Aesthetic long-distance love: for those who have long-distance love and are about to have long-distance love
I hate to admit it, but it's a cruel fact.
Long-distance love has only two endings: either getting a certificate or becoming a stranger.
You met and fell in love when you were students. There will be twists and turns in the middle, but you still choose to be together.
But what about graduation?
Forced to split into different cities or even cross the ocean, the originally seemingly solid red line was easily broken. The vows of eternal love once made have become so fragile, and the rhetoric once boasted has become a joke in the face of various temptations. Seeing my friends around me defeated by their vows, I don't know whether to be thankful or sad for them.
But some people are still insisting.
It should be said that I am getting used to, getting used to a person's world.
I don't want to fall into a rut and repeat all kinds of life in your. Everyone is the same.
You are busy, so that you can live a full life. You will listen to music before going to bed, think about the past and look forward to the confused future. You have more friends and your life is getting better and better. You won't refuse a certain opposite sex to come to your life, but ambiguity will make you less lonely.
I just dare not think about TA.
It's long past the period of sweet talk, but I don't know what else to say when I look at the empty phone, right? I miss you, and I have long been told by the phrase "What are you doing?" Even saying I love you looks pale and powerless. Just briefly report today's activities every day. I dare not say much. Afraid of missing, distressed, quarreling.
Obviously, I am always afraid of being hurt too much when I am in love, and I am afraid to express my thoughts when I am in love.
The cruelest sentence I have ever seen is that long-distance relationships are the most feared, and feelings don't know why they are gone.
I want to say, that's because we both disguise ourselves too much.
I tried to live well, and as a result, it was really good.
Funny, right? There is no doubt that it is, but some people still insist.
However, for long-distance love, there is another helpless thing.
It's cold, so you can only be cold, not warm.
This is especially true for girls. When you stand alone in the ice and snow, is it a man's short message that keeps you warm, or a car full of hot coffee that moves you more?
When you are curled up in a chair and tortured by a cold, will you rely on a man's phone, or will a cup of hot water and antipyretics make you better?
When you are shivering in the downpour, is it a man's words that protect you from the wind, or a generous coat and umbrella that can protect you from the rain better?
When you are busy with all kinds of things every day, does a man's faith give you encouragement or a pair of strong palms give you more support?
I know your answer.
What lovers in different places fear most is "Where are you when I need you".
But some people are still insisting.
There are still some words I want to say to the boy who is unwilling to be lonely. I know you won't wait wholeheartedly.
I know you will have an affair with the girls around you, and I won't refuse girls to have an affair with you.
I know what you said and did with other girls, but you must keep it from her.
I know you are not as noble as you claim to be.
You can scold me, but I think you can face your heart. We are all the same.
You will say that what you really care about is her, which is true.
I'm not making excuses for your infidelity, I'm just stating a fact.
Restrain yourself, or there is a saying that deal with a man as he deals with you.
What lovers in different places hate most is gnashing their teeth, which is nothing more than being wearing a big cuckold.
Yes, but some people still insist.
The following words are for those who persist but are a little shaken. Do you really think you will break up after graduation? Let's separate it now. Long pain is better than short pain.
You really don't want to think about it. Do you think you can live a good life? Then ignore the insTAnt heartache when you see the ta photo.
Do you really think that the other party will not last that day in the foreseeable future? Then you can't do it, find someone who really satisfies your heart.
There is no such thing as persuasion, because long-distance love can't be shaken at all.
The last sentence, to those who are trying to persist, when you feel that the love between you is gradually disappearing, I hope it will be replaced by family.
Aesthetic long-distance love: long-distance love, please love deeply.
If we are in the same class, study together, have classes together, make tea together, and take notes together, it doesn't matter if we leave for one second, there will be another second;
If we are in a school, we can go to the library, the open-air cinema, the canteen, the moon, 800 laps and hand in hand in the Woods. I haven't seen you for a day, at least tomorrow, and at least we can graduate together.
If you are only in a city, you can also go shopping, eat ice, play video games, take the bus and take the elevator together. You can think of a fun place in a small shop in the city together, and you will miss it if you don't see it for a week. After all, you are not free every week. Every holiday is a holiday.
However, some people are obsessed with it. Never think, never forget. Dare not miss, because dare not forget.
But some hands can't be held for a long time, and some reluctant kisses can only be on the phone.
I bought a new hairpin, and I don't know when I can get his praise. It's raining. Did someone give him an umbrella? There is meat in the bowl that he likes to eat before he remembers that he can't clip it to him; I woke up at night because I dreamed that there was another person wearing clothes next to her. Shopping hurts, and distressed people no longer remind me to go home; Tired of studying, I want to pinch her fleshy face and tell her that you don't have to lose weight, you are not fat at all; If you have a strange idea, keep it, tell him when you call, and then listen to him. Ok, see you next time.
