I don't know if you have noticed that the two keywords "university" and "regret" are searched on the browser, and "regret not going to university" pops up the most. It seems that there are too many people in this world who regret not going to college, but few people mention regretting going to college.
So, do you regret going to college?
I regret it.
But now when I write this article, I believe I have shaken my hand with regret. Next, I will output some thoughts and opinions about "regretting going to college". No negative energy, no chicken soup; It's not selling anxiety, nor mental internal friction.
This is just the idea of a private college student.
Two.
Actually, I didn't ask myself this question when I first went to college. After all, no one regrets it when they come up. But with the rapid passing of my freshman year, I think too much in my mind every day, and I am gradually becoming more and more dissatisfied with the present environment and life. When I asked myself again and again what happened this day, I realized that I regretted going to this university.
Since you regret it, there is always a reason. I found out these factors that led to my regret, analyzed them one by one, and finally came to the conclusion that I can't regret, I dare not regret, and I don't regret.
Let's see how I brainwashed myself!
Three.
One reason for regret: I didn't get into a good university. To put it bluntly, my current school is too poor or too ordinary, and high-quality resources or opportunities often exist in those double-class, 985,265,438+065,438+0. An ordinary university has ordinary teachers, ordinary students, low school platform and few resources, and the future of most people is clear at a glance.
I am not a person who wants to be ordinary all my life. I'm still a little ambitious. I feel that four years of college has accounted for a lot of success in my life, so I regret not going to a good university. It's a fact that two books run by the people can't be changed, but I also realize other more important things. It is not necessary for schools, teachers, parents and leaders to provide you with a springboard.
A truly great man is his own springboard. Although you are at a disadvantage, you can create an advantage. University and even life, investing in yourself and learning to use yourself is the long-term solution. Tracing back to the source, the springboard is always in your own hands.
Reason 2: I didn't study hard in high school. Judging from my short life experience of 19 years, it will be better for most people to learn this thing and do it with all their strength. As the old saying goes, quantitative change leads to qualitative change. But things in this world can really be obtained for nothing.
Some people say that the college entrance examination is a watershed. What watershed? From the moment it ended, there are fewer and fewer things that people can do well by their own efforts. In high school, I really didn't abandon all other thoughts for various reasons, so I naturally regret it now. But I also understand that learning is lifelong. If you want to learn in college, you should also learn when you step into society. It is never too old to learn. Not only can you get knowledge from textbooks, but people who go further will understand that experience is more important than education.
Not all people with good academic qualifications can succeed, but experienced people must know how to succeed better. Is the university really a knowledge of learning knowledge? I think you can learn everything you are interested in, not just textbooks. Interest is the best teacher of mankind. A wide range of dabbling will broaden your knowledge, enhance your perspective and enhance your cognition. So now many college students are engaged in jobs that are completely inconsistent with their majors. This is because they learned a lot of things they are interested in during their college years. Although it has nothing to do with their major, it doesn't prevent you from getting benefits easily when your classmates are struggling to find a job.
Life is very long, and there are many opportunities for learning in the future. Everyone has different pursuits. Some people think that the postgraduate entrance examination pursues stability, while others want to break out of their own world. Everyone has his own ambition, and everyone has his own path.
Reason three: I didn't pursue what I wanted. I really don't know how many times in my life. In high school, I found that I loved movies and wanted to be a director, but I never thought about it in the past. I didn't take the choreography exam, and I didn't take the art exam. I admit that I didn't give myself this choice at that time, but although the results of the college entrance examination were not so good, the art exam was passable. Plus, my writing is not bad, and I love movies from my heart. It should be no problem to go to a better communication university.
In this way, I can still learn what I am interested in after four years of college, and maybe I can engage in related work after graduation. So I regret it. I regret that I drew this pie for myself after I knew it.
I went to college and studied a major that I was not interested in, thinking that four years of youth would be dedicated to a major that has no passion and no soul for me. I thought about it, too. What if I don't go to college? I have no capital. However, college is not everyone's way out, but it is definitely the best choice for ordinary people. I am an ordinary person. I am also afraid of my parents' disappointment, that I can't support myself, that I can't catch any dreams and reality, that I am less than 20 years old and wake up in tears like a middle-aged man in his forties, and that I will eventually be empty-handed. Like a miracle, there can only be one great man. Bill Gates can drop out of Harvard and start Microsoft. I can't. I just need to go to college honestly.
So ordinary people should not have the courage to choose not to go to college.
The more you grow up, the more you understand that life is really hammered out slowly. And the more people are in trouble, the more they want to break free. If you can't do it yourself, you just want someone to help you. So many people are eager to meet noble people and take you out of your misery and tide over the difficulties. I once had this idea, but now I know that I am my savior. No matter whether you regret going to college or not, whether you are satisfied with the present situation or not, you should act quickly, change your mentality, set goals, implement them firmly, and abandon your distractions. One day you will succeed.