resources (information) and patterns (persistence). We can choose various methods to learn and obtain information. The most important thing is to find the right direction and stick to it.
3. The steps of counterattack include: analyzing yourself-finding the right direction-setting a good time-persisting in action-checking the gains, and adjusting in time when the direction deviates;
4. The essence of making money is value exchange.
1) At the beginning of accumulating wealth, the standard of choosing to do things is conducive to growth, not making money. Early time is the least valuable, so it is better to make people owe others a debt and not pay it back.
Pay must be rewarded, and the reward is not necessarily money, but it can be exchanged, so as to earn the money before 1 10 in 16.
2) Adhere to the unpaid work, pay it off after 2 years, accept the investment first and then pay it off.
5. If you want to achieve a counterattack, do reverse screening first to see what occupies the most time and quit;
Talk less and do more, chat less in the community, study more and write more articles. Constantly escape from the comfort zone, chat easily and try not to do it; It's hard to write an article. Stick to it and pay for the knowledge slowly. When writing, we should pay attention to the fact and experience sharing itself.
You should earn enough money for a lifetime before you are 45.
? 100000 can basically live without worry, and the monthly interest of 6 million deposits is about 20,000, which basically meets the daily needs of a family. Work hard as soon as possible.
Li Na, the top planner in China, is the CEO of Beijing Jiazinian Cultural Media. She looks young and smiles happily. This starting point is not much different from that of an amateur girl, who has stood at a height that an amateur can never reach with her own efforts.
1. Only you can change yourself, and the environment can only affect people but not people.
? 2. You must first become yourself worthy of the life you want, become thinner and more beautiful, and become a career. You must manage yourself well. The influence of image on people is very important. Do you prefer to chat with handsome guys? Beautiful girls even like us women.
3. Keep up with the image, keep up with the business/temperament, and find a big coffee to constantly improve yourself; Vases will soon be out of date, and it is king to cultivate temperament beauty.
It's never that the chances are not great, but that you don't work hard enough. If there is a hope of 1%, we must make an effort of 100%- 120%.
? Sister Na is a soldier, and Pearl is a hermit.
? Pearl, the whole person and the theme of the speech are beautiful. She is only 27 years old, but her face and shape are more calm than those of her peers. Pearl is pregnant for more than 8 months and is Erbao's mother. She has long curly hair, a calm face, a light posture and a particularly good state. Mother Earth gave pearls good nutrition. The topic of her speech is "The Fate Journey of Country Girls".
Pearl returned to the countryside from Shenzhen in August of 20 18 and lived an idyllic life. PPT shows all kinds of beautiful flowers and freshly unearthed ingredients, which are really beautiful. Most of our rural hometowns are not so good. I don't know if the countryside chosen by Pearl is beautiful, and I don't know if Pearl will create a beautiful atmosphere. Anyway, Pearl obeyed her heart and chose the life she wanted, far above us. In Mingzhu's speech, she also talked about a personal business model that can nourish herself and others, be poetic and support her family. Bless Pearl and look forward to Pearl's example of living another life.
In midsummer, the topic of Guo's speech was "Do these three things well, and you can be friends with money". I shared the better profit model of parent-child reading library with my own experience and personal experience, and taught treasure mothers how to cross the hurdle of public welfare. Break the money horse. The only function of money is to express gratitude;
1. Love money from the heart and in the right way; I feel happy every time the money comes; Express gratitude in time with money, and money will be given sooner or later.
2. Be a person that money likes; Improve yourself and become a person with both ability and political integrity. Be targeted and learn from fruitful people; People who spend more time with positive energy pay with kindness and accept with gratitude.
Believe in the power of time and make long-term friends with money. Insist on doing the right thing and wait patiently.
Dashu is the founder of the wooden house. The current development stage of the cabin is an APP that borrows books and buys books, and it will develop into an APP that subscribes to all the good life in the future.
Dashu is a man of great cultural temperament. His greatest hobby is reading, especially reading biographies of celebrities. On the one hand, Dashu's speech popularized the idea of entrepreneurship, on the other hand, it also conveyed many life truths. For me at this stage, it is easier to absorb and be interested in the truth of life.
? 1. What a person does has nothing to do with what he wants to do and what major he studies. After entering the workplace, the competition is learning ability rather than professional restrictions; The core driving force of human beings is will, which naturally forms an energy field around it.
? 2. Culture is very important. Every family/nation/country should have its own culture.
What parents can pass on to their children is only the spiritual wealth at the cultural level such as struggle, values and mission.
There are only two things in life. Where are you going? How long will you insist on this matter?
If you want to know what you want to do, just follow the overall situation/government policy and follow the trend. In Dashu's view, 996 is a yearning for a better life and a better self. Li Na's perseverance/Mr. Xiong's four-hour sleep and everything/Uncle's 996 tell us that there is no casual success, and all success requires enough persistence and dedication.
? Merry really has confidence in honey. I admire her and am sincere.
You can stand on the platform of more than 200 people and shout: "I am a very wise person, I am a very rich person, I am * #+!" , ... "？ If you can't shout it out, you lose, haha!
"Happy Letter" is a clean stream. Thank you, Zi Mu, for giving everyone a chance to enjoy it.
Ah, dear Zimu, it's your turn at last.
Zi Mu wore a pink pleated skirt and a well-tailored water-blue suit at the annual meeting, just like a fairy. Zi Mu is God's favorite child. She is tall and beautiful, with a delicate face and beautiful eyes.
From Zi Mu's eyes and mouth when he speaks, I can feel that Zi Mu should be a good boy who loves learning and is willing to listen, and has a good gene of "obedient and accurate". I bring my own tenderness and warmth, not femininity or affectation. I really like sharing. I like every girl from the inside out. It's very comfortable to snuggle up with her.
The topic shared by Zimu is "Rebuilding your rich life system with reading", which is also the growth theme that Zimu set for himself on 20 19. I shared my growing process in recent years and five ways to live happily. The following people touched me a lot:
1. Things and stories that have saved you can also be taken out to save others;
We have learned what we have absorbed and turned it into our own expression. As long as you can help people, you can become your own income channel.
? 2. People can always be quiet, and heaven and earth belong to each other (peace, joy and peace);
Leave some quiet time for yourself and think about what you want.
? 3. Pay attention to good luck-have a good luck physique-attract good luck-abundant;
? Let yourself be satisfied and happy first, and abundance will naturally exist.
4. While knowing yourself, know more about some people and the world, and your inner world will be more open.
See and experience the possibilities in the world.
In fact, the specific content shared by Zimu is not important. What is important is that we can see that the real Zimu and Qian Chao's Zimu are the same person, which is the most important thing.
? Attending the annual meeting of UP family was the richest thing I did on 20 19.
Write down your harvest, practice it well, and firmly believe that you will see yourself differently in 2020.
? (Written at the end: The annual meeting will pass a week soon. I am busy with work and children every day, as busy as schizophrenia. No matter how hard I try, I can't spare much time to write quietly. But when you really want something, the whole universe will unite to help you, so, you see, the manuscript becomes ~)?