Passion is a sexual desire component in love and an emotional infatuation; In layman's terms, it hurts when we meet (some people may blush and their hearts beat faster, etc.) ) and strongly want to be with each other, eager to combine with each other.
Intimacy refers to the warm experience that can be caused in a love relationship; Simply put, as long as two people are together, they will feel warm, close to each other, like each other, understand each other, support each other and respect each other.
Commitment refers to the decision, expectation or guarantee to maintain the relationship, which is mutual recognition and commitment to this love relationship, including loyalty and responsibility to love.
What kind of love is the most stable? Psychologists believe that love with three elements is the most stable. Only with close love can two people be comfortable together, but without passion and commitment, it is difficult to last long. So friendship is not love, and liking is not love. However, friendship and love can be transformed into love to some extent.
Only passion, no commitment and no intimacy can't be called love. I often see some netizens say "Lu Han is my husband" on the Internet. This is a typical infatuation without intimacy and commitment. Is this the reality of love? The answer is no, after all, Lu Han may not even know the existence of this person.
Only commitment, love without passion and intimacy can't last long. This is like an apple with a shiny appearance. It looks so attractive, but when you open it, it is black-hearted. The most famous is Zhang Xueliang's life with Yu Fengzhi, Yu Fengzhi and other Zhang Xueliang. However, Zhang Xueliang stayed with Miss Zhao Si all her life, and never shared a room with her first wife until her death.