Next time, how long is the next time?
A person wraps his coat tightly, a person blows the wind, a person bears another ideal, a person struggles for a person's promise, a person holds his right hand in his left hand, a person is strong, a person sticks to his faith, and a person waits, waiting for a word: together when we meet next time!
? Distance is an examination paper, which is used to measure whether the oath of love will be realized in the end. We are still learning the language of communication for love, learning to understand without tears. When we learn to fly, fly through the night, and pass the test, we will graduate from loneliness, and we will exchange more efforts for more happiness. ?
Long distance love, please love deeply, please don't let go of my hand!
Aesthetic long-distance love: This is the best long-distance love I have ever seen.
In a blink of an eye, it has been more than ten years since I graduated from high school. The reserved program of every class reunion is to take stock of high school couples, and now there are only a few couples left.
When I was in college, everyone was very young, and I had a lot of leisure time and youth that I couldn't let go of. I am very enthusiastic about the reunion of high school classmates. I basically guarantee once a year, and the number is relatively complete. Everyone gets together, just like old friends reunited after a long separation, greeting each other and partying together.
Slowly, the number of classmates' parties is getting less and less. After graduation, everyone is busy making a living, and it is getting harder and harder to be together.
At a recent party, only a few female students took their children to attend, which looked more like a family gathering of girlfriends. Looking at the girls who were once lush and now mothers, everyone was filled with emotion. After a big meal, everyone still enjoys the enduring topic of small talk. Those young lovers in those days, who has passed the test of long-distance love and overcome all difficulties to make it a positive result?
We are saddened to find that there were more than a dozen couples in those days, but now they are all well, and only two have entered the marriage hall.
One pair is a combination of top professionals. The other pair is the love of urban gold couples.
Next, I want to tell the story of the golden couple Dajun and Mingxi's long-distance love for more than ten years.
In fact, Dajun and Mingxi knew each other as early as junior high school. Both of them are music majors and often go to the piano room to play erhu together.
Yes! Go to the piano room, not play the piano, but play the erhu. At that time, the musical instruments of music majors in experimental middle schools were basically erhu.
We are all puzzled about this. Why do you all like playing erhu so much? When erhu is mentioned, people will always think of A Bing, a blind man, playing "Two Springs Reflecting the Moon" sadly.
At this time, Dajun and Mingxi will be very helpless and say, no way, our professional teacher plays the erhu best.
By the third day, everyone is studying hard, and they can't wait to hang their heads and study at night, in order to sharpen their heads and be admitted to the best key high school in the city. Nature has no leisure to fall in love.
During the senior high school entrance examination, Dajun and Mingxi failed to get into the best high school in the market. Both of them went to the most unpopular music, Meitegao.
As soon as I entered high school, I passed the tense stage of preparing for the senior three, and everyone relaxed. Many students have been in love.
As early as junior high school, Dajun had a good impression on Mingxi, but he was too nervous to study and didn't care about falling in love.
At the beginning of military training, Dajun launched a crazy pursuit of Mingxi in turn.
My savage girlfriend became popular in China in 2002.
At that time, Mingxi was really beautiful, with bright eyes and white teeth, and a cicada's head flying with moths and eyebrows. Her skin is much more pure and beautiful than that of Gianna Jun. Although she is straightforward and has a little personality, she is gentle and lovely. Dajun has more affection for Mingxi than Che Taixian in the movie! The most important thing is that he is one hundred times bigger and more handsome than Che Taixian.
They are like conjoined babies every day, inseparable. Of course, more often, Dajun is like Lafayette? Toshiko? Bow down and admire Mingxi in every way.
Many times, male students don't like it. The army was born? Afraid of his wife? The appearance of strong protest, you open a man 17 feet tall, and you are afraid that she will make a movie with a little girl?
From time to time, the great gentleman should hold his head high and hold his chest high, and say in his powerful and magnetic voice, who said I was afraid of her? Is that my hobby? As I said on the internet, smart men will spoil their women to the point where other men can't accept her smelly temper. This is my strategy. Do you think it's weird?
In this way, Dajun still pampers his own Ming queen as beautiful as flowers and pure as jade.
Of course, sometimes we fight. Both Mingxi and Dajun are witty and spontaneous. But Mingxi was stubborn and refused to lower his proud head. Every time the great king gives in, his killer is singing? You and I agreed that when we quarrel, we should stop immediately? He always has a way to make Mingxi cloudy and clear.
In the third year of high school, the music class was dissolved, and Dajun and Mingxi were assigned to two art classes.
In this way, the two began the earliest and shortest long-distance love.
