-It's a dream come true, Heda.
1. prologue
On September 3, 2006, I packed my bags, refused the company of my family and came to Hebei University alone.
My mood is very complicated, with excitement and excitement, because I came to my dream school; There is also sadness. I have to be separated from my classmates and friends in the normal college and come to a strange environment. In short, after a bitter cold, the plum blossom finally came.
In the year of college entrance examination, I experienced transfer, SARS, and my father lost his job, so I had to temporarily choose a normal college. This is a beautiful and clean mountain city.
Three years of junior college passed quickly, and I was surprised to find that although I studied my professional knowledge very hard, I passed CET-6. However, it is far from the standard of computer software engineer, and there are many bottlenecks in finding a counterpart job-low academic qualifications and little practical project experience. Just when I didn't know what to do, I began to register for the special exam. As the saying goes, there is no road to doubt, and there is a village. I chose the special edition without hesitation and applied for the dream university-Hebei University. As the second college entrance examination in my life, I have made full preparations. Attend remedial classes, do public exams, and analyze professional knowledge.
Finally, everything pays off, and I got the admission notice from Hebei University.
2. He Dachu's experience
On the day of registration, there was no such excitement as when I first entered the university. Get a card, pay tuition, and handle accommodation. The main building is very high and has a special structure. It was past four o'clock in the afternoon, and all the salutes were moved to the dormitory with the help of roommates. Tired and sleepy, I said hello to everyone in a hurry and went to see Duke Zhou. I'm so tired, I just remember laughing all the time in my dream. Later, it was found that there were two former classmates in the dormitory. Roommates are easy to get along with, and everyone is cheerful and talkative. After a few days, they all became good sisters who talked about everything. According to birthdays, we ranked in order, and I ranked seventh. Hehe, I don't have to worry about anything There are several sisters in front, very happy.
The first class was in Nine Clouds, as if walking into a maze (it was later learned that Nine Clouds was designed by college students from gossip). Looking at the way we are in a hurry to find the classroom, we can see from the passing eyes that they are saying: freshman! Haha, freshman? We are already senior. Stepping into the classroom, because it is a joint class, many students know very little. I am serious. Listen, look and remember.
The first time I drew water, there were many people, but everyone lined up in an orderly way, and soon it was my turn. I occasionally go to the school dance, but most of the time I stand there and look at my brothers and sisters, remembering that I once thought of my college roommates like them. I wonder if they are doing well?
At the first class meeting, I met my classmates and counselors. I was appointed as the life committee member of my class, and I was lucky in my old job. Try to serve the students in the class. At the first party, the teacher was very kind. I introduced myself to you and joined this new organization. I went to study for the first time and pushed open the door of the study room. It's quiet. Everyone is studying hard. I carefully found a place to sit down. I took out my textbook and looked at the people next to me through it. It seems to be the physics department. I am studying college physics seriously, but I find that I am not the only one here. Here, I will study hard.
Although it takes some time to adapt to the new environment, there are also many challenges and many things worth learning around. Throw away yesterday's bad habits and start over.
3. There is no end to learning.
There is a road in the mountain of books, but there is no limit to learning the sea. There are several courses I have studied in junior college, which are easy to learn and can spare more time to learn some programming languages. Because there is little computer practice in universities, a very simple experimental report will take a long time. After finding the gap, we must find ways to shorten it. In this way, there is a four-point and one-line circular route every day. It's a little cruel, but after all, I've been there before and I can't waste a lot of time like before.
Take notes carefully in class and stay in the study room at night. Now I miss the tranquility of the study room. There are many internship places, and there are few quiet times. Many times, everyone is discussing problems. I was not used to it at first, but I got used to it later. Society is like this, and I won't change anything because of you. Besides, I have no ability to change. I can only change myself and try to adapt to the society.
After studying for half a year, I found that my hands-on ability is really poor. Fortunately, the college started a simulation project. I was very excited, so I followed Miss Li to do this project. In the process of project development, I learned a lot of practical development experience, as well as more teamwork and dealing with people, all of which benefited from teacher Li's earnest teaching. I want to thank Miss Li.
There is no end to learning. After leaving campus, we are about to enter the big classroom of society, and we need to learn more knowledge by ourselves. Only by constantly learning and improving can we win a place in the fierce competition. It is never too old to learn.
4. Teacher-student relationship
Although I have only taught in Hoda University for two years, every teacher in Hoda University has been deeply influenced. They are careful and meticulous. They are all role models for me to learn and to be a man. Their selfless love and sense of responsibility for students have always inspired me.
From them, I not only learned the knowledge from books, but also learned a lot about being a man. I sincerely thank them and wish them success in their work and good health. On the occasion of leaving school, I said to all the teachers of Hoda University: You have worked hard!
