There is a plot in the story that moved me very much: Pinger asked Zijun, what would you do, mom? Dad earns money, my aunt cooks, and I go to school by myself. What did you do? Zijun was speechless for a moment. The child couldn't figure out such a complicated matter, so she cried to her friend Tang Jing: It's not easy for you to work hard outside. Who knows that it is actually ten thousand times more difficult for me to be a wife, have children and raise children.
She doesn't understand how she became "enterprising" by working so hard to be a wife and have children. . . . . .
Indeed, if nothing else, it is better to say that giving birth is not an outside job. 20 13 data: the global maternal mortality rate is 2 10 cases per 65438+ 10,000 live births. The United States is 65438+ million live births 18.5 cases. 300,000 pregnant women die every year in the world. This is really a rope to have a baby.
Some people may say, what is this? Walking in the street may be killed by a car, and sitting at home will be killed if the house collapses. . . Now all the babies go to the hospital. If they can't give birth naturally, they can cut off their stomachs. It's really not that easy to die, but it's hard for mothers to recover. They have osteoporosis, loose vagina, long spots on their faces and dull eyes. . . The internal organs are not in their original positions, and the uterus is drooping. If you were born in your twenties, you may be able to recover a little after hard exercise, but you will never get old.
Some people even say that having children is good for women, such as the increased risk of breast cancer without children 1%, and so on. In fact, having a baby will cause a sudden change in hormone levels, and the probability of other messy twenty or thirty cancers will increase by 10%. Sterilization of other mammals will increase life expectancy, but it is good for women to have children? You can also use your knees to find out where this argument came from. Can the hard work of having children be compared with going out to work?
Well, the baby was born, but the Long March has just begun. Compared with raising children, many people almost ignore the pain of having children. In this process, it is impossible to count on the nanny husband. They can help and pay, but their mother is always at the bottom. How else to say: with XXX learning machine, my mother no longer has to worry about my study. Why can't it be changed to: with XXX learning machine, my father or nanny no longer has to worry about my study. So here's an answer to Ping Er's question. What does a mother do? Although on the surface, dad earns money and nanny can take care of food and shelter, it seems that a mother can't do anything. Without her, nothing will happen. Compared with the three major industries of industrial and agricultural services, women's childbirth is actually a more basic industry. Without people, where can industrial and agricultural services start?
In addition to having children, it is easy to be someone else's wife to handle a bunch of trivial things such as in-laws and nannies. Now it costs 5,000 yuan a month to ask a receptionist to answer the phone, not to mention senior talents who meet the following criteria: getting into the hall and getting out of the kitchen, killing Trojan horses, jumping over fences, driving a car, buying a house, hitting a mistress and hitting a hooligan. . . People who are qualified for this hard job are respected, not to mention high income. However, the opposite is true:
Will only marry one man,
And have a baby for him,
Often get no respect.