1. After meeting and talking with a person for the first time, can you make a positive and accurate evaluation of his or her manners, knowledge and ability?

A, it's hard to say without B. C, I think so.

2. When you say goodbye to others, when and where will you meet again?

1. Proposed by the other party. B, nobody mentioned it. C, I suggested it.

When you meet someone for the first time, your expression is-

A, warm and sincere, natural and generous. B, carelessness.

C, nervous and embarrassed, shy.

4. Did you find a topic of common interest soon after greeting each other?

Yes, I like it very much. I think it's very difficult.

C, it must take a long time to find it.

5. When you talk to people, the sitting posture is usually-

A, knees together. B, spread your legs. C, lift "Erlang legs".

6. When talking to him (her), where do you look?

A, look directly into each other's eyes. B, look at other things or people.

C stared at their buttons and kept playing.

7. The topic you choose is-

They both like it. B, what is the other person interested in? C, what you love.

8. What time did you take through the first conversation?

Something like that B, he has more and I have less. C, I have more than him.

9. When you meet, the volume of your voice is always-

A, very low, making it harder for others to hear. B, soft and deep. C, the voice is high and enthusiastic.

10, are there many gestures?

A, make some gestures occasionally. Never tell me what to do. C. I often use gestures to supplement my oral expression.

1 1. How fast do you speak?

A, the frequency is quite high. B, very slow. C, moderate rhythm.

12, if someone talks about a topic that you are not interested in, you will-

A. interrupt and ask another question. B, appear dull and patient.

C, listen carefully and have fun.

Explain that A- 1, B-3 and C-5 are selected.

Score 0-22: The first effect is poor. Maybe you are surprised, because it is very likely that you just act according to your own habits. Your heart is very willing to leave a good impression on others, but your carelessness or thoughtlessness, or boring words, virtually outline your mistakes to others. It must be remembered that communication is an art, and art cannot be sloppy.

The score is 23-46: the first effect is average. There are some pleasant elements in your performance, but at the same time there are some accidental things that are not wonderful enough; This will make others have no bad impression on you, but it will not be very attractive. If you want to improve your charm, you must first attach psychological importance to trying to show your best image in the first round of "confrontation"

47-60 points: The first time it worked well. Your moderation, gentleness and cooperation left a deep impression on people who met for the first time. No matter whether the other person is a contact within your work scope or a contact in your private life, there is no doubt that they all have the desire to further contact with you. Your problem is only to pay attention to those who fall in love with you at first sight.