In 2009, she was diagnosed with breast cancer and had only one year left in her life. In the process of fighting the disease, she deeply thought about the width and thickness of her life, recorded the last journey of her life, and summarized many philosophical views on life in her diary.
At that time, her diaries were posted online, which caused widespread concern and heated discussion. If this matter is put in the present, I'm afraid the attention will be even greater. Yu Juan passed away after a year and four months of struggling with the disease, leaving endless sorrow for her daughter, husband, parents and friends who loved her deeply.
Yu Juan's diary was published one month after her death, with the title "Unfinished Life". This is a title full of sadness and regret, which makes people cry and feel a lot. On the cover of the book, there is a sentence, "How much will it cost us to recognize the meaning of living?" This simple sentence stung the hearts of many readers.
In his diary, Yu Juan reflected deeply on his life. Like young people today, she is also under heavy pressure. The problem of her professional title has forced her to finish projects and write papers desperately for a higher professional title. In her opinion, associate professors and professors are her goals, and the sooner the better.
Then there are economic problems in real life, and some materials must be won, and it seems that they will be won.
For these, she has to work hard, and these are not the living conditions of young people now?
It was not until she was diagnosed with a terminal illness and learned that the countdown to life began that she finally breathed a sigh of relief. It turns out that she has never relaxed.
What most people lack now, Yu Juan has thought about it. Today's society is full of impetuous atmosphere. Everyone wants to achieve something in the shortest time, so they pursue it blindly, just because they don't know what they want, and just because they can't pursue it, so they pursue it harder, just like Yu Juan.
A person's life is unpredictable, and I don't know that some life accidents will happen. Maybe the next second you will become a billionaire, maybe the next second you will die, so please cherish everyone who loves you and cares about you. There is a saying in Yu Juan's book that "the person who cares about you is the one you should care about most", but at that time, it was too late for her to regret, leaving nothing behind.
In Juan's book, I think life should see through two important points:
1, fame and fortune are floating clouds. People should do what they want, and life should be simple and happy. Only by finding meaningful goals to pursue and pay is the greatest happiness in life; Having a healthy body and working hard are more important than anything else.
2. Cherish the people you love. Nothing is more important than affection.