At that time, Dajun would come to our class to talk to Mingxi and make her happy during almost every class break.
In order to be admitted to the same university as Mingxi, when taking the music major exam, Dajun chose almost the same school as Mingxi. He is simply Mingxi's assistant.
In the face of everyone's doubts, Dajun embraced Mingxi with satisfaction and said, I don't have any big dreams, I just want to stay with my Ming queen all the time.
However, because of God's teasing, Mingxi didn't expect the professional admission notice of his favorite university, but the army accompanying the exam got the admission notice and won the first place in Ningxia University.
That scene was like the black soil that accompanied Baiyun to practice running and was accidentally called the Olympic torchbearer.
Mingxi's pride shattered all over the floor. She cried silently, crying and chanting. I worked so hard that my grades were among the best at ordinary times and I did well in the exam. Why did you win the first place? Great, you have seen the scenery, show off in an ostentatious manner! Will you dislike me if you succeed in your career?
Dajun looked at Mingxi and cried, and his heart was broken. He tried his best to comfort Mingxi. My dear queen, please don't cry. Isn't it the first place in Ningxia University? I don't care, I only care about you. I will never leave you. Does this stupid notice make your eyes uncomfortable? I'll tear it up now, so that after you see your sadness, I won't go with you wherever you go. Dajun is always a follower of the Queen.
Seeing that Dajun really tore up the notice by hand, Mingxi was scared and snatched it away. She wiped her tears and said, You are crazy. How many people dream of this notice? You have to tear it up. I forbid you to tear it!
Actually, I just feel sad at the thought of leaving you soon. At that moment, proud and charming Mingxi was as gentle as Xiaohua Mall, and I felt sorry for her.
Dajun grabbed Mingxi and gently touched her head, saying that separation is temporary. We will get married as soon as we graduate and will never be separated for the rest of our lives.
From then on, they began a long-distance relationship for four years.
Like other long-distance lovers, the way to maintain a relationship is telephone, video and QQ chat.
In order to consolidate their feelings, Dajun and Mingxi agreed to travel to xi on May 1 and1every year.
Poor students don't have much money, so they take the green leather train, Mingxi takes the bus from Qingdao, and the army starts from Yinchuan. At that time, the difference between the two trains they took was twenty minutes.
Every time you wait for Mingxi with great excitement, these twenty minutes are simply wonderful for him. At the thought of meeting his beloved girl soon, Dajun got excited and sang Mingxi's favorite song "You are my beloved girl", and people around him didn't care at all.
In this way, the single cycle continued until Mingxi got off the bus and ran to herself. At that time, like Yi Ping and Shu Huan in the rain, they flew to each other and kissed at the parting station. At that moment, I hope that time will stop and stay in a happy moment forever.
In 2008, Mingxi graduated from Dajun one year ahead of schedule. After much deliberation, she decided to find a job in Yinchuan and spend a year with the army.
That year, the two were like young couples reunited after a long separation, cherishing the hard-won time together. Dajun was surprised to find that Mingxi was much gentler.
At the end of 2008, I met Dajun and Mingxi in the shopping mall in my hometown. To tell you the truth, I can't recognize Mingxi until I have met the Great King. Her change really surprised me! A pure black silky hair hangs down to the waist, delicate pink makeup and slim pink coat make Mingxi's face full of spring breath. She gently took your arm, smiled and looked forward to it. Sometimes they look at each other tenderly, and sometimes they whisper to each other.
Looking at this pair of wall people in front of me, I suddenly want to fall in love
I have always believed in being single, and I had two special urges to fall in love. On one occasion, on the eve of the college entrance examination, Mingxi cried because she didn't get the notice from her favorite university, and the gentleman comforted her in every way, even when she was about to tear up the notice.
Another time, at present, the two are full of love, and you are jealous of others.
In September 2009, Mingxi got the opportunity to go to Hong Kong for a high-paying job. After graduating from Dajun University, he was forcibly sent back to his hometown in Shandong by his parents, who hoped that he could be a music teacher in a small county.
Mingxi had already flown to Hong Kong to work. She wants to earn more money while she is young and improve her family's economic conditions.
The army passed the teacher qualification examination under the coercion and inducement of parents, and will soon become an excellent people's teacher.
At this time, Mingxi made a condition, either to go to Hong Kong to accompany her or to break up.
Hearing Mingxi break up, the great monarch's heart is broken. At that moment, he discovered that Mingxi was his oxygen, and he could not do without her.
The army showed its cards to its parents very firmly. I can't live without enlightened hope. I must go to Hong Kong to find her.
