A: I think college students are all adults, right? Therefore, they are responsible for their words and deeds. Therefore, whether men and women should have sex is also controversial. As parents, teachers and even others, we can only make a kind reminder.

For example, it is best not to be too intimate. After all, you are still students. When you really feel strong, then you must take safety measures. If, indeed, safety measures are not taken, people will die. Then, please think clearly: this is a human life, do you want it? Get ready to get married if you want. If conditions permit. If not, please go to a regular hospital for an abortion.

Don't go to bed on a whim and then dry wood meets fire. After that, I have no way or ability to solve the problem. On the other hand, this is a very sad thing. After all, people are advanced animals. If you are idle, please don't just care about your kidney and ignore your heart, okay?

Q: Is reality betraying marriage, or does the mobile phone destroy the family?

A: I think it is innocent. Marriage is a problem of marriage itself. Even in ancient times, in modern times-without mobile phones, marriage may not be happy for everyone.

But it is undeniable that the existence of mobile phones makes many couples less able to communicate. Almost all of them are brushing their mobile phones, and there are few sincere conversations. This is also the most terrible place of marriage, and everyone can't have the same thoughts and decisions. No need to discuss, completely casual. This is a home, but it has become a world for two people.

Need a mobile phone. How inconvenient is it to not use them now? I don't need to tell you, you know.

But don't be too busy playing with your mobile phone, and don't ignore the existence of the other half. She (he) is more important than the mobile phone, but the reality has become particularly sad-you spend more time on the mobile phone than on the other half. Taking care of one thing and losing another, even he doesn't care. You didn't betray your family, but you didn't focus on your family and your partner. This is more destructive than mobile phones, which is immeasurable.

Q: My boss is ambiguous. What should I do?

A: You said that the person in charge of this department has business dealings with you. Is this exchange done with the door open or closed? If the door is closed, you should be vigilant. Please prepare the recording if necessary. Afraid of entanglement, I can't tell. If the door is open, you can also record. But at least it is relatively safe.

And he is only the head of another department, not your direct leader. You can find other reasons to see if your immediate leader can change a person. In this way, you also saved a lot of trouble.

However, he just said that he would raise you as his daughter-is this a joke? Or did you take it seriously? As for the expression pack, it's dirty. Just for yourself or for others? If it is the former, your intuition is not wrong. If it is the latter, then he is essentially a man with a mouthful of driving a train. Leave him alone. He didn't take it personally.

Q: Are class reunions really all purposeful?

A: I hardly attend class reunion, which is also an instinctive resistance. I didn't have many good friends when I was studying. After work, it is enough to have very good colleagues. After all, it is fragmented. It would be better if you were both a classmate and a colleague. But not everyone has this fate, so don't force it.

As for the purpose of attending the reunion. I often hear a saying: reunion, reunion and breakup are a pair. What a lonely and boring person would rob a boyfriend or girlfriend through a class meeting.

Attending class reunions is rarely to show off wealth. Showing off wealth in front of classmates is not a skill. It is also possible to simply catch up with the past. Long time no see. Look at everyone, this is a necessary emotional maintenance. After all, I am still a classmate, not an irrelevant stranger.

The most reasonable thing is to meet your first lover. I wonder, how has she (he) been these years? That is, simply meet and know each other. As for whether the old love will rekindle after meeting-that is unknown. If we break up, that's probably it. Unmarried, undecided or not, after all, there are still opportunities to choose from each other. Married, this is cheating. Of course not, right?

If you are not firm enough, I advise you not to attend the reunion. Easy to get into trouble, really.