Of course, if you start a career first, whether you are a boy or a girl, you must live a good life, stabilize your work and career, and then talk about getting married. Is responsible for the future family, because material is the foundation of life, and economic foundation determines the superstructure. When you have nothing, you can't talk about love, feelings, responsibilities, living expenses and so on. And the cost of getting married is higher than living alone, especially after having children. Daily necessities after marriage, garage loan, children's milk powder money, tuition fees, especially children's education investment, mortgage and car loan will all be a very big expense, and there will be more trivial family chores affecting your life. At that time, if you have a stable job and can solve some problems, your life will be much easier. When your job is still unstable, but you get married and have children early, what can you do to solve the inevitable problems in your life? On the other hand, do both boys and girls want to meet someone they like without a stable job? At that time, you may be embarrassed to tell your partner because you don't even have a stable job, or plan your future with her, or even feel inferior because you are shy when pursuing. And girls, do you want the other party to ask you to sacrifice your life for marriage and just be a housewife after marriage? Times have changed, and there is no inevitable division of labor between men and women.

Another situation is that feelings are already difficult to manage, let alone marriage. When you just graduate, the most efficient way is to live a good life, plan your work, settle down, and then talk about feelings and even marriage. Feelings are still difficult to manage. Getting married is a matter for two families, and we even have to consider the future child support, the balance between family and work, and so on. The cost of marriage is high, and everyone yearns for a better marriage. Everyone always wants to be single for life, so why not live a good life and meet the other half?