My ex-girlfriend and I met in college. We didn't go to school in the same city. We have been in a long-distance relationship for almost four years. When we started dating, I explained to her that I wanted to marry her, not just fall in love with her. At that time, when I decided to have a relationship, I asked my classmates in the dormitory to accompany me to meet her in the city where she went to school, because I had never been far away. After meeting, I made up my mind to love her and marry her.

She went back to her hometown university as an intern and told me that we would be together, and I believed her. Later, when she went back to school, when she was chatting with her sister, I didn't know she had gone on a blind date until I saw the chat record. She heard from her friends that blind date children are not so good. She didn't promise, and sometimes she contacted her. I was very angry at that time and had a quarrel with her. Because I love her, I will communicate with her and make up with her in the future. She also promised me that these things would not happen.

During my three years in college, I asked to see her parents many times, but I was not allowed to see them. She said, don't worry, my parents will agree. After she came home from graduation, her mother was seriously ill. I discussed with her to see her mother, but she refused to go. When her mother died, my parents found out and asked me to contact her for a bride price of 1000. I couldn't get in touch, so I contacted her cousin and asked her to tell her.