In a love relationship, mystery is like a condiment for couples. As long as the spices are still there, everyone will keep curious and expecting their lover. If spices are gone, boring daily life will often crush love.
Therefore, if you want to make your own road to preservation go smoothly, reconstructing the mystery has become an important factor. Next, I can teach you how to rebuild the mystery of emotion in three processes:
1. image
There is no doubt that the external brand image will indeed add a lot to a person's popularity. People are emotional animals and have vanity. If your lover's friend can't help praising you when he sees you, then his vanity will be greatly considered.
By changing the current brand image to create mystery, this method firmly believes that many women have seen it, but how should it actually be changed? Generally speaking, it can be summed up in one sentence-subverting the past.
For example, you are used to gentle and elegant long hair, so why not try short hair that is lively, lovely and smart now? Your clothes are used to intellectual elegance, so it's good to try a fresh design style now.
After changing the brand image, you can send some travel photos in the WeChat circle of friends. The key is that there is no scenery. Is emotional counseling a fraud? It depends on your changed appearance. Today, when you see a brand-new you in the WeChat circle of friends, your heart will definitely fluctuate because of you.
2. Main points
In the first point, I once said that if your brand image can make your lover get the envious eyes of others, then his vanity will definitely be greatly considered, and of course he will cherish you more.
Simply put, you should make yourself an easy target. In addition to external dressing, essential talent, university questions and hobbies can all be the highlights of attracting ex-boyfriends again.
Only in this way can talents and university requirements be cultivated, and you who are eager to stay can't stand waiting for such a long time, so learning and cultivating a personal hobby is a shortcut to produce bright spots.
The study time of this personal hobby is not suitable for too long. It can be simple floral art, fine art painting and pottery making, with a plastic arts atmosphere, and it can show some talents without long-term study and training.
3.
I often hear a saying that interesting souls are all the same, and people with stories are one in a million. In real life, a woman who knows jokes and can take over is always more popular than a dull and taciturn woman.
You talked to your ex-boyfriend for a long time, so everyone knows each other's way of thinking and speaking, so it is easy for each other to lose the passion of chatting with each other.
Therefore, if you learn to make your speech more interesting and unexpected, then he will be more interested in chatting with you. To ensure this, you must learn to knock down the first thought in your subconscious.
For example, when you have been watching, you have been subconsciously praising the beauty and grandeur of the sea. Then _ after knocking down your first thought, you can get rid of it naturally and say, "I don't know if there is a mystery of water monsters under this sea!" " "
Naturally, a basin friend who is full of logical thinking and bouncing is likely to say a lot. This kind of words may be ridiculed by ex-boyfriends, but it doesn't matter. Besides teasing, he's already impressed you.