Who should pay for a couple's date?
Traditionally, when boys and girls fall in love, it is boys who actively pursue girls. As the saying goes, there are only vines in the mountains, and there are no vines. Therefore, the traditional idea that men pursue women is deeply rooted in people's hearts, so when men and women communicate, boys should take the initiative in everything, including spending money.
Some boys and girls date with AA system, but this way will make both sides feel a little embarrassed. Although they are friends, they are lovers after all. Adopting AA system will give people a sense of unfamiliarity, and distinguish between interests and psychological distance.
Boys like to save face, so they will spend money on some expenses first. There is no need for girls to rush to settle accounts with boys in public. This kind of politeness will give people a feeling of being unworthy and not owing to each other, but it will cause psychological pressure and contradictions to boys. Another way, for example, boys invite girls to dinner, and girls can say, let's go to the movies and buy movie tickets.
It is very likely that the boys spent money on their previous dates, but there is no need to say so. Give me the papaya and give it back to Joan. The next time we eat, girls will scramble to pay the bill. Girls can buy small gifts for boys, or find any special snacks recently, buy them in advance, and then naturally invite boys to taste them. Actually don't care too much about love. Only when you really give and are willing can you get the harvest and return of love.
How do couples save money on dating?
1, choose a familiar place.
You'd better choose a place you are familiar with, because dating in a familiar environment is easy to control everything around you. Girls are passive when dating, and they follow wherever boys take them. At the same time, boys can take this opportunity to prepare some small surprises for girls, which can save money and leave a good impression on each other.
2. Group buying is more affordable.
The best way for boys to save money on dating is to buy a group. Now you can not only buy food, but also buy tickets for many scenic spots and movies, and the price is much cheaper than that in the store. Boys had better book movie tickets, restaurants, etc. In advance, it can also save a lot of money.
3. Dating at home is more economical.
Couples should try all kinds of dating methods together, and every time they go out, they will be bored. It is also good to date at home once in a while. Two people go to the supermarket to buy snacks, ingredients, etc. Cook at home in advance and have a candlelight dinner for two. Not romantic and economical?
Going out for a picnic is both romantic and economical.
Isn't it boring to go to the movies every date? Two people can try a picnic. Prepare food and drinks for the picnic at home in advance. Boys can make sandwiches, sushi, bake cakes and so on for girls at home. These desserts are all essential food for a picnic. If you don't think it's enough, you can match it with some snacks and fruits that girls like to eat. It's economical and romantic.
The best consumption pattern of dating couples;
The first mode of spending money between couples is that all of them are borne by one party, which is abnormal. Of course, even if this party has money and can afford it, it cannot always be borne by one person. At first, it may be for your own face, and the other party will be willing to pay. After a long time, the other party will be unbalanced.
The second mode of spending money between couples is AA system, which many couples like and is also a very reasonable way to spend money. After all, feelings need to be paid by both parties, not just one party, whether it is money or feelings. This consumption pattern is more suitable for couples who have just confirmed their love relationship, so that they will not be too uncomfortable to get along with each other. There is no one who takes advantage of whom.
The third mode of spending money is that both parties spend money, but this mode of spending money is more conducive to the development of feelings between couples than AA system. Boys invite girls to dinner, and girls can invite him back to the movies or buy some snacks. This mode of spending money is more conducive to the development of mutual feelings. After all, you are a couple. If the calculation is too clear like AA system, it may be a bit strange.