This is the crux of the problem. Immature psychology will inevitably lead to some misunderstandings in college students' sexual behavior.
We look at this problem from the perspective of men and women.
For girls, sexual behavior in love can be roughly attributed to such reasons.
First, cater to boyfriends. The essential difference between men and women makes men often ask for things of both sexes. In college students' love, the appearance of sexual behavior is often based on the requirements of men. At this time, most girls choose to cater to each other because of their boyfriends' needs.
Second, to prove that you love each other. Compared with boys, girls obviously regard sexual behavior as more sacred than boys. Because of this, a girl who loves deeply often shows her sincerity through sex.
Third, mature desire. As we have said, college students are adults by age. Therefore, female students in this age group have a very strong desire for maturity, and it is for this reason that they will choose to make bold attempts when dealing with sexual behavior.
These are the three main reasons summarized from the perspective of girls.
Next, there are boys. There are three main reasons why boys have sex.
First, completely stabilize the relationship. Boys in love are often the ones who take the initiative, and the ultimate goal of initiative is, of course, to be completely with girls. At this time, sexual behavior has become their ultimate weapon to retain women.
Second, possessiveness. Of course, men and women are equal, but the biggest difference between men and women is that men possess each other more strongly than women in love, which urges boys to have sex urgently when they are in love.
Third, vanity. When college students fall in love, boys often regard having sex with their girlfriends as their own capital, and such vanity has played a role in fueling sexual behavior.
The above are three differences based on the differences between men and women.
Then, there are several reasons why college students have sex in love, and these reasons belong to men and women, which are summarized as follows.
First, really love each other. In love, if one party really loves the other party, it is a wonderful thing to have sex with the other party, which will naturally come.
Second, physiological needs. Physical maturity makes college students often eager to treat men and women secretly, and it is this curiosity and demand psychology that urges college students to try sex.
Third, the concept is open. In the new era, many boys and girls have an open attitude towards gender issues, and it is no longer their view that men and women are not close.
Having listed so much, let's discuss our final topic: Should college students have sex when they are in love?
Personally, I think it's a matter of opinion.
It makes sense to say no, first of all, college students are obviously not fully mature psychologically, and their consideration of problems is not comprehensive. Premature sex is likely to bring trouble to their future. Secondly, the primary task of college students is to study, and college sexual behavior is bound to have an impact on students' learning. In addition, unmarried sex is likely to cause certain trauma to the body, such as unplanned pregnancy without measures.
It makes sense. After all, college students are adults. In addition to psychological immaturity, moderate safe sex can obviously enhance the relationship between husband and wife and make love sweeter. Of course, certain sexual contact has a positive effect on men and women's understanding of the opposite sex, which is also a mature way.