5. Friendship between classmates
It is unpleasant to mention the "comrades-in-arms" who are about to say goodbye. In the past two years, in this big family, we have learned from each other and helped each other. The song "Friends" sung by everyone at the New Year's Eve party still rings in our ears. Two years of classmate friendship made us reluctant to say goodbye.
Looking back on the past two years, we struggled to find a place in the study room together, burning the midnight oil, and left our figure in every corner of the campus. Every scene is vivid, as if it happened yesterday. I still remember many nights, I chatted with my roommates until late at night, from the past to the future, chatting with friends around me and chatting about interesting things that happened every day. Everyone is looking forward to their future life. I still remember their careful care and inaction when I was ill. Remember, we go shopping and eat snacks together. Commemorate ... thank god for letting us get together and know each other. At the time of parting, no matter how touching the words are, it is difficult to express my current mood. A thousand words can be summed up in one sentence: I love you very much.
All good things must come to an end. Because everyone has the same dream, let's get together on the campus of Hoda University. Now we're going to part. Although there are many disappointments, we hope everyone can realize their dreams in the new environment. Today's parting is to get together better tomorrow. Wave and cherish our friendship carefully. Say goodbye and wish each other well.
6. Ideal and reality
When I was a child, I had many ideals. I want to be a teacher, burning myself and illuminating others. Want to be a policeman, eliminate violence and protect one side's peace; I want to be a doctor, relieve the pain of patients and fight against various diseases. When I grow up, my ideal is simple: I want to earn money to make my parents live a good life. Now it's simpler, that is, it can make them happy. I can live my own happy life.
After reading this passage, I feel very experienced: with money, you can buy a house, but you can't buy a home; With money, you can buy clocks, but you can't buy time; With money, you can buy a bed, but not sleep; With money, you can buy books, but not knowledge; With money, you can buy medical services, but you can't buy health; With money, you can buy status, but not respect; With money, you can buy blood, but not life. Yes, people should actively create wealth, and more importantly, they should enjoy wealth happily, do their best and be content.
The ideal is beautiful, but the reality is cruel. I always thought that I could find a good job, earn a lot of money and be at leisure after graduation. But the reality is just the opposite. Only when I arrived at the company did I find that what I learned at school was far from enough, and I needed to learn from scratch in many aspects. Fortunately, my colleagues in the company are very kind and patiently explain to me. As a newcomer, you will always make such and such mistakes. Plus my personality is very strong, which puts a lot of pressure on myself. We should learn to relieve our own pressure, face the pressure at work correctly and face difficulties with a good attitude.
I am about to become a professional, and how to successfully change my role is the biggest reality I face. How to successfully integrate yourself into society?
First of all, be optimistic and explore the infinite power of your life. To maintain a good attitude, we must face everything with an optimistic and positive attitude. Self-confidence is the first secret of success. I believe you are a gold mine. Martin Luther King once said, "No one in this world can make you fall, as long as your own goals are still there." My goal now: constantly adjust myself to adapt to the society.
Furthermore, lifelong learning, and constantly improve their ability. How much you can get often depends on how much you know, and learning can change your destiny. Seize every learning opportunity around you, constantly enrich yourself and constantly improve your business level. Once you decide what you want to do, you should take winning as your belief and persevere. Success belongs to the persevering.
Secondly, learn to get along with others. As the saying goes: "There is no perfect individual, only a perfect team", what we learn more at school is how to complete our studies and tasks by ourselves. When it comes to work, I find that only when everyone in the team works hard can a task be successfully completed. Any mistake in any link will affect the progress of the whole work. Face others sincerely, and I believe you will get the same return. Know how to protect yourself from harm.
Last but not least. Take time out to exercise, health is the capital of the revolution. Without health, everything is empty. Especially in the IT industry, the pressure of working every day is great, and only a healthy body can always accept the challenge.
7. Closing remarks
Time flies, time flies. Two years passed quickly and graduation arrived as scheduled. Looking back on the past two years, there were successes, failures, laughter and tears. I always gain more than I lose, because I have paid a lot.
No matter success or failure, always keep a normal heart. Whenever mentality plays a big role, mentality can also be our outlook on life, values and world outlook. It can also be an attitude towards others, or it can be an attitude towards yourself. Treat others as you want them to treat you. Be polite to others and communicate with them with a sincere heart in exchange for sincere treatment. Be kind to yourself and cherish life.
Always believe that struggle changes fate, and dreams make us different! Always establish the consciousness of "never too old to learn". Don't deny yourself because of lack of talent, and don't hesitate because of what others say and do. I believe that struggle can achieve the future, although hard work may not be rewarded equally.
Two years is a short time, but I have left many good memories in my life. Only those who know how to cherish the past can grasp the present. The road of life is still very long, no matter what is waiting for us ahead, we should keep an optimistic attitude to face it.
I'm leaving, and finally I want to say goodbye, He Da. Goodbye, my friend.
On June 30th, 2008, I packed my bags.