Recently, the news about "female college students killed in love" has become a hot online search word. The author intentionally browsed the news and found that there were cases of love killings in colleges and universities one after another. Such tragic events and serious criminal cases should attract the attention of relevant departments and personnel.

At about 0: 00 am on September 28th, near the gymnasium in the south campus of Yangpu Campus of Fudan University, a senior female student was repeatedly chopped by a male student of the school, and the girl was rushed to the hospital for emergency treatment. By 9 o'clock, the girl was still in the recovery room and was out of danger. The reporter learned from the police that it was initially found that the cause of the incident was a personal emotional problem and the suspect was under control. (Oriental Morning Post, September 29)

65438+1At about 20: 50 on October 4, a girl from Beijing University of Chinese Medicine was stabbed to death. After receiving the report, the police quickly started work to control the suspect Chen Mou. According to Chen Mou's preliminary statement, he attacked the victim because he didn't catch up with him. At present, the case is under further investigation. (Southern Metropolis Daily 65438+10.6)

65438+1On the afternoon of October 6th 10 A murder case occurred in Ningbo Institute of Technology, Zhejiang University. A junior girl was locked in a girl's dormitory by a man in his thirties and brutally killed with a knife. After the man killed the female college student, he chose to commit suicide. At present, the man is being treated in the Second Hospital of Yinzhou. (Modern Gold News 65438+10.8)

The above three cases and cases are typical of female college students' recent love killings. Although the regions are different, the adverse effects are the same. Naked reality and bloody tragedy not only warn people to pay attention to the preciousness of life, but also warn people to improve their legal system and safety awareness.

In fact, we all have a question: what is the root cause of the frequent "love killings" of female college students? This is a very broad and general question, but from the similarities between the murders that have occurred all the time, we can still see some reasons.

First of all, as far as female college students are concerned, they lack the necessary safety awareness and correct concept of love. Contemporary people are open-minded, and there are often scenes of holding hands and kissing in colleges and universities. As for the weekend room, it's an open secret. They all say that "beauty is a disaster", but why do female college students get into trouble? In fact, this is not only a girl's problem, but more importantly, behind a series of cases, it is always more or less related to feelings. What is love? I'm afraid no female college students can make it clear. So I fell in love with vanity, imitation, curiosity, expectation and ignorance. I loved it vigorously and hurt it vigorously!

Second, as far as the man is concerned, his legal consciousness is weak and his life consciousness is easily ignored. Since you can enjoy the pleasure brought by love, you should learn to deal with the pain brought by lovelorn. No one's love is smooth sailing, and no one's life is worthless. If you are lovelorn, you must first find the reason from yourself, whether you have been cheated and used by the woman. Think of lovelorn as a test of life. And those who blindly impose the responsibility of lovelorn on others are undoubtedly unreasonable and vicious. Some are even more extreme, picking up a cruel butcher knife, but not realizing that other people's lives are so important. But can people who are carried away by feelings rationally look at the love that has left and the lives of others? !

Finally, as far as the whole society is concerned, "virgin complex" has always been an obscure topic. China men's "virgin complex" is deeply rooted, which has a far-reaching impact on their views on spouse selection and marriage, and is also of great relevance to the future family harmony. Under the influence of such a concept, there are always some men in society who are eager to have something with female college students. On the one hand, there are seemingly mature and rich men, and on the other hand, there are immature and alert girls on campus. A wonderful "emotional chemical reaction" took place, and the men outside the school and the girls at school reached a tacit understanding, a transaction: exchanging the girls' bodies for men's money. Of course, this kind of proof is only the most extreme. How do most of the emotional problems of female college students and the tragedies caused by them come about? I can't speak clearly in a few words.

However, one thing is inevitable: love not only means the passion brought by sex, but also the crystallization of mutual responsibility and ideal. (Text/Moon Watching)