In order to work in a company with Mingxi, before going to Hong Kong, Dajun found a job as a waiter in a hot pot city in a small county, and wanted to accumulate some work experience so that he could go to Hong Kong and work with Mingxi in Fly with Me.
In this way, high flyers, the charming music department of a famous university, became a runner in the hot pot city, tired like a dog every day, and smelled of hot pot that could not be dispersed for a long time.
Relatives and friends are very puzzled about this. Is it worth it to let a relaxed, comfortable, decent and stable teacher not do it and tire himself like this every day?
Every time you smile, as long as you can stay with Mingxi for a lifetime, it's worth it!
Half a year passed quickly. When Dajun didn't come to Hong Kong to find himself, Mingxi broke up again.
The army hung up the phone, packed their bags, and flew to Hong Kong with 3,000 yuan earned from working in Hotpot City in their pockets.
In Hong Kong, the proud army still starts from the bottom waiters. Although he works hard every day, he is happy.
Every time I see him in a circle of friends, all kinds of fancy show love, and their sweet figures are all over the country, even in the United States. Every photo of Dajun is so happy that his mouth is behind his ear. Mingxi, who snuggled up to him, is still as happy as falling into a honey pot, just like the lush girl who was spoiled by love more than ten years ago.
Yes! For women, sweet love is the most effective skin care product in the world.
In 20 13, Dajun, who was promoted and given a salary increase and was proud of the spring breeze, prepared a very surprising marriage proposal ceremony for Mingxi under the witness of his colleagues.
Just like the vulgar bridge in the idol drama, the handsome guy in a suit and tie holds a big bunch of roses in his hand and kneels on one knee, and Mingxi cries with joy. Fourteen years later, they finally came together through hardships.
Last weekend in Zhuhai, I was lucky enough to meet Dajun and Mingxi again. I haven't seen you for years. Dajun lost a lot of weight, Mingxi gained a lot of weight, but still beautiful.
That kind of beauty can't be cared for by any expensive cosmetics, and it is the great magic of love.
Dajun still smiled and asked me mercilessly, just like in middle school, have I changed? I've lost more than 20 kilograms, and the meat is on my Mingxi.
Mingxi Chen jiao said, go, you have ulterior motives and feed me so fat.
The army smiled. Children look better when they are fat. Now that you are grown up, you should eat more.
Seeing that they are still as affectionate as they were ten years ago, my envious saliva is about to gush out.
? I envy you both. After more than ten years, you are still like a young couple who just fell in love. Teach me a few secrets to keep love fresh quickly. ? I said enviously.
Mingxi is a little embarrassed to say that in fact, we often quarrel, and the way to solve our contradictions is to quarrel.
It is inevitable that two people quarrel together, and quarreling, scolding and fighting is true love! I said, are there any other secrets? Many people say that long-distance relationships are particularly painful, difficult to survive, and the success rate is particularly low.
The gentleman said with a serious face that long-distance love really tests the feelings of two people. Two people are tired of being together every day and can't understand that kind of long-distance relationship at all? I don't regret that my belt is getting wider and wider, which makes people haggard for Iraq. ? Be lovesick. In fact, I think couples should be apart for a while to experience long-distance love, because they never know whether they are in love or not until they are apart. That's why there are. A little farewell is better than a wedding? Hmm! Don't say that long-distance relationships are hard to succeed. In fact, it is often because you don't love enough. Because I don't love enough, I use long-distance love as an excuse to break up.
Mingxi added shyly, I think travel is the secret of keeping long-distance relationships fresh. Since we went to college, we have traveled more than half of China and also visited the United States. Usually, as soon as we feel that life is dull and our passion is about to run out, we will pack our bags and travel.
Traveling is really amazing, looking at the footprints and figures of two people, walking through one city after another and crossing one strange street after another. That kind of feeling is wonderful, as if two people have experienced a lot together, and they have been integrated and can no longer be separated. If plain and trivial life is like boiled water, then travel is the best antidote.
Looking at Mingxi and talking about Kan Kan, Dajun said with satisfaction that my biggest dream now is that Mingxi can give me a daughter, so that my life will be perfect. I will spend my whole life with my two big babies, and I want nothing more.
I laughed. Don't you have any musical dreams? You have a good appearance and excellent singing skills. Why don't you join the Voice of China?
The great gentleman went over and said, I have no musical dreams. My biggest dream is to stay with Mingxi all the time. I can't join the Voice of China. If Queen Ming becomes popular and busy every day, who will take care of her?
Mingxi told me gently that his singing is really nice, and I like listening to him best. In fact, he won prizes in many singing competitions in Hong Kong.
I saw some kind of light in Mingxi's eyes, and I knew that the bright eyes in her eyes were her heartfelt love for Dajun.
Only true love can make a woman so radiant when talking about her man.