Before I came to the university, I heard all kinds of rumors about the university. To sum up, it means that the university is a half society, and the people and things in it are no longer simple. Listening to this kind of words too much will inevitably affect your judgment and make you feel that there really is no sincere friendship and love in college, but it is not.
Everyone has experienced a lot of friendship or love before coming to college. Without comparison, there will be no harm. Probably, those friends used to be tolerant and spoiled you. But it's different when you go to college. You're an adult yourself. Besides, everyone is more mature, experienced different things and handled problems in different ways. Before high school, most people in your circle grew up in the same city, and their living habits and ways of dealing with problems were similar, so it would be easier to get along. When we arrive at the university, we all come from all corners of the country, and the regional culture we come into contact with is very different, so it is inevitable that we need to run in and be tolerant when we get along. If you are lucky and meet a friend who is easy to get along with, then you may think that people in college can really make friends, but if you are unlucky, you will instinctively reject friends in college, and over time you will not be able to integrate with them.
More sincerely, many times we wish we were the spoiled one, or the one who often plays tricks on others. Many people treat suitors with a playful attitude. If you think so, the other party will not feel stupid more or less, so everyone will perfunctory each other! In college, you should learn to be alone. Many times you are alone, and no one will accompany you 24 hours a day. In high school, we had classes together every day, ate and slept together, and had a lot of time to play together. After a long time, our feelings will be cultivated. In college, it's different. Everyone has a lot of free time and rarely sees it without an appointment.
No matter in any field, there are sincere and beautiful feelings, but only a few people will meet them. After all, this feeling is getting less